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Thank you for your prayers and support.

Jeanne Mayell
February 5, 2010 at 11:10am

Dear Natalie, Tanya, Damon, and Nick's Father,

Today I am thinking of you and your precious Nick. He continues on in spirit, burning brighter than ever.

Jeanne

Peter Warren Huston
January 7, 2010 at 3:50pm

Dear Garza family and friends,

I send my deepest regards. Hardly a day passes but we who knew Nick at Middlebury remember him.

Wren Huston

Claire Solomon
November 10, 2009 at 8:28pm

I may not have known you well, but whenever I think about you I can't help but laugh. I remember your trying relationship with Ms. Bernard and your antics in class. This being said, the memories that make me saddest almost all include music. This week in my college choir we just so happened to perform the very song that we performed at your memorial, Sure on this Shining Night. That memorial proved how even with your passing, you united those you left behind. I remember Ovitt's moving speech, but more than anything I remember our old chorus reuniting and feeling the loss of your charismatic self. Even if you didn't enjoy being there, everyone else loved your crazy presence in class. This week I've been thinking about you, and I just want you to know that you will never be forgotten. You made your mark in all of our hearts.

-Claire Solomon

Tanya Sierra
July 9, 2009 at 11:47pm

nick, my love--

thank you for being such a loving brother to damon.
as he spends the summer with us, i see you in his eyes.

he carries you with him-- and your influence is constant and strong.
we talk to you through laughter and tears-- and we feel you close every day.

you have shaped him to be honorable, empathetic and wise.

i hope your friends can glean this beautiful quality from you...

i am gifted that you are my nephew.

xxx
t.

Bonnie Hancock
June 12, 2009 at 2:50am

My prayers are with you and your family.

Jeanne M
May 4, 2009 at 5:36am

Dear Natalie, Damon, Tanya, and Grandma Lori,

I continue to think of Nick, and of you. I know you are still in terrible pain. I wish our love could take that pain away. We can only surround you with our love and prayers. Then there is your Nick, larger than life, looming over you in all his magnificence. Even those who did not know him can feel his greatness. As Tanya wrote to him, "Nick, you have marked me." Did you know that he has marked us all? Was he too good for this world? Was he needed elsewhere? There are no words for what he was while on this earth, and what he is now that he lives in our hearts.

-- Jeanne M.

Carie A. Walters
April 15, 2009 at 4:23am

Dear Garza Family.

I stumbled upon your website for Nick while looking at another missing persons case. It seems that your family's tragic loss has touched the hearts of many from around the US. And now it has touched mine. As I sit at my work desk with tears welled up in my eyes, I cant help but to think that you seem so blessed to have Nick as your son, brother, family and friend. It also makes me feel a bit scared to think of the many times I was in the same situation as he was when he disappeared, walking home late from a friend's house, and I never thought twice about my journey. As many others have already, I pray for your hearts to heal with only precious thoughts of your beloved Nick. I am 29, single and have no children so I cant even begin to imagine the pain that you feel as well as the anger but my heartaches at this moment for you and all of the family and friends.

I think that this site is beautiful rememberance for someone that must have been so special.

With my Deepest Sympathy

Carie W.

Charlotte NC.

Becky Mejia
March 20, 2009 at 11:38am

Dear Natalie, Damon, Grandma Lorry, all who grieve Nick so deeply,

You are not forgotten, you are not alone. Wishing for you the peace and healing you deserve. Nick lives on in all of our hearts.

So sorry for all your pain.

Becky, in MD

Tina Seberly
February 15, 2009 at 4:28am

Natalie, Lauren and I talked about that last summer before college. She and Nick were tennis partners playing doubles at Tanoa. Lauren said that Nick was the funniest guy she ever played with as they were laughing all the time. What a carefree summer they had before leaving for college. We think of Nick so often and to you we sent our love and prayers. I know you are missing that fine young man. He was the best!
Tina

Linda Peterson
February 12, 2009 at 5:09am

Natalie,

I am sorry that this New Year has brought an anniversary of such tragic proportions. I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you as I often do. Just having celebrated the third year anniversary of the passing of a loved one, I can tell you that in time the horrific pain and sorrow does lessen and gratefully gives way to remembering and celebration of their life.

You often spoke of Nick and Damon and I was always taken with how much you loved and cared for your boys. Damon is truly a lucky young man, as was Nick, to have a mother like you.

Take care Natalie.
Linda

Cousin Robin
February 8, 2009 at 10:56am

Dearest Cousin Nick,

Please watch over your Mom, brother Damon, and your Dad. Give them a sign to let them know you are near. I am sure they are having a rough time right now. You are heavy on my mind, and on so many others. You are such a gift to so many.

Much Love,
Cousin Robin

Meg and Mike Ovitt
February 7, 2009 at 5:12am

Dear Natalie and Damon:

I called yesterday! We think of you and Damon and Nick all of the time. We want you to know that our friendship, care, prayers and love is with you and your family everyday.We pray for peace for you to feel better with time and I still can't imagine this ever happened . We know how know much you miss him and all the pain you must feel with out him. Nick was such a magnificent person. He really touched our hearts and lives in such a special way. We Love you!

Love from your friends,

Meg and Mike Ovitt
Emi '08, Maggie, Matti

Ali Partow
February 6, 2009 at 12:39pm

Dearest Nick,

Your magnificent mind, your beautiful smile, your gorgeous black hair, your amazing eyes and your presence is so deeply missed by all of us.

We love you.

Natalie and Damon, you are continuously in our hearts and minds.

Gita and Ali Partow

Jeanne Mayell
February 6, 2009 at 10:48am

Natalie, Tanya, Damon, and the Rest of the Garza Family

Throughout this day I think of you and of Nick. The pain of your love for him, how much you all miss him pulses through us all. It is all still too much to take in. Too much. I pray for peace for you and for the chance that you will all be reunited again some day. Meanwhile, I know Nick is near you, feels you, whispers his love and support to you.

Love always,

Jeanne Mayell
Wellesley, MA

Rustin Partow
February 6, 2009 at 10:33am

Nick,

I never tired of being around you. You definitely upset me a few times, but we never turned our backs on each other when we were upset. We were the kind of friends who shouted and quipped at each other until one of us was right and the other was begging forgiveness. And you're so easy to forgive. I felt like such a jerk when at first I tried not to forgive you for mistakenly accusing me of stealing your Spanish textbook junior year. God knows how many of our school textbooks we ended up getting confused throughout the years.

I remember that there were two distinct times I had a problem with you and chose not to confront you. We didn't talk to each other for a while, and eventually everything healed. Both times were incredibly trivial, one about a girl and one about a video game. But I still regret them a lot, because they felt meaningful enough at the time that in both instances I thought about how stupid I would feel if you died and I left something unsaid. I convinced myself that wouldn't happen anytime soon. Surely, with how much my thoughts wander, I've gone through the same thoughts with countless other people. I'll try and do better. I guess that despite how incredibly intimate of friends we were, now that you've passed away I realize how much more intimate we could have been.

But as I said before, I never tired of you. Summer before last, there were two nights and two and a half days when, except for a few bathroom breaks, we were constantly around each other. You were just "at my house for a while" and somehow we almost didn't even notice our streak. We played tennis, rode scooters, went to a party, and drove around. I also remember serving you food and "drank" a couple of times (thanks for always being grateful). Perhaps my future wife will call me horrible things and end up despising me, or maybe I'll never get married. Maybe I'll grow to be a creepy old man who's house the teenagers throw rocks at. I will still always know that there is at least one human being that I can tolerate, and who can tolerate me, for over 48 hours. And that kind of insurance is only valid from someone you truly respect.

So much love,

Rustin Partow

Jolene Day
February 6, 2009 at 2:16am

Natalie and Damon,

I never met Nick but followed his journey as a parent of a 9th grader at Albuquerque Academy. Natalie, I think of you often as a single parent and know how much Nick meant to you and Damon. You are both in my prayers and I know that only time will heal your wounds. May you find comfort in knowing that your beautiful son affected people he didn't even know, he was that special.

Please take care,

Jolene Day
Lennon Day
AA 2012

Jose Lemis Santiago
February 5, 2009 at 3:21pm

Support and Love

I want the Garza family to know that you are still in my prayers.

Today, more than ever, I take a moment to remember the kindness and warmth I saw in Nick.

May the love that united us all to Nick, be always felt.

--With these few words I send my warmest and uplifting prayers.
Santiago
Spanish TA 07-08

A year ago, I can recall when a group of us at Middlebury College began --immediately-- calling and searching for Nick. We all gave our immediate and exhaustive efforts in wanting to know his whereabouts. Few of us were on campus during that break, but they were days filled with wonderful and intimate gatherings. The weather might have been cold, but the sun was still giving its light and warmth. I can still recall those infinitely blue and calm skies. I remember when I last saw Nick... and I can only remember his smile. It is that peaceful smile that is still very alive within my mind.

God bless the Garza family.

Karen Garvin
February, 5 2009 at 12:34pm

Bless You

Natalie & Damon--
You have been heavy on our hearts especially as the anniversary of Nick's disappearance has arrived. We think of Nick so often and can't imagine how difficult this year has been for you both. We hope that you have found a way to sooth your spirit, comfort your soul, and find some peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
Brian, Karen and Tyler Garvin

Tanya Sierra
February 4, 2008 at 2:20 am

My Love

I still have no words...

Just the dreams that I have of you every night.

And every morning that I wake up, I pray for some sort of respite for your mom and dad, and your beloved-- Damon.

I also hope that everyone who loves you can find some bit of peace after this horrid horrid year...

You are so deeply loved -- and those that you brought near you -- we are forever fortunate.

xxx
t.

Marisa Tesauro
February, 2 2009 at 11:51pm

Nick

Dear Nick, I think of you often, even though I barely knew you-your spirit just touched me and left a beautiful impression. I know that you are missed dearly by your family and dear friends. I also know that you stop by frequently to show them that you still watch over them and make them laugh, although from a different place--

The last time you visited there were shards of broken glass at Tibidabo and I collected them with T & Jas and I put them in my purse--some shards slipped out of the cloth where I had put them. The next day we flew to NY and I brought the shards to our new home; a continent away from where they were and this spring we will plant them amidst our garden(although every so often when I am digging for something in my obnoxiously large bag I find a small shard and I laugh. I like that it provokes a laugh-it feels nice.

With love,
mar

Michelle Johnson
January 29, 2009 at 7:29am

Natalie

I hope you will remain strong in spite of the significant loss that you have experienced. Although I never knew Nick or met him, every time I think of him, I wonder how you are doing. I also struggle with the question, "Why?" I remember the memorial at Albuquerque Academy and how beautiful a service it was and the sound of "Ave Maria" anywhere tugs at my heart and I recall the wonderful pictures of Nick that represented his spirit and life. I don’t think I’ll ever forget: every now and then I come across the program from his memorial and it brings back the memory. I hope that his spirit comforts you daily and that your memories of him brighten your day when you are sad.

Take care and God bless you,

Michelle R. Johnson, Former co-worker, Sun Healthcare

Blumstein Family
January 15, 2009 at 11:50am

Never Forget

Natalie and family, As we close in on the anniversary of Nck;s passing I want you to know I have and will never forget. My daughter was good friends with Nick through the dorm. She has been profoundly impacted by his passing. as were we; More so than I even knew. We honor Nick and his family.

Love the Lew, Cathy, Lew and Meghan Blumstein Family

Will
December 19, 2008 at 5:56am

I miss Nick.

I'm sitting here in the library, trying to study before my last test tomorrow. I just want to be home and I don't want to be here anymore. But then I realized what Christmas break means to me. It was over this break last year, on December 28th, that I last saw Garza. It was the last day that I spoke to him. It was the last day that I hugged him. It was the last time that I would ever see him and looking back on it I know that I didn't cherish it as much as I should have. I keep thinking that I'll see him someday and that when I come home he'll be there, making our whole group laugh as much as he did in the past. I want to hear his exaggerated laugh and wild antics one more time. I just want to see his smiling face in person. I will always cherish the memories I have with Nick, but I will never be able to make new ones and every couple days when I realize this, it devastates me. I don't know how you can do it, Natalie. You are one of the strongest people I have ever met and if you read this, just know that you will forever be one of the leading role models in my life. Whenever I get down I think of Nick I think of you and realize that if you are able to pull through this, my problems certainly are nothing in comparison. I miss you so much Nick and if there's one thing I've learned from your death it's that I must cherish every moment of my life because I never know when it will be changed drastically. I owe you for this and I know that my life will never be the same because of this realization. I love you man and I can't wait to get home tomorrow and see some people who will actually understand what you meant to the world and why still, after the better part of a year, I still can't get over the loss. I also can't wait to finally see some people who can tell some happy, funny Nick stories as some form of balance.

Love,
Will

Sharon Taylor
December 11, 2008 at 6:38pm

Dearest Nick,
I think of you so often and today, on your birthday, I cannot stop thinking about your wonderful spirit and the joy that you gave to your family and friends. I am honored that you cared for me and cherish the memories that I have of you. If I feel as I do I know that your mom must be out of her mind. Please touch her today, give her your strength from the peaceful place where I envision you to be. When your beautiful face comes to my mind I smile.

Sharon

Janet Sanchez
December 10, 2008 at 4:04am

Nick and all his family have been in my prayers every moment today. You remain in our thoughts as you continue this journey.

Love
Janet, Andrew, Victor, and Carlena Sanchez

Greg Allen
November 22, 2008 at 8:39pm

i dont know what prompted me to think of you, and i know theres nothing i can say that hasnt been said about your warm and lively personality that is missed. i just felt compelled to write something because i havent thought about you enough and whatever made me think of you was followed by a very strong feeling of loss. i wasnt your greatest friend, but i enjoyed every moment of your company i shared, and i know we could have had great times. but se la vi, you are now doing whatever it is youre doing as am i. i love you though, and the thought of you stopped me dead in my tracks- testamnet to what a mark you left when you departed this earth.

may you rest in peace, greg

Meg and Mike Ovitt and family
November 8, 2008 at 2:50am

We pray and think of you and Nicholas every single day. You are never ever forgotten. May you know how much we care and we want you to continue to feel our love, friendship and support from all our family. We are thinking of you and praying for tomorrows memorial ceremony.

With love, Meg and Mike Ovitt and family

Tanya Sierra
October 24, 2008 at 6:21pm

Niki:
i can't bear to be in vermont ever again-- forgive me.
but please know that i will be there with you and with mom in spirit: and always.

my dearest nick:
i am with you every minute of every day-- awake or asleep.

and everywhere i walk, i will always have you on my arm.
walking with me...

your ever-loving aunt,
tanya

Nicole Jacobs
August 16, 2008 at 4:25 PM
I recently finished reading the story of your son, I feel compelled to send you a note to let you know that you are in my thoughts and wish you well.

With love and sympathy,

Whitney

Tricia Lindau
July 10, 2008 at 3:30 AM
To the family of Nick Gara -
I have been following this story via the intranet since Nick went missing and hoping you would have a different ending. I was moved by his mothers efforts and commitment to finding her son. Her story touched me and I so wish the conclusion was not what is was found to be. I wish her and Nick's younger brother peace and comfort in finding Nick and knowing he is now in a safe place.

Deepest Condolences in CT.

Louise Cavanaugh
July 2, 2008 at 2:14 AM
Natalie,
I want you to know that we think of Nick and your family often. We met
you in April when we came up to help with the search for Nick and our
prayers and thoughts will always be with you. Nick will never be forgotten.

Louise Cavanaugh
Parent of '08 Middlebury grad

Janet Sanchez
June 30, 2008 at 12:13 AM
Dear Garza and Sierra Families,
Nick's memorial service was beautiful and meaningful. Every word that was spoken, sung, and written, every note that was played, every picture we saw, every quote we read, every candle that was lit was purposeful and perfect . . . just like your precious Nick.
It was an honor to be with you as we continue to mourn and learn how to live in this world filled with Nick's spirit.

Love,
Janet, Andrew, Victor, and Carlena Sanchez

Meg Ovitt
June 29, 2008 at 6:56 AM
Dear Natalie:
We have continued to think of you with prayers every single day. Especially all of today with the memorial service for your beautiful Nicholas. Our prayers and love are sent to you and all your family. Grandmother Lorry's note for Nicholi touched our hearts. We send you our greatest sympathy at this time of devastating sorrow. You are the most wonderful mother who did everything for all of the many many months up at Middlebury. May you know how much we care and may you feel a sense of peace from all who love you and surround you with care.
We are thinking of you and your family always. We are so saddened and so very sorry. We send our sincerest sympathy.

Love, Meg Ovitt.

Queen Bee
June 25, 2008 at 6:55 PM
As I sit here and write this, I have tears streaming down my eyes. Grandmother Lorry you have been able to put into words the very thoughts and feelings I have had since losing my Grandmother 3 years ago. Like your Nicholi, I loved chatting with my Grandmother and crawling into bed with her every chance I had. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't sit and talk to her and bring her to life in my heart and mind. I agree with you that memory truly is the best gift that God has given each of us.
Though I did not have the pleasure of meeting Nicholas, I have been drawn to the story since I first read about it in the last issue of the Middlebury Magazine. My mother and I were there for my reunion the same week Nicholas's body was found. We both found ourselves further drawn in to your family. We visited the site and made a rock offering and lit a candle and just prayed for him and your entire family. I asked my Grandmother to come to his side and be there. So it really hit me to read your words and to discover that he had a very similar relationship with you as I did with her. I know that there are no words that I can say that will take the pain away but know that there are so many people that are grateful (my mother and I included) that Nicholas found a way into our hearts.
It doesn't take much to realize how very special he was..he was a MiddKid after all :) Not to mention the amazing outpour of letters from family and friends alike that all share their great Nick stories. Though I didn't meet him personally, I also don't feel he's a stranger. These little slices of life that each of you has shared has allowed me to put together a sense of who this unique soul was.
The one thing I have come to realize when we lose someone is what we truly miss. It's plain and simple. We miss the person we were when they walked in the room, the way they made us feel alive and carefree and most of all secure and loved. From the sounds of it, Nicholas had the ability to make each of you feel like you were the center of his universe. I am so sorry that someone that special was taken so soon from your family and those who had yet to meet him. However, I know that his spirit will live through his brother and he will continue to come to life each time you speak of him. I do hope that you will keep the stories coming.

For one reason or another, I don't feel we have heard the last of this case. Until then God Bless you all. Sending you smiles and hugs across the miles...

Nancy Terr
June 25, 2008 at 3:55 PM
Natalie, I don't know how to reach you at the moment, before I see you Saturday. If someone else reads this, please let Natalie know that AMMACHI, an amazing Indian saint ( called "divine mother") is in Albuquerque this week at the Mariott Pyramid. She will have a public program Thursday evening 6/46. I mention this because she gives hugs which transmit "dharshan," or spiritual energy. Some people have found incredible relief being consoled by her...she truly is a huge spirit. I thought you might want to come by. If you do, tell them you are "special needs" and go right up. Tell Amma about your family tragedy, and she may help you. Call me if you need more info,Natalie....Nancy Terr

God Bless you....our hearts and prayers are with you.

Misty Yeats
June 24, 2008 at 10:44 AM
I just wanted to send some love your way... I hope you all have found a little peace. Know that my heart, as well as the hearts of many you may never meet are always with you...

Misty Yeats
Amber Mathewson
June 13, 2008 at 6:06 AM
I first heard the news and I was a little confused. I graduated from Academy in 04, so I thought someone had mistakenly told me the info. But after recently hearing the news I've become speechless. While I only knew you by face and my little brother who is currently attending Academy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Academy builds relationships among those who walk its bricks - past, present, and future. Your walk will forever be cherished and remembered.

Amber Mathewson, c/ 04'

Jeanne Mayell
June 13, 2008 at 4:20 AM
To Grandma Lorry
I read your words to your precious Nicholi, Damon’s precious Nicholi, their Dad’s perfect son, Natalie’s most precious son. I am so moved by your strength and faith, but most of all by the great spirit of this boy that flows through you. You all say you were lucky to know him, and I know this must be true. But he too was lucky to have you, his steadfast Aunt T, his devoted little brother, his loving, broken-hearted father, and most of all, his great mother, Natalie. His passing has broken all our hearts. Not a day goes by since Feb that I don’t think of him, and I never met him. So many of the Middlebury parents, faculty, and townspeople I have met feel the same way. Know that the love of the thousands of people who have followed your struggle and unspeakable pain surrounds you and holds you all, and your dear Nicholi.

-- Jeanne Mayell

Cousin Robin
June 12, 2008 at 3:07 AM
We carry your heart with us.

We carry your heart with us(we carry it in

our heart)we are never without it(anywhere

we go you go, my dear;and whatever is done

by us is your doing, my darling)

We fear

no fate(for you are our fate, my sweet)We want

no world(for beautiful you are our world, my true)

and it's you whatever a moon has always meant

and whatever a sun will always sing is you

Here is the deepest secret nobody knows

(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud

and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows

higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)

and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

We carry your heart(we carry it in our heart)

inspired by ee cummings

The first time I heard this poem, I was watching a movie, I instantly thought of Nick. This is how he touched the world. I changed some of the words around to say what we all are feeling.

I am so very sorry for you loss. You are going though what no parent should ever have to.

Please know the world mourns with you.

Michelle Gonzales
June 12, 2008 at 1:45 AM
This hits close to home because I have a son in Albuquerque Academy and I lost my 21-yr old nephew to a drowning in Abiquiu Lake. I wish there was something other than my praying for you and your family that I could do to rewind all of this and change the outcome for you. My heart goes out to you, you are so strong, as it appears to all of us watching you go through this. We could never imagine what it would feel like. I hope you continue to draw strength and perseverance from Our Lord. I don't know you but I'm praying, still that you're comforted.
God Bless YOu..
M.Gonzales

Jana Lee Aspin
June 12, 2008 at 12:48 AM
My sincerest condolences to all of you. As a mom to a young man who will be a junior at the ABQ Academy I can only guess what you’re going through. I attended the gathering for Nick at the school a few months back….seeing many of Nick’s friends and hearing testimony to their hopes and prayers. I know you were all richer for having him in your lives. May the words and prayers of many help you through this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Jana Lee Aspin

The Partows
June 11, 2008 at 11:33 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and Family,
We are speechless. Nick is in our hearts and minds. Please know that you have our prayers and love.

The Partows

Lara Hughes
June 9, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Dear Garza Family,
All the way from Los Angeles I somehow stumbled upon this and I cannot even begin to fathom what you must be going through. Nicholas seems as if he was was a very remarkable person filled with great potential and it saddens me to see it put on hold. Your son is in my thoughts and prayers, and can only hope he makes a safe return.

With love,
Lara.

Grandma Lorry
June 8, 2008 at 10:24pm
My Dearest Nicholi,
I think of you and miss you each and every day, when I think I can't shed another tear, I find my body can produce an endless supply. I believe God has appointed the hour of our death long before we are born, but never even in nightmares did I think your life would end before mine. I can't understand why you're gone, how the loss of such a life could fit into God's scheme but I trust that he knows how much you are loved and how your death would so profoundly affect those who know you. I know that our lives are not now and never will be better because of your passing, but I also know each life you touched is richer because of your having lived. Each day I choose a few memories of you to think about. I take each memory and examine every detail, turning it like a jewel held in my hands. I close my eyes and remember how you looked, smelled and sounded when that memory was made. I polish every facet assuring that none of the luster will fade with time but will remain sharp, distinct and precious to help strengthen me for the rest of the days God has appointed me. It is only now that I realize one of the most beautiful gifts God gives us is memory, not to wallow in our loss, but to brighten all our days that follow. When I close my eyes, I can feel your arms hug me and know you will sneak your hand up to tussle my hair because you do it every time and when I act like I am surprised and exclaim "oh Nicholi", I hear you laugh and feel you hug me tighter, this memory brings you to life for me this moment this day. Since you've gone Damon tussles my hair when he hugs me, for he too holds that memory of you, and every time he does, it somehow brings you closer to us both. What teenager today sits next to his grandmother and lays his head on her shoulder? How many are willing to share their busy days with grandma? You were, and I know how blessed I was to be part of your life.

During these last four pain filled months countless times Damon in tears would ask "tell me a Nick story" and I would recount how when you were very young, you loved the teenage mutant ninja turtles and believed they lived in my backyard. I tell Dames how you would call me on the phone with the pretense of just wanting to talk to grandma, yet after only a few cursory words that I had to pull out of you like teeth, you would say "grandma, are the turtles around, can I talk to them?" As I changed the sound of my voice and said "hey dude" you became so animated spewing forth words telling me in the guise of Leo or Mikey all about the wonders of your day. Before long both Dames and I are laughing and he says, "tell me another one". Oh Nicholi, how lucky am I to have so many "Nick Stories" to share with him. There always comes a point when Damon will tell me one of his "Nick Stories" one of his favorites is how he would say to you "Nick, did you know my favorite animal is a Liger and I saw one in Massachusetts and it hurted me" he knew nothing would set you off easier than an improper sentence involving an animal you considered a ridiculous cross, the mispronunciation of Massachusetts and the non-word hurted. He is so proud of the fact that he could get a rise out of you each and every time he said that same silly sentence. Now it is one of many treasured memories he has of you and by just thinking about it he can invoke you like magic. We will tell our "Nick Stories" forever, to keep you near, to tell the world how blessed we were to have you and keep a little of the magic of your life in our days.

Your death has taken so much from the lives of our family and your friends. Anticipation is what keeps our eyes looking to the future and fills our days with hope but now our anticipated moments with you no longer dwell in this time and space. I anticipated working with you again this summer, having you and Damon arrive every workday morning filing my day with so much joy and fun, but while I was in Middlebury watching the students pack their belongings to return home, the realization that you will never be coming home to us was so overwhelming. You will not be arriving to work with me this summer or any other summer. I anticipated your graduation from Middlebury, your wedding day, your first child. I anticipated all the possibilities of your life, there were so many. Now of course those events will never be and the reality is too painful to express. I believe I will one day be reunited with you but the anticipation of that also brings me pain knowing that it will mean separation from those I love who are still here. I am thankful that I praised God everyday for allowing you to be part of my life, I am thankful that I remembered to thank him for each day of your nineteen years. I am thankful that he has allowed me to remember you and to be secure in the knowledge that you too love me as I love you. Even my grief at losing you is easier to bear because of those who share in that grief. I now anticipate thanking God each night for the spirit that was my Nicholi. I will anticipate with great joy, the life events of Damon, and Dalton. I know that not everyone who loses someone they love have others to love, others who help to hold your life together. I am blessed that I do have others, and I will too love them as I have always loved you, with all my heart for all my days unto eternity.

My most fervent prayer is that your spirit is able to stay close to your Mom to help her remain strong and cope with all the mornings she wakes without your light. She has Damon and knows his great worth, but no one will ever replace you. Since the day you were born, you have been the sun that lights her days and the moon that protects her nights and you will always be so so missed. Oh Nicholi I know this is true, no child ever born was loved more than you.

Grandma Lorry

Catie Shawley
June 7, 2008 at 12:14 AM
To the family of Nicholas-
I'm so very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how hard this is for you. All of you and Nicholas have been in my thoughts and prayers often and I'm sorry you had to experience such a tragedy. I never knew Nicholas well but from my brief time with him at the same debate camp I know he made many people laugh and touched many lives. When my partner and I debated him and the Glenbrooks tournament I was amazed with his understanding of philosophy and appreciated his passion for the activity. You raised a wonderful son and he will never be forgotten.

The Rodriguez Family
June 6, 2008 at 11:20 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family ever since we first heard of your tragedy. As a mom of a 17 year old son at Eldorado High School, my heart ached for you. As a mother, I hoped and prayed that your beautiful son Nick would be found safe somewhere. We kept on hoping until today. Now I pray that you can get through this. Please know that all of the community here at Eldorado High School is thinking of you and if we could be there to hold your hand, we most certainly would. Your son Nick looked like a wonderful young man and I’m sure that God has welcomed him with open arms. Please know that even though we are strangers and have never met, I feel so much sadness for you and your family but also hope that you are blessed by all who are with you to help you get through this. Nick does not walk alone. He is with God. All our best wishes to you, Natalie and may God bless you too. Stay Strong.

Sincerely,
The Rodriguez Family

Laurie Moodie
June 6, 2008 at 9:17 AM
You know where he is now. Heaven is so far away yet still so near to your hearts. He watches, guards, smiles, encourages, assures, revels as you make your way back to a life this side of him. Keep yourself well.
Laurie Moodie

Rose and Gene Sweet
June 6, 2008 at 5:00 PM
Dear Garza family:
I read your e-mail to my daughter & her husband, Jan & Steve Jenkins. I am in deep sorrow and pain for your loss. There are no words that can help anyone else feel the pain you feel when something this horrible happens to your child. Christopher was our dear dear grandson. We were very close to 'Chris and in fact he spent the weekend here with his entire LaCrosse team four days before he went missing. I never thought anything could hurt so much. We adored that boy and he was worthy of our love. Always came out or called to see how grammie and grandpa were. Brought his girlfriends and other friends out for a visit or dinner. It is so long later and I still feel the initial shock and pain. The only thing that has held me together is my faith. I trust in the Lord that my Chris is with him in heaven and that one day we will see him again. His perpetrators have to live an ugly life here on earth as they continue to rot in their evilness. I pity them when they meet their Lord.It will not be pretty. The same of course is so true of your son's perpetrators.
Stay strong and follow Steve's suggestions. I truly do not know how Jan & Steve remained so strong for so long when the law enforcement agencies all tried to cover everything up and continued to shut the door in their face everytime they brought something important to their attention. I called them the bravest lions in Oz. Our deepest love and prayers come to all of you.

Rose and Gene Sweet ( Christophers grandparents)

Robert Perry
June 5, 2008 at 9:39 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and Garza Family:
We are so sorry for your loss and pain. So many people we know knew Nick and have said such great things about him. We have been praying for your family since we learned of his disappearance and our son Alex is very worried about his hockey buddy Damon. Your efforts to find Nick were admired. We know it is painful and we continue to hope and pray for all of you. I know all the children and parents on NMICE-Quirt hockey team love Damon, Nick, and you and hope they can help in some small way. Rest with Peace Nick.

Rob,Kerry, Tatiana, Alex Perry
Albuquerque

Mark Broome
June 5, 2008 at 7:31 PM
Nothing OF this life CAN prepare us for such a loss. But, the Lord Jesus Christ, author an giver of life, has provided a way in this life time for us to be reunited with our love ones that has gone on (Malachi 4:5-6). May God be your guide and comforter in this time and always.

Esther
New York

Sue, Steve, Jackie and Steven Casaceli
June 3, 2008 at 10:10 PM
We would give anything to have had this turn out differently - to have found Nick safe somewhere and to have him back home with all of you. We don't know what to say, what to do, to help. Please know that we are praying for you. You are all on our minds and in our hearts. It's incomprehensible that this has happened to such a bright, loving kid. The world keeps turning, life goes on, yet we will never be the same....

Sue, Steve, Jackie and Steven Casaceli

Jenna Pickett and Family
June 3, 2008 at 7:13 PM
As a member of the current Academy community I cannot help but remember Nick. I never talked to him personally but I remember his smile, and his bush of black hair. Distinctly I remember him singing in the chorus at academy at the beginning of the year each year and at the various assemblies throughout. Nick was no doubt an amazing person and he will continue to live in our hearts.
Deepest sympathies

And god bless you Nick
Jenna Pickett
Albuquerque Academy class of '09

The Owen Family
June 3, 2008 at 3:44 AM
To Nick's dear family,
Our daughter is a sophomore at Middlebury and she called distraught the minute she heard Nick was missing. We prayed for him daily all spring. To hear that he was found is comforting but still devasting. My husband and I spent four years at Middlebury in the 70s and it is hard to think of that campus and little town as a place where bad things can happen. We lost a son as a baby but cannot imagine after 19 years. We are so very sorry for your loss.
We went to dinner with another Middlebury family last week when the girls came home. I was interested that the other mom had been tracking the news of Nick as closely as I had been. We all love our kids and can't imagine life without them.
We believe Nick is in heaven and is greatly rejoiced over by the angels. If you haven't read it this spring, go get The Shack...gave my copy away..can't remember the author. Maybe William Young? It is a story of a man who is angry at God for the untimely death of his young daughter. Hope you find it a comfort.
May God Bless you and keep you all in the comfort of his everlasting arms as you walk through these dark days.

The Owen Family

Karen Wood
June 3, 2008 at 3:15 AM
You finally have your child, and the bitter relief of knowing where he is. So, so saddened to learn that he is no longer living to be with you. It's wrenching. You did all you could, and you were so wise that you allowed him to be himself so he trusted innately to live his life fully and he didn't waste a moment. Bless you for that, KW

Let evening come....

Jennifer Sicard
June 2, 2008 at 9:27 PM
Dear Garza Family,
My son and I have followed Nick's story from the time of his disappearance. We were disheartened to have it come to such a sad ending. We are terribly sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Jennifer and Alex Sicard
Swanton, VT

Barbara D Cuoco
June 2, 2008 at 5:00 PM
Dearest Natalie,
Our most heart felt sympathy is with you and your family at this very difficult time. I remember Nick as a little boy when we all lived on Rancho Grande. He was as bright as he was adorable. He obviously grew up to be a wonderful, intelligent young man. You should be proud. As the mother of a 19 year daughter that also went out of state to college this year, I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Each time I think of you my heart aches and I shed another tear. Please know that our family continues to pray for you and your family.

Barbara, Gregg, Laura & Megan Cuoco

Herman Manzanares III
June 2, 2008 at 1:09 AM
To the Garza family,
I played against Nic in High School hockey and he was a great hockey player that will truly be missed. My love and support go out to all of you

LAHS Ice Hockey 01-05
UNM Lobo Hockey 07- Present

Jeanne Mayell
Jun 1, 2008 at 11:35 PM
Why should a dog, a horse, a rat, have life, And thou no breath at all? --King Lear

Dear dear Natalie, Tanya, and Damon,
I know your hearts are broken beyond understanding and I wish I could send a thousand angels to hold you. I know though that there is one angel holding you every moment. He has a shock of thick black hair and huge startlingly beautiful brown eyes. –

Jeanne Mayell

Asma Naser
June 1, 2008 at 11:02 PM
Hi, My name is Asma Naser. I am a rising junior in Middlebury College. I also work in the Middlebury College Library.
I don’t know Nick personally, but one day he came to circulation desk to check out some books. I swiped his access card and told him, Ohhh your card is not working. I was just joking, he got confused and asked “Ohh what am I going to do now?” I said you have to pay $50. He was like, “ooh I don’t have it with me now. Can I bring it tomorrow?”. I told him then that I was just joking, he smiled and unlike some other kids, didn’t get angry at my joke. He looked so innocent and cute, that this image of him will always be in my mind whenever I will think of him. Rest In Peace Nick.
We are going to terribly miss you.

AN

Kevin King
Jun 1, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Dear Natalie and the Garza Family,
Words can not express how deeply saddened I was to hear about Nick. I have prayed everyday that he would be found safe. I can't imagine how you must feel. I would like to share something with you that helped me deal with the loss of my Dad. He passed away suddenly and unexpectantly this passed October.
A soldier by the name of Steven Cummins wrote a letter to his parents which was to be delivered to them in the event of his death. Enclosed in the letter was this poem.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.

Nick will always be with you as is my Dad. God bless the Garza Family. Please know that Nick was loved and will be deeply missed by many.

With much love,
The King Family
Jan, Kevin, Nick, Chris, Cory

Charlotte and Jeff Casey
June 1, 2008 at 9:46 AM
We can only echo all the sentiments of sorrow posted here for your family.
Although far away, we had been following the progress of the search for your handsome Nick and were always so amazed by the strength of a mother’s love that radiated and drove each article.
May God’s grace and the love of all those who care so deeply raise you up and guide you through this heartbreak.

Charlotte and Jeff Casey (AA Alum ’95)
Kauai, Hawaii

Kelley Moodie
June 1, 2008 at 5:12 AM
The incredibly profound impact Nick had on everyone who knew him is truly unique and will last forever. The legacy he was able to leave after just 19 years is incredible. Nick was truly an extraordinary person and will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace, Nick, and thank you for coming into my life.

Kelley

The Wilmarth-Aigner Family
June 1, 2008 at 12:21 AM
Dear Garza family,
We cannot imagine your pain and share in your sadness. I want you to know that the towns-people of Addison County cared about your child and his well-being. We appreciate the young man you sent to us to educate and regret that you experienced this loss. We hope you can find peace someday.

With much love,
The Wilmarth-Aigner Family
Middlebury Educators

Sandra Schuman
May 31, 2008 at 4:04 PM
I am So Sorry For your Loss I know the felling I Loosed me Sister the some way
and I Know that Feeling that you are going throw...

Sandra Schuman

Chet & Laurie St.Cyr and Family
May 31, 2008 at 8:52 AM
Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. May your broken hearts heal, as your beloved angel Nicholas watches over you. Take comfort that he will be with you, always.

Our love & sympathy to all the Garza family & friends.

Chet & Laurie St.Cyr and Family
Vergennes, VT

Rachel Sussillo
May 31, 2008 at 6:06 AM
Nick's untimely departure is an incomprehensible injustice.

Rachel Sussillo

Linda Grynkewich
May 31, 2008 at 5:44 AM
Dear Natalie,
There is so much that I wish I could say to comfort you as you reflect upon the loss of your beautiful Nicholas...yet I know in my heart that there is nothing on earth that could bring you any relief right now. There have been times in my life when I felt the grief was insurmountable, that no words could suffice.
Such grief is in the scriptures alluding to the heartache that Mary experienced over her beautiful son. As a mother, I cannot even imagine the tugs on your heartstrings tonight, Natalie.
I can only hope to say to you that we are trying to understand...
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone

By W. H. Auden

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

My prayer is that God hold you, Damon and your family very, very close, Natalie...and that you somehow experience peace once again.

With All Our Love,
Linda Grynkewich and Children (Middlebury 07, 8.5, and 11.5)
Macon, Georgia

Ross Laffan
May 31, 2008 at 4:37 AM
Natalie Garza and family:
I am so very sorry for the nightmare you have had to endure. Sending
healing thoughts your way.

Ross Laffan
Rochester, Vermont

Rosanne Everson
May 31, 2008 at 4:18 AM
From the very beginning of this horrific ordeal, I have watched you Natalie, a Mother who never gave up, who fought the fight with strength, dignity and class. I am a mother of a Middlebury student and I honor you. Go home now and treasure the memories of your sweet boy. Know that you did everything in your power to find him. God bless you.

Rosanne Everson

Sandee and Alex
May 31, 2008 at 3:41 AM
Natalie, Damon and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you begin your healing journey following your loss of Nicholas.
I would like to share a story with you that I think you will enjoy.
I took my son Alex to Virginia on the train back in October, 2007.
We took the train from Essex, VT to VA and back. The trip to VA went by rather quickly however,
the trip home was a bit longer and Alex grew bored with his music, movies and book. He started taking frequent walks to the food car, far more than I liked. Thanks for frequent stops Alex would come to his seat and wait until the train started to move again.
In New York a young man got on the train and took a seat in front of us.
The first 30 minutes this young man slept after that he woke up and began chatting with my son and another guy on the train. They spoke about computers then this young man asked my son if he played any sports. This started a conversation I will never forget. My son said "Hockey, I like hockey but I'm not playing this year."
The young mans reply..." I play hockey too but, not this year. He said "I plan on watching a lot of college hockey this season and maybe next year I will try out for the team."
He told us that he was from New Mexico and he was attending Middlebury College this year as a freshman.
This amazing young man was your son Nicholas. Nicholas was my savior that sunny day in October.
Nicholas entertained Alex with fun and witty conversation the rest of the ride home.
Alex moved to the seat across from Nicholas and they chatted.
Nicholas spoke of many things he mentioned his family with a bright smile and pride.
He was with us only a short amount of time but he made an imprint on our hearts and we will NEVER forget him.

I hope this helps you to see how many lives your wonderful son Nicholas has touched.
Nicholas will be forever in our hearts.

love and prayers
Sandee and Alex
Essex, Vermont

Mary Gannon
May 31, 2008 at 2:54 AM
Natalie:
Please know that there is a batallion of mothers back here in New Mexico who are ready and willing to assist with anything you and your family needs. Many of us have been touched by your family's strength and grace and we are here to help.
Nick became a fine young gentleman because of you and the family that surrounded him. There is no doubt he did much good in the world while he could, and that somehow he will continue to do so. You have our contact information, so please just let us know and we'll come running.

Mary Gannon

Tim Otoole
May 31, 2008 at 2:29 AM
Dear Natalie, i want to thank you for sharing the story about nick and the purple golf bag last night when we talked. Although i never met nick i know he was a truly amazing young man. Natalie your courage over the last few months is remarkable, you and nick will always be in my thoughts and prayers. sincerly yours

Tim Otoole

Emily Murphy
May 31, 2008 at 12:38 AM
To the friends and family of Nick,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine what these last few months have been like for you all; I can only hope that you find some comfort knowing that you and Nick are in the thoughts and prayers of many of us.

Emily Murphy
Middlebury '07.5

Debby Lopez
May 30, 2008 at 11:18 PM
Natalie, I am soo sorry for the outcome of this unbelievable tragedy!! I am grateful to have been able to know Nick! I have come across videos of Nicholas from hockey and they make me smile through tears at what a great boy he was(IS)! Kinda funny this one video of David trying to interview him when he was about Damon's age and he was very politely blowing David off, cause he was more mature than David at that age!!! I always knew how great you were and was jealous of you as a mother. Nick is the product of you, even though our children are who they are in life, you played a GREAT roll in who Nick was as a man!!! I remember a time in your kitchen when Natalie was just being Natalie and Nick just told it to you how it was!!! Not in a cocky way, but in a I love you so much Mom way! I went home that night and thought wow, what a great kid and I hope my Lukas loves and respects me that way! It shows in how much strength you have shown through out this whole thing!!!! Natalie is colorful Natalie! You take care of everything in life to the fullest in your colorful Natalie way! Your strength and commitment, when most of us would crumble is unbelievable! I have always wanted to be more like you. I have soo many memories of Nicholas and the Garza family. I just wanted to say Thank you. I am so sad and sorry for you! Give Damon a hug and kiss. He is lucky to have you and Nick(he will always be a part of him)!!! Stupid how people say things that should be said when bad things happen! You already knew all the great things about Nick! Ok I'm babbling! There are NO words!

Love and Prayers,
Debby Lopez

Rosie Nelson
May 30, 2008 at 10:36 PM
Natalie- I am thinking about you and wanting to let you know that you are strong. You strength for the past couple months have been amazing. I have never expereinced a very closed loved ones death but I know that the feeling has to be hard. Please know that lots and lots of people are thinking of you with lots of love.

RN~~

Tanya Sierra
May 30, 2008 at 9:46 PM

i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)
-- ee cummings

My sweet Nick, you have marked me. And I am forever a better person for the 19 years that you shared your life with me...

Your ever-loving
always-admiring,
--aunt t.

Karen Rohde
May 30, 2008 at 7:39 PM
Natalie, Damon, and all your family,
Our hearts are filled with sorrow. In your unimaginable grief, know that we love and support you with all within us.

Karen Rohde

Ethan Innis
May 30, 2008 at 6:11 PM
Damon,
I have some things to tell you that I think Nick would want for you to hear. I know you love your brother. I do too. He was my team mate and my friend.
I spent many years on the ice in the net with Nick fiercely defending me against those whose job it was to wipe out the goalie. He spent a lot of time in the penalty box, and a good part of it was probably on my behalf.
We were Champions. Yeah, we won a lot of games, in fact, beat everyone in the state. Our banner is still hanging. The funny thing is that a lot of people couldn ’t figure out why we were Champions. We had too many nice guys on the team. But what they didn’t understand was that we won because we were a family. We loved, and most importantly, respected each other.
Everyone knew us as The Outkast, but we were proud of it. I made some choices last year, and the only choice I regret was not playing for my family. I can ’t bring those times back, but what I can do is remember what I learned from them. When you have love and respect for your team mates, even losing a game is winning in the end.
Take care of yourself – and keep playing the best sport ever,

Ethan Innis
Goalie – The Outkast

Gloria Oñate
May 30, 2008 at 4:24 PM
I'm so so sorry to hear about the loss of Nicholas.
My deepest sympathies to all of you.
Sincerely,

Gloria Oñate
Madrid, Spain

Gwen
May 30, 2008 at 4:23 PM
Five years ago I lost my 27 year old son in an automobile accident. The pain of losing a child is a unique pain and my heart aches for you and your family.

Gwen in Kansas

Maggie
May 30, 2008 at 2:42 PM
Dearest Natalie,
I live across the lake in NY. I have watched and prayed everyday hoping that you and Nick could go home together to New Mexico. The outcome was not what anyone wanted, but please know that you and Nick will one day be reunited. I am sure Nick will never be far and he will now watch over you as you have watched over him. Your dedication and strength for Nick was a sign of the incredible bond that you two share. I will continue to pray for you and your beautiful family. Natalie you have been an inspiration for many. I hope your journey does not end here. You have shown the world that you are capable of great things. Please continue with your strength and leadership. I am positive Nick would have been as proud of you as you are of him.
May God Bless the Garza Family-

Maggie

Jennifer Blanchard
May 30, 2008 at 12:42 PM
To the Garza Family
I'm very sorry for your loss. I am a Vermonter living in Virginia and watch
the news online daily. I have been following your son's story since the
beginning and hoping against hope that somehow he would be found alive. I'm
sorry that that isn't the case. You do have a beautiful son and although his
body is no longer alive it does seem that his spirit will live on. He has
touched many people's hearts even though we might not have personally known
him. Please take care.

Jennifer Blanchard

Devyn Young
May 30, 2008 at 6:37 AM
Dear Ms. Garza,
I have been following the search for your son since the beginning. I am a recent alum of Middlebury, and was greatly struck by the disappearance and recent recovery of your son. I have no doubt from all of the others who have known him and spoken of him that Nick was an amazing young man. I can't even begin to understand what you must be feeling at this time. Please know that you are in my thoughts and my heart as you try to get through this difficult time.

Devyn Young
Class of '07

Bob & Margie Garza
May 30, 2008 at 6:36 AM
We are truly sorry for the pain and loss you are going through now. There
are no words that we can say to comfort you and we wish we could give you a
hug and cry with you. Just want you to know that the whole family across the
country have been and still are praying for you all. Please let us know if
there is anything we can do.

Love You All,
Bob & Margie Garza

Catherine Blumstein
May 30, 2008 at 5:03 AM
Dear Natalie and Family, I wrote early on in March and have followed every day through your website. My daughter was Nick's friend and lived in his dorm. My elementary school (I am the principal of a k-8 catholic school) has prayed each day for Nick at 8:15 during morning prayers. 240 students strong. We- as you hoped for- a different outcome and prayed that Nick would come home. He has come home in a way we had hoped not to be. Please understand that Nick and your family are in our hearts and minds always. His friends, including my daughter, will miss him, but will never forget him. He will always live in our hearts. We pray for your heart to heal. Thank you for the gift of Nicholas.

C

Victor, Natalie and Aidan Martinez
May 30, 2008 at 3:47 AM
Dear Garza Family,
Our hearts are deeply saddened to lose a member of the Albuquerque hockey family. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

Victor, Natalie and Aidan Martinez

Melissa, Chris and Sean Jarvis
May 30, 2008 at 3:10 AM
Natalie, Damon and Garza family,
It was with great sadness and a sense of relief however, that we read the story that Nick had been found. Every time I think of your pain, it makes me cry. I can't imagine what you and Damon and his father are going through, but want you to know that everyone is grieving with you and I hope that in time, the pain will lessen and you will be able to move on and have a wonderful life with Nick's "mini me", Damon. No one can fathom the pain of losing a child, and having to explain it to your 10 year old, especially with the unknown of what happened that you are still dealing with. Everyone in the hockey community here in Albuquerque is thinking of you and sending our condolences. Please let us know if we can do anything when you return home.

Best wishes,
Melissa, Chris and Sean Jarvis

Chuck LaClair
May 30, 2008 at 2:20 AM
Dear Garza family,
The outpouring of love and support coming in from all corners of the world on your online guestbook goes to show the Impact that Nick has had on ALL of us.
Please know that there are so many people out there who care about you and have you in our thoughts.
Nick will always be in our hearts.

Sincerely,
Chuck LaClair
Ocala, Florida

Barbara Lopez and family
May 30, 2008 at 2:15 AM
Dear Natalie & Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been following the situation on the website hoping for a positive resolution since the Albuquerque Academy first sent out a note to the community. Natalie, your strength the past months has been an inspiration to all. You are a wonderful person and mother. May you continue to have strength as you move forward. My deepest sympathies for the loss of your beautiful son. Love from Albuquerque,

Barbara Lopez and family

Erin Suknot
May 30, 2008 at 2:10 AM
I can't even begin to imagine how you feel, but hopefully having some closure will bring you at least the slightest bit of comfort. I just want you to know that Nick will always be remembered, because his personality is impossible to forget. My prayers are with you and your family and everyone who is grieving from the loss of Garza.

Erin Suknot, AA 2007

Roxanne and Billy
May 30, 2008 at 2:07 AM
Dear Natalie and the Garza family,
We have been following the story about Nick since the beginning, we were hoping and praying for you days and nights in the safe return or at least finding him so you and your family would have closure. You are such a strong and amazing mother who never gave up on him. We are so sorry for your loss. I have 3 children of my own and I can't begin to imagine what you are feeling, just know and I am probably speaking for many here in Vermont that you are in our thought and prayers and may god be with you in your time of sorrow.

Roxanne and Billy
Bristol, VT

May 30, 2008 at 1:21 AM
To the family of Nick Garza, i dont know you personally but i do know a family member, he has been keeping me up to date with the statice since your sons disapearance, I am so sadden at the out come. My heart goes out to you and your family, May the Lord bring you peace and may Nick forever be in your hearts.

Robyn Hanae Yamakawa
May 30, 2008 at 1:15 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I'm so unbelievably sorry for your loss. Please know that you will always have the support of the Middlebury community....even those of us who are abroad. Our prayers are with you.

Mary Yazzie
May 30, 2008 at 1:09 AM
Dear Natalie, You have been in my thoughts and prayers since February. I also have two sons who are fine young men, and I know it is difficult to see them grow up and move away, but I cannot find words to know what you are going through right now. You are an extraordinary mother, as I’m sure Nicholas was extraordinary also. Because he chose to live a full life and move far from home, his life has now continued in another place far more beautiful than ours. Continue to be a strong person, I’m sure Nicholas would have wanted you to.
Peace be with you,
Mary Yazzie
Albuquerque, NM

Cynthia Ranks
May 29, 2008 at 11:28 PM
To Nicks family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I unfortunately am one of those mothers who know what it is like to losea child. Don't let people tell you how long ,or how to grieve. JUst know that you sweet son is now with God and at peace.Here is a poem that helped me a little when MY son passed. It by Edgar Guest ..A letter to all parents from god.

"I'LL Lend you for a little time a child of mine,"He said.
"for you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,
"It may be six or seven years or twenty-two or three,
"But will you ,till I call him back,take care of him for me?

"He'll bring his charms to gladden you ,but should his stay be brief
"You'll have his lovely memories ,as solace for your grief
"I cannot promise he will stay,since all from earth return,
"But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn

"I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true.,
"And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have selected you.
"Now will you give him all your love,Nor think the labor vain,
"Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?
I fancied that I hear them say :"Dear Lord ,Thy will be done!
"For all the joy Thy child shall bring,the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness; we'll love him while we may,
And for happiness we've known for ever grateful stay.

"But should the angels call for him much sooner than we planned,
"We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."

Dana B
May 29, 2008 at 11:20 PM
I am so sorry to hear about Nicholas but like many, relieved that he was found. As a mom I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dana B
Albuquerque, NM

Rod Michael
May 29, 2008 at 10:51 PM
Natalie, I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family during this difficult time.

Sincerely, Rod Michael

Amanda Burroughs
May 29, 2008 at 10:42 PM
Nick you are always a charger and will remain in our hearts and our thoughts. All though i never met you your loss is so powerful in the community that it is impossible not to feel. I'm so sorry for your loss Mrs. Garza. the entire school will never forget your son.

Amanda Burroughs
Class of 2010

Melissa Balder
May 29, 2008 at 10:32 PM
Dear Natalie,
I don't know if you remember me or not...we worked together at Sunwest Bank in Rio Rancho many years ago. I just wanted to let you know that I am very sorry for your loss and the horrible ordeal you and your family have been through. I remember meeting Nicholas when he was just a little boy and I just couldn't get over how terribly cute he was and how much of a little "adult" he seemed to be at such a young age (he was probably only 4 or 5 when we worked together). In the news stories that I have read about him since his disappearance it doesn't surprise me to see what a wonderful young man he grew up to be. You must be so proud of him. Keep those happy memories.
You have all of my sympathy. If you need anything at all, please do not hesitate to call me. My phone number is xxx-xxxxx.

Take Care and May God Bless,
Melissa Balder

Phyllis Hunter
May 29, 2008 at 9:49 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and family,
We send our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your entire family. We were not with you physically, as you searched for Nick, but we were with you in spirit. We have been saying prayers and staying involved with the search from the very beginning. Our hearts ache for everyone who loves Nick. We all may have to always wonder why or how this could have happened. Hopefully soon your family can celebrate Nick’s life. If ever you need anything we are here for you and your family.

Ron & Phyllis Hunter

Allison Coyne Carroll
May 29, 2008 at 9:34 PM
Dear Natalie,
Although I work at Middlebury, I did not have the honor of meeting your extraordinary son. As a mother, I cannot even imagine the terrible grief you must feel at this time. I have been thinking of you and your family, and reminded of lyrics from a song by Vermont's own Weston Priory:
"All I ask of you is forever to remember me as loving you.
Deep the joy of being together in one heart
and for me that's just where it is.
All I ask of you is forever to remember me as loving you."
Nick will always be remembered for the generous love he shared with you and others.
Peace to you. Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Allison Coyne Carroll
Middlebury College

Michael Landers
May 29, 2008 at 9:32 PM
Our hearts go out to you, and we pray for comfort for your family.

Mike, Julie, Hope and Hannah Landers
Richardson, TX

Lee and Tom Juvan
May 29, 2008 at 8:41 PM
To the family of Nick Garza,
Like many other Vermonters, we have been thinking of Nick and praying for his safe return for many weeks now. We are so terribly sorry for the loss of your beautiful son and brother.
Sincerely,

Lee and Tom Juvan
Burlington, Vermont

Rebecca Perez
May 29, 2008 at 8:32 PM
I wanted you to know that I received the missing person flyer in Houston, Texas via the Laura Recovery Center. My heart truly goes out to you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Rebecca

Pamela Howard
May 29, 2008 at 8:23 PM
Dear Natalie,
I live here in Middlebury and I wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about nick's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am glad that the searchers found him. My love goes out to your family. Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you.

Regina Gonzales
May 29, 2008 at 7:34 PM
Condolences to Garza Family

Andrea Peakovic
May 29, 2008 at 7:27 PM
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of Nick. I too have been through the disappearance and subsequent death of a close family member. My heart goes out to you through this very difficult time. My you find peace and resolution.

Andrea Peakovic

Carla Thomas

Carla Thomas
Forney, TX

Marina Coneeny
May 29, 2008 at 5:57 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and family and friends of Nicholas,
Our family has been praying and hoping with you for a different outcome, and we are so saddened to learn of your loss. I heard from our daughter, '10 that Nicholas was friendly and liked by all, and enjoyed Middlebury very much. Though he was not there long, he will be remembered by all who met him fondly.
We know that everyone in the close knit Middlebury family and all parents and siblings share your grief and your loss. I am committed as the mother of 2 teenagers to follow this story and participate in any remedial action if we could help in the future prevent such a tragedy from happening again.
Your determination, grace and strength in the past months is an inspiration to all. May peace and healing start for you in finding Nicholas, and may wonderful memories of him keep him close in your heart.
You have our deepest sympathy and respect.

Marina C.

Tom Scanlon
May 29, 2008 at 5:57 PM
I extend my heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the Garza Family. I have been relatively close to the events surrounding the disappearance of Nick and the subsequent search(s) and recovery in that I was assisting the Middlebury Police Department in a very limited capacity. Having formerly been involved in law enforcement for over three decades, I have, more often than I would have liked, had to deal in various ways with families who have lost a loved one. As both a parent and grandparent I can not fathom the hurt and grief families must go through, and what Nick’s family is going through at this time. I pray that the hurt will subside and all can look back at the wonderful times that were had with a son, grandson, brother, and friend named Nick. May we all say a special prayer for him and his family……………….Tom Scanlon, Middlebury Vermont……………

Kendra Wilson
May 29, 2008 at 5:47 PM
In this dark and confusing time, May the love of the heaven, and earth comfort you and I pray that you find peace with the lost of the beloved Nick. May his soul rest in eternal peace. Just know, justice will prevail and Nick will NEVER be forgotten!

Kendra Wilson

Connie Walker
May 29, 2008 at 5:43 PM
Dear Natalie,
I have no words to express our families condolences
for the loss of Nick. We have a daughter who will be
attending Middlebury this fall and can't help
thinking it could easily be our family. Please know
there is a family in California who will continue to
pray for you at length. As you are grieving, we pray
that you will soon find peace.
May God bless & keep you,

Alejandra Jackson
May 29, 2008 at 4:59 PM
In Memorium

You've been found,
Your life's been taken.
You shall be remembered.

It feels like yesterday
I saw you graduate.
You shall be remembered.

The last time I saw you,
You were ever so happy.
You shall be remembered.

I now wear this ribbon
In memorium of your life,
Your spirit shall never die.

Edel
May 29, 2008 at 4:59 PM
Hi ,
im so sorry for your loss .

Edel from Ireland

Jenn
May 29, 2008 at 4:54 PM
So sorry. How many mothers in Middlebury thought about you, for so many
days, so many times of day.... And now we think of you and your family
with this strange mixture of relief and grief. So so so sorry.--Jenn in
Middlebury

Melissa Williams
May 29, 2008 at 4:26 PM
To the Garza Family,
May God comfort you in your hour of need. As a mother of three, I cannot
begin to imagine the pain that you all must be going through. My sincerest
sympathies to all of you on the loss of your beautiful son.

Missy - Sudbury, VT

Steven Jenkins
May 29, 2008 at 4:19 PM
Natalie, unfortunately after 5.5 years of fighting for the truth, the Chris Jenkins family do comprehend the horrific position you and your family have been through. I can only say that you are an amazingly strong person to relocate to Vermont, to get out of bed everyday and fight as you have for Nick. Don’t give up now; keep the media as your new best friends. Push law enforcement for complete and fair investigations. Challenge everything the Medical Examiner tells you. Get second opinions if necessary.

Over the last 10 years, so many of families have been robbed of their son’s presence; dozens of boys were robbed of life, or even dignity surrounding their death.

Nick would want you to create a life worth living after getting through this. You will never forget the love you have for Nick and he knows that, too!

Our deep felt thoughts and prayers are with you.

Steve and Jan Jenkins

Darcy S. DuVal
May 29, 2008 at 3:52 PM
As an Albuquerque Academy Alum I will always feel a deep connection to all Academy students and families. I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Your family is in my heart and in my thoughts.

Darcy S. DuVal , '87

Scott Joyce
May 29, 2008 at 3:56 PM
I have been following this heartbreaking event since the beginning.
~I offer my deepest condolences to Nick’s family, and all who knew him.
Sincerely,

Scott Joyce
Boston, MA

Lynda Innis
May 29, 2008 at 3:53 PM
Natalie,
All my words just seem to get in the way of what I am feeling. I keep thinking about something that happened so long ago. Ethan was 5 yrs old and was hit by a car in front of our house. I remember looking at my beloved father-in-law hopelessly and asking him how we could go through life if we lost our beautiful son. He looked me straight in the eyes and said firmly, “I know how. I would be grateful that I had the opportunity to know such a tremendous boy and I would consider every day I had with him the greatest gift of all.” Those words have stayed with me for 13 years and they brought me comfort in a time of need. I hope they do the same for you.
We will always continue to hold Nick close to our hearts and be grateful that we had the opportunity to know this tremendous young man.

The Innis’
Jim, Lynda, Ethan, and Samantha

Mary Tucker
May 29, 2008 at 3:47 PM
Love from London
Dearest Natalie and family,
I wrote to you once before but feel compelled to write again and
extend my deepest sympathies for your heart-wrenching loss. I am a
Middlebury college student from the class of 2001 living in London.
From the first news of Nick's disappearance, I have followed his case
very closely, checking in daily and reading everything I could get my
hands on. I'm not exactly sure why -- but I have felt an immense pull
towards Middlebury and Nick's story during this time. I think it
stands as a testament to who Nick was that his strength of character
and magnetic personality could make such a strong impression on so
many people around the world, even those who didn't have the pleasure
of knowing him personally. Middlebury is a large global family, and we
have lost an important family member under the most tragic of
circumstances.
Your strength as a mother and your fierce determination to fight for
Nick have left me so inspired and humbled. That Nick could lose his
life in a idyllic town and a loving community like Middlebury is
unacceptable to me, and I know you will continue the fight to find
real answers for which we are all waiting, no matter how long it
takes. We are all standing with you.

With love,
Mary Tucker

Teresa Bradley
May 29, 2008 at 3:35 PM
Natalie and Family
It is hard to find the words to express how one feels at a time like this.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at the tragic time.

The Bradley Family

Jamison N. Cerra
May 29, 2008 at 3:34 PM
Dear Natalie,
My husband and I have followed Nick's story and were sad but relieved for you when we heard the news that you had finally found him. My father wrote this poem many years ago when my brother passed away and I wanted to share it with you and I hope in some small way, this may help you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Cerra Family (Brownsville, VT)

My Son, My Son
Please hear my prayer
For it is with you I wish to share
I pray that I could hold you near
To whisper I love you in your ear
I miss your touch and smile of cheer
For you were one so young and dear
My heart is broke, but it will mend
For I will see you in the end
I pray so much to understand
Why God called you to the Promise Land
I know in my heart, you'll serve him well
For you are so smart, even though so frail
I pray each night as I lay to sleep
For the Lord my Soul to keep
I know one day that he will call
That's when, I'll see you after all
Remember Son, I love you dear
And one day soon, we will be near

Constantino García Palacios
May 29, 2008 at 3:32 PM
My sincerest condolences to Natalie Garza, the entire Garza family and Nick's friends. Along with Nick, you are all in my heart and prayers.

Lynn Warner ' 78
Gijón, Spain

Erin Campos & Family
May 29, 2008 at 3:24 PM
My heart goes out to your whole family and loved ones. I have 2 children around Nick's age, one of them in college and I can't even fathom your immense loss. Please take care and find strength in those who love you.
With Deepest Sympathy,

Erin Campos & Family

Susan Brown & family
May 29, 2008 at 3:21 PM
My family and I extend our heart-felt sympathies to Natalie, Nick’s family and friends. As a mother, I can’t begin to imagine your grief and loss. You all have our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.

Susan Brown & family
Middlebury residents

Paul Murphy
May 29, 2008 at 2:53 PM
Mrs. Garza, Damon & family:
Please accept our deep condolences for Nick’s passing.
The Quaker poet and New Englander, John Greenleaf Whittier, wrote:
“But beauty seen is never lost,
God’s colors all are fast;
The glory of this sunset heaven
Into my soul has passed . . .”
Once beauty is recognized it can’t be undone. Nick’s spirit, and yours, lift us all.
Sincerely,

The Murphy Family, Reston VA
Paul, Kate (1979 & 1987), Daniel (2011), Kevin and Aidan

Cat Young
May 29, 2008 at 12:41 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I pray that you and your family come together and find strength in one another as you go through these difficult times.
Thinking of you,

Cat Young - The French School '02

Carrie Ryan
Vicky Gilbert
Shelley Christian

Carrie Ryan
Vicky Gilbert
Shelley Christian
Janet Lizotte

Adam Morgan
May 29, 2008 at 9:11 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I was not fortunate enough to know Nick. I do know many people who did know and have much respect for him though, and I know that this is a terrible, terrible loss for them and all of Middlebury, your family included. My and all other students' thoughts are with you, and I am so sorry.
Sincerely,

Adam Morgan, Middlebury class of 2008.5

Cassie Davidson
May 29, 2008 at 8:19 AM
I am deeply sad for your lose. With the lose of nick your now becomes one rememberance. He will always be a liitle boy. His Christmas when he know there was no Santa and yet pretended to believe. He was a sight to be scene at that high school dance, There was joy and always will be. You are better for having him and being there.

Nick is loved and missed

Patty Bertolino and Family
May 29, 2008 at 7:23 AM
Dear Natalie and Family,
Our thoughts are with you.
Love,

Patty Bertolino and Family
Mason, Ohio

Stacy Lewis
May 29, 2008 at 7:19 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza & Damon -
Please know you have my deepest sympathy for your loss. I have been following your son's disappearance since day one and although I have been too far away to join in a daily physical search for Nick ... you & he have been a large part of my mental search & thoughts ... both day & night. It is completely unthinkable to lose someone you love and with that thought in mind ... I mentally reached out to each of you with my thoughts and prayers. Please know I still hold very tightly a place for you in my heart. I am however thankful that your pain of not knowing has finally come to an end.
God bless your family and know that there is so many out there still praying for you daily. Reach out to those that offer to be there for you ... and for those of you that can only give a smile, hug, or maybe even just share a tear with no words ... please do. Sometimes you just don't know the power in the most simplistic action!

Stacy Lewis
Claremont, NH

Melissa Feria
May 29, 2008 at 6:52 AM
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Garza,
I'm not sure if you remember me but my name is Melissa Feria (daughter of Dennis & Mary Lou)
and I used to hang out with Nick when I was younger and even had the opportunity to go with
Dimitrius, Nick, and Damon to the Elephant Butte a few years back. Nick was a wonderful guy who
was nice, funny, smart, talented and I wish i would've gotten see you guys more. I remember Nick
loved Sublime and he was the first to show me them! I'll never forget that. There's not enough i can
say to make any of this better but I'm deeply sorry and I wish you guys happiness. If there is any
more info on the services for Nick I'd love to go and say one last good bye to him.
Thank You,

Melissa

Sara Lowes
May 29, 2008 at 6:43 AM
I wish there was something I could say other than that I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Nick. I am thinking of you and your family.

Sara Lowes
Middlebury College

Pierre Williams
May 29, 2008 at 6:38 AM
Dear Garza family,
My prayers go out to God for you during this time. I pray He surrounds you with the peace and comfort that only He can provide. Just as Jesus wept over Lazarus I know He is weeping over Nicholas. May His loving arms embrace you and may your lives forever be filled with loving, happy memories of Nicholas.

Pierre Williams

Susan Ciconte
May 29, 2008 at 6:36 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I moved to New Mexico from Minnesota in January, and have kept abreast of Nick's disappearance since my arrival. I'm heartbroken for you as to what we all now know. I keep you in my prayers that you will be all right in the coming days and months. I know that God is weeping along with all of us during this difficult time, especially for your family.

Susan Ciconte
Albuquerque

Melissa Steffan
May 29, 2008 at 6:33 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Nick touched all of us involved in Debate in New Mexico and our community is mourning with you. May God be with you during this most difficult of times.

Melissa Steffan
Eldorado Speech & Debate
New Mexico Speech & Debate Association

Leona
May 29, 2008 at 6:23 AM
I just had to write and tell you that you are not alone in your grief. I, too recently, lost my father and there are no words to describe the loss or the way you feel. The world just keeps going around you, life goes on, and you must keep going too but you can't help but feel that a mountain somewhere must have moved or something must be differernt somehwere because your whole world has changed...your whole world is different....and nothing will be the same again. God bless you, Nick and your entire family.

Leona
Rio Rancho, NM

Tom & Kerry Fachan
May 29, 2008 at 6:23 AM
Hi Natalie,
Kerry and I have been following the happenings in Vermont since this past winter when news was in the Albuquerque media about Nick. Kerry, Jennifer, and I have moved from Albuquerque and are now living in Kaneohe Hawaii.
We are deeply saddened about Nick and the immense pain that this has to have inflicted upon your family. My memories of Nick and playing the piano will remain with me forever. He was not only a wonderful student but a joyful soul, so full of life, care, and love. It is at times like these that I realize how incompetent words can seem… I prefer to remember the sounds of the piano playing out a tribute of theme and rhythm – played by Nick. He did so well himself!
Bless you & Nick…

Tom & Kerry Fachan

Sharon Calhoun
May 29, 2008 at 6:11 AM
As a fellow New Mexican I have been following your sad story. My heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

Sharon Calhoun
Los Alamos, NM

Natalie Gutierrez
May 29, 2008 at 5:55 AM
Natalie,
Our condolences go out to you and your family. As a mother I can't imagine the pain and emotions you endured. Our prayers have been with you and your family. We are friends with Todd and Vanessa. I have let Todd know if there is anything we can do to help you and your family back in Alb. please let us know. We are here for you and the family.
With Love, Prayers, and Condolences,

Paul, Natalie, Breana & Nickolas Gutierrez

Shela Boback
May 29, 2008 at 5:54 AM
Dearest Natalie and Family,
I am so sorry to have read about Nick, I hate to hear of anyone that loses a child; I cannot imagine your pain and sorrow.
I can only tell you that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and may God ease your pain and bless you with his sweet love during this time. Know he is safe and in the arms of our Lord.
Deepest Sympathies

Shela
Tennessee

Karen
May 29, 2008 at 5:35 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't tell you what I feel, I am a parent also and feel so deeply your loss. I have been following this story since April, when visiting my daughter in college in VT. and I feel like I know Nick. I felt like I knew something happened, I just wanted you to find him. So that is a good thing, that you did find him. I know something bad happened, I do believe that this needs to be looked into. These boys are not just walking off. Whatever I can do, please let me know. I am in tears, I wish I could have really knew Nick, I know he was special!My Love and Prayers always.
Karen

Deb Bouton
May 29, 2008 at 5:33 AM
Natalie, Damon and family,
I know your grief is immeasurable. I have felt so much pain just following this story since february; I cannot fathom the strength it has taken to endure the months of uncertainty, and now the reality of Nick's death. How hard it is to want to help lessen your pain and sorrow, but know there is no way to do so. I write from Burlington, where I have followed this painful saga from the beginning. I hope you know how many hearts have bled for you these past 4 months, and now bleed further still. Please know that you are in the hearts and prayers of so many here in Vermont.

In peace, Deb Bouton

Christa A.
May 29, 2008 at 5:20 AM
I’m very, very sorry about the news. I’m a sophomore this
year at Academy and although I did not know Nick, I know that my classmates and
I are very sorry about everything that happened. We are all praying for you and
you’re family and Nick’s friends and acquaintances and anyone who is affected
by this. We have the deepest condolences and our hearts go out to everyone.
Everyone will remember him and I know we will all keep him in our memories, minds,
and hearts.

Christa A.

Kelley Benway
May 29, 2008 at 4:35 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I was very saddened to hear the news today. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in knowing that Nick is with God now. You have been a strong, courageous mother throughout the past few months. Your son was blessed to have such a loving, committed mom. I pray that in time you will feel less pain and more joy in remembering the time you had with Nick.
Peace be with you.

Kelley Benway
Derby, Vt

James Wright
May 29, 2008 at 4:33 AM
Another family shares your sorrow deeply. We are with you at this heartbreaking time.

JW

Michelle Lopez
May 29, 2008 at 4:08 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

M. Lopez
Las Vegas, NV

Colleen Greene
May 29, 2008 at 3:41 AM
Oh Natalie, I am so sorry for the loss of your exceptional son. My husband is a Middlebury College Grad class of 63. We have been following the updates hoping for good news. However, at least Nick has been found and there can be some rest. Nick would be proud of you and your determination to find him. May you all take care and love and nurture little Damon. Know you are in my thoughts.

Colleen

Duane S. Wilcox
May 29, 2008 at 3:08 AM
Please know that Nick and you all have been in the thoughts and prayers of the extended Middlebury family. Though these prayers have not brought the result we had hoped for, please take comfort in the knowledge that God is doing more for Nick than any of us can desire or pray for.
You continue in my thoughts and prayers.

Duane S. Wilcox
Middlebury ‘77

Mami Trussell
May 29, 2008 at 2:32 AM
Dear Ms. Garza and son:
I read the story of your son Nick and I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am to hear of his tragic passing. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time of great grief and loss. There is no greater pain than that of a mother losing her precious child. Your beautiful son sounds like he was an amazing individual and truly possessed many gifts in his young life. I pray that you and your young son find solace in the memories of your beloved Nick.
Please know that even strangers care and are saddened by your loss. May God bless you, comfort you and give you strength.
In deepest sympathy,

Mami T.
California

Judy Galloway
May 29, 2008 at 2:25 AM
Dear Natalie, I am so sorry. I am so sorry that your beautiful boy has died. I am so sorry that the world will never truly know the gifts that he possessed and would have contributed to the world. I want you to know how fiercely proud I am of you. I feel so fortunate to have witnessed what a caring and tenacious person you are. Nick was found because of you. You never gave up, you stood by him and protected his right to be found. I am proud to call myself a mother when I see a Mother like you. Bless you for your love and courage. My deepest sympathies,

Judy Galloway

Carol Drake
May 29, 2008 at 2:22 AM
It is with My families deepest sympathies and heart felt prayers that I write to you. I was watching the News and as a mother myself, I could not bare the bad news of Nick being found. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers. May God comfort you in your times to come.

C. Drake
Moriarty, NM

Susan Randall
May 29, 2008 at 2:03 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am writing this as I weep for your loss. While it is unbearable right
now, eventually time will help ease some of your suffering.
I send prayers of healing for your family.

Susan Randall
A friend of Lynne Schulze and her family

Liz Le Blanc
May 29, 2008 at 2:00 AM
Hello, I live in Vermont and have been hoping that Nick would be found safe. I am a mother and can not imagine how hard this has been on you and your family. I hope you all can somehow come through this awful tragedy. I am so sad for you. I hope Nick is now able to watch over you all and you will all be ok.

Love, Liz

Charles Robinson
May 29, 2008 at 1:46 AM
We are in the process of moving to Middlebury and are graduates of the college. Have been following the situation also because we lost a daughter to a car accident in October, 07. It is very difficult and we can't imagine how much more difficult it must be for your family. Our hearts go out to you.
We walked across the foot bridge several times last weekend and thought of all this. We recalled something in the Addie Indi about possibilities for a park in the immediate area where your son was found. It seems a fitting memorial. If we can help, put out the word.

Charlie and Heather

Greta Wells
May 29, 2008 at 1:42 AM
To the Garza Family,
You found him ... What a fine young man ... I wish it had been different for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

A Middlebury Mom 96
Greta Wells

Julie Boyd
May 29, 2008 at 1:31 AM
Dear Natalie and family,
We have never met, but Robert Garza was my great uncle. My mother, Eva Bernard, attended his funeral in March in San Antonio, and met your husband. I have been checking the website regularly on your search for Nick, and remembered you all in my prayers. I am so sad, and so sorry for your loss, however, I'm glad he had been found.
God bless you all,

Julie Boyd and family

Teresa Leifeste
May 29, 2008 at 1:11 AM
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Nicholas. I can only imagine the pain. I am thankful he was found, but extremely sorry about his death.
Prayers of peace are with your family.

Teresa Leifeste
Brady, Texas

Kathy Donahue
May 29, 2008 at 1:09 AM
Dear Natalie,
As a mother I can barely imagine your pain tonight and although I wanted your beautiful Nick to come home to you so that somehow you could find some peace, I prayed like so many that perhaps he would be found safe. From his smiling pictures and that of his young brother, it is so clear that he was a happy loving young man and you a wonderful mother. It is not enough to say he is in god's hands because even tho we must believe that I know that it must be impossible for you to make sense of this tragedy. My son graduated from Middlebury in 2002 and it is a wonderful community. May the knowledge that that community and that of people far and wide are thinking of you and praying for you bring you some strength in the days to come.

Kathy Donahue
Rutland, VT.

Ed Nobach
May 29, 2008 at 1:02 AM
To Nick's Family,
Reading about your boy just makes my heart ache for you! Please, know that my sympathy is with you and your family. I have two son's that mean the world to me and can only imagine your grief. I will be praying that the truth about his disappearance come's to light. There is just "too much" of this happening in our world today. My prayers are with you so much!
Sincerely,

Caroline Nobach

Mary Jane Martin
May 29, 2008 at 1:01 AM
Dear Natalie and Family:
My Grandson, Dylan, graduated from the Albuquerque Academy last year and Nick sat next to him on graduation day. I saw a great resemblance in these two boys. And even though, I don't know you, my heart went out to you ever since the first day that the news broke out about Nick's disappearance. I want you to know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since.
There is so much that you can be proud of in the things that Nick did, said and accomplished during his life time. May all the blessed and precious memories of the things he did help you bear the cross and give you strengthened courage to make the very darkest day a brighter one.
We will keep you in our prayers and may God's love comfort you and continue to give you and your family strength, and lighten your grief of loss during these difficult times. I want to praise you for being so amazing through suffering and painful times, and for the loving parent that you are.

With Love and Compassion
Dylan's Grandmother

Dale Piper
May 29, 2008 at 1:00 AM
Natalie,
I was at the press conference that you gave earlier in the spring and since that day I have wished that there was something concrete that I could have done for you. As a mother myself, my heart just breaks when I think of what you have been through and have yet to go through. Thank God you have Damon -- from your description, another amazing boy. Give him extra hugs for me. And a big one for you, Natalie.
You struck me as a strong woman -- you'll need all of that and more now. But you know that.
Bless you and Damon,

Dale Piper

Sarah Whitcomb
May 29, 2008 at 12:43 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. When I heard, I was stunned and extremely saddened. I can't imagine what you're going through; you and Nick are in my prayers.
With deepest sympathy,

Sarah Whitcomb
Richmond, VT

Glen Foss
May 29, 2008 at 12:19 AM
We also know of loss. Our 20 year old son died while on a semester abroad. We have walked the path that is before you and are available to speak with you of it. Surely you are overwhelmed right now with all that comes with this nightmare. When things subside, you may wish to contact us. Those who know of loss are standing by and can assist you and your family through the dark night of the soul. Hang on...

Glen Foss
Maine

Chris Wolfe & Family
May 28, 2008 at 11:57 PM
“What the heart has once known, it shall never forget.” – Author Unknown
My heart is heavy for your loss and my family and I will continue to keep yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Our Deepest Condolences,

Chris Wolfe & Family
Eau Claire, WI

Tristan
May 28, 2008 at 11:54 PM
As a mom, I just wanted to tell you that your family and Nick will be in my prayers. It must be a great consolation to know that Nick was loved and knew he was loved. What more can any mother do? Peace,

Tristan

Mary-Lou Humphries
May 28, 2008 at 11:45 PM
Mrs. Garza and your whole family:
I want to send my prayers to you all. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have kept Nick in my prayers since Feb.
I am just a Mother and Grandmother and Widow from Middlebury, who knows your pain. I know that things will get better, even tho right now you can't understand how this could be. I now will keep your family in my prayers. Yhere is nothing else one can say at a time like this.....just know people, even stangers are thinking about you and praying.

Mary-Lou Humphries

Katy Rinehart
May 28, 2008 at 11:25 PM
To the Garza family:
My profoundest sympathies are with you. I have followed the story of Nick’s disappearance since February, praying daily for his safe return. My heart breaks for you—his beautiful face and smile on your website reflect all the love you poured into raising him. How I wish the news were different.
Sincerely,

Katy Rinehart
Moorestown, NJ
(mother of Kelsey Rinehart, Middlebury ’06)

Lydia Whitney
May 28, 2008 at 11:22 PM
i just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. sometimes god takes angels from us before we are ready to let them go. my love to you all.

Jeniffer M. Vale
May 28, 2008 at 11:19 PM
To the Garza family:
My deepest condolences on the passing of your son. I was and still am praying for you all.
Regards,

Jeniffer M. Vale

Laura Kotz
May 28, 2008 at 11:09 PM
My condolences. I followed this story and prayed he would be found save. My heart breaks for you. May his memory comfort you.

LCK
Greensboro NC

Kelley Blair
May 28, 2008 at 10:50 PM
I can only express my deepest sympathy to you all at this terrible loss.
May you know that Nick is now with GOD. He is now safe in HIS arms. That
should comfort you all to know that he is now SAFE.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all (especially Damon). Damon...you
now have an Angel watching over you!

Kelley Blair
Nashville, TN

Kelly Jai Carpenter
May 28, 2008 at 10:57 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, and family,
As the mother of two boys who are 20 and 16, the sadness I feel for your family comes from my truest depth of heart. We don't know why these terrible things happen- we wish they didn't. I was touched to read your telling words that gave such insight into the beautiful soul who was so briefly Nicholas. You spoke of living your life in a way so as to honor Nicholas...Dear One, you have certainly done that. Your loving heart emanates in your words. Know that one more person is thinking of you and Damon, and sending you love and the most strongest, positive energy possible.

heart to heart,
Kelly Jai Carpenter
Oregon

Lori Bubigkeit
May 28, 2008 at 10:44 PM
Dear Family,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. Words cannot express the heartache that I know you feel. Unfortunately, we too have lost our 19 year old college sophomore son in December. Parents should not have to endure the pain of losing a child. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Lori Bubigkeit, mother of Ryan

Jane Buitron
May 28, 2008 at 10:38 PM
I To Nick’s parents and family, I just read this story on ABCnews.com. Your son was quite handsome. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Jane

Jeanette Olivas
May 28, 2008 at 10:35 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My heartfelt sympathy extends especially to you and your family for the loss of your son. I admire you for the strength the good LORD has given you throughout this ordeal. I don’t know what would be harder in your situation as being a “MOTHER” first of all to not know where, or what happened to your son, the distance between you and your son, and unfortunately the timeframe entailed to continue the search for his body, and to finally witness yourself his body being found. These have been such an extensive timeframe for you, and I pray for peace and closure not only now but in the future.
I recently experienced with my son living in another State, the fear of his family experiencing a tornado in his area, our only contact was by phone, I was so scared and yet helpless because I was in a completely different State (not that I could have helped or changed anything) but just the fear. I thought of you and since I have followed the story of your son since the beginning, my heart hurt and felt pain for your loss.
God Bless you, and give you the strength and peace you require to continue life and go forward, for he has a plan for all of us, and we never know what we have in store for us tomorrow or the next days to follow.

Jeanette
New Mexico

Shelley Olguin
May 28, 2008 at 10:20 PM
Hello,
Been following the story on Nick, sorry for your loss of your beloved son. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

Olguin Family from Northern New Mexicov

Suzanne Slesar
May 28, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Dear Natalie,
You and your family have been in my thoughts every day. Yesterday afternoon I even got online to see if there had been any updates...then last night I heard the news...for some reason I always know things...(I'm the woman who told you about our friend that owns the power dam). Sometimes it's not so great to always know things...but I do know that my thoughts are with you and your family...give Damon lots of hugs and loving. He will bring joy into your lives, as will the memories of Nick. We will never forget all we've learned about what an amazing young man he was....you have the strength of ten thousand women to stay in Vermont and see it through.

Peace,
Suzanne

Michael Edson
May 28, 2008 at 10:10 PM
It's all too sad. I am relieved that Nick has been found and will continue to pray for the Garza Family. We were all hoping and praying for a different outcome. Just know that he is with God now and that your angel is safe. My heartfelt condolences go out to Nick's family and friends. Trust me when I say all of Vermont is saddened by this event.

Michael Edson,
Rutland Vermont.

Martha McSherry
May 28, 2008 at 10:10 PM
As a Middlebury College graduate who lives in Vermont and is the mother of another Middlebury graduate who lives in Albuquerque, I cannot begin to tell you have frequently I have thought of you. I'm so sorry that things turned out the way they did and hope that you can begin to find some peace.

Martha McSherry

Kim Frazier
May 28, 2008 at 10:00 PM
God be with you and your family. There is little else to say – I lost a child of my own nearly 10 years ago, and only know that sometimes there are never enough words. But I learned that God’s grace is without end, and will no doubt carry you through each day until Heaven reunites one and all. May peace be upon you today…and the days to come.

Kimberly

Elizabeth Armstrong
May 28, 2008 at 9:57 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza, Damon and family,
I am so sorry to learn that your beautiful boy, Nick, is gone from this world. Your statement about your loss was so eloquent. You have a great deal to proud of in all of Nick’s accomplishments and in the way that you conducted this search for him. Most notably, you were able to introduce this amazing person, Nicholas Garza, to everyone on your website. Each and every one of us who have been following your courageous search have been so impressed with your first born son. I watched the videos on your website and was amazed at how much Nick loved his younger brother, Damon. My heart goes out to your younger son.
I wish you continued strength as you continue on your journey.

Liz Armstrong

Susan Garcia
May 28, 2008 at 9:58 PM
All of our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,

Susan Garcia
Co-worker & Friend

Juli Hibbard
May 28, 2008 at 9:46 PM
Dear Natalie and family,
I do not know you, or Nick, but I have been following this story closely since he first disappeared. I kept holding out hope they would find your son unharmed. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that words will not help much now, but I just wanted to let you know you have so many thoughts and prayers out there, even from complete strangers.
With deepest sympathy,

Juli Hibbard

Vickie Terry
May 28, 2008 at 9:41 PM
How very sad I feel as I read about your son. May the spirit of our Lord God lift up you and your family in your hours of sorrow.

Nancy Cohen
May 28, 2008 at 9:39 PM
As the mother of a fellow Middlebury freshman, I have been following your tragic search closely, and, although there are no words to express my profound sympathy for your loss, I offer them anyway from the bottom of my heart. May you and the rest of your family take comfort in knowing.
Nancy Cohen

Kate Fitzpatrick
May 28, 2008 at 9:25 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God guide you always.
With deepest condolences,

Kate and Paul Fitzpatrick
NY, NY

Tim Rollenhagen
May 28, 2008 at 9:24 PM
Our prayers and best wishes go out to you and your family during this terrible time. I am sorry...

The Rollenhagen family

Steve, Lorna, Preston and his teammate Braxton Rel
May 28, 2008 at 8:36 PM
Dear Garza Family
We are all very sad for your loss. Nick will be missed in person, but please remember he is with our LORD, and is still with you in spirit. I truly believe that our loved ones that have pasted are never far away. Nick will be with you at times like this to help you with your grief. Please give Damon a hug for me, and let him know we have not forgotten him. I have gifts from the NHL for him when he is ready, I also have his hockey trophy.

Our Deepest Sympathy
Steve, Lorna, Preston and his teammate Braxton Rel

Michele Mersinger
May 28, 2008 at 8:31 PM
I also have a 19 year old son named Nicholas.
He is serving in the Air Force and will be deployed in Sept to Iraq.
My biggest fear is losing my Nick!
I can not fathom your pain and grief.
Keep me in your prayers and I will have you in mine!

God Bless.
Michele M.

Elena
May 28, 2008 at 8:14 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with the Garza family during this very difficult time. Although I did not know Nick, I have been praying for you. Know that he is in Heaven with the Lord and I pray to God to carry you through this.

My deepest sympathies,

May 28, 2008 at 8:05 PM
Our prayers are for the family of Nicholas Garza. May God heal your hearts and dry your tears.

Flo Sizemore
May 28, 2008 at 8:04 PM
Dear Garza Family,
I cannot express the grief that I feel for you, your family and friends. I kept hoping and praying for someone to find Nick and be reunited with him unharmed. I cannot understand who or why someone would want to deliberately hurt such a fine young man.
My youngest son is his age with many similarities of blessings in music, philosophy and has an easy smile. My heart goes out to all of you.
May God bless you all and bring you peace at this time.
Strength be with all of you-

Flo B. Sizemor

Lori Hammell
May 28, 2008 at 7:58 PM
I had been following this story from CT, and was so sorry to hear of your loss today. May God bless and comfort you all and give you strength during this very difficult time. He is with our Lord now in peace.

Lori Hammell

The Benson family
May 28, 2008 at 7:54 PM
Our prayers are with you.

The Benson family

Sharon
May 28, 2008 at 7:59 PM
I wish to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I cry everyday I read about another loss of a life. I pray for you and all of your family and friends that God gives you all strength to continue on with your lives. I pray you continue to have faith and find understanding as to how such a terrible tragedy could happen to such a fine young man and your family.

God Bless!
Sharon from Houston, Tx.

Stephanie Gabaldon

Gia Biden
May 28, 2008 at 7:48 PM
My heart is with you, Natalie, and Damon, in Middlebury today. I can only think that Nick was too good for this world. I can tell by the photos and footage of him that he is special and magical and wonderful.

Gia Biden
Williamstown, VT

Michelle R. Johnson
May 28, 2008 at 7:46 PM
Natalie and Garza Family,
I am extremely saddened by the news. My heart goes out to you. I trust that you will find peace in your heart knowing that Nick is in good hands now. Take comfort in your loving memories of him. We should live every day to the fullest inspired by stories of Nick and his life. Although, I never had the opportunity to meet him, I’m sure he was a great person: you did a wonderful job of nurturing him. You are in my prayers!

God bless you,

Michelle R. Johnson
Albuquerque New Mexico

Carol Barker
May 28, 2008 at 7:41 PM
My heart is broken for your family even tho I do not know you. I can not imagine what you must be feeling. I have prayed for the Lord to comfort all of you at this time.

love, Carol Barker

Jose and Olga Aljure
May 28, 2008 at 7:41 PM
Dear Natalie,
We received with great sorrow the sad news about Nick. No words can describe what you, Damon, Lorry, Tanya, Todd and the rest of the family must be going through. You all are in our prayers so that God will grant you all the strength you need to endure your great loss.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you alleviate your sorrow.
May God bless you all and keep Nick in the Highest of His Glory.
Love,

Jose and Olga Aljure

Joan L Taylor
May 28, 2008 at 7:37 PM
Natalie:
We heard in the news last night about Nicholas and we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers have been with your family. Our family knows how difficult it has been for you and your family. We are still searching for loved ones, Michael and Kyle who were lost at Wolf Creek, Colorado in January.
Our love goes out to you.

Joan Taylor
Michael’s Aunt

Christine Robinson
May 28, 2008 at 7:36 PM
so very, very sorry.

Another Academy Parent

Noah Valdez
May 28, 2008 at 7:32 PM
Dear Damon and family,

We heard the sad news about Nick last night through Dalton. We will continue to pray for you and your family during these hard times. Noah can't wait to play with you again. Stay strong.
Sincerely,
Noah Valdez and family

Lissa Lucht & family
May 28, 2008 at 7:27 PM
Dearest Natalie-
Our heartfelt condolences are being sent to you via this email message. We are truly sorry for your loss, for the pain you've gone through, what a horrible journey it has been for you and your family. You are a "MOTHER OF GREAT COURAGE" with so much fortitude to find her son. We admire you for your enduring courage through all of this. May you find peace (somehow) through this tragedy.

God Bless you,
Lissa Lucht & family

Ben Wilson
May 28, 2008 at 7:02 PM
My heart goes out to Nick's family and friends during the whole of this tramatic event. I cannot imagine what all of you must be going through, but I hope now Nick has been found, you can begin to find some form of peace.
The obvious love so many people had for Nick is very humbling, it reminds me everyday to cherish those near to me, as this sad event should remind all of us, we don't what's around the next corner.

Once again my deepest sympathies.

Ben Wilson, Nottingham, England.

Kris Picard
May 28, 2008 at 6:59 PM
My heart aches for you, as a mom, for the loss of her child. May you find peace in the company of loved ones during this most difficult time.

Kris Picard
Brandon, VT

Deborah Turner
May 28, 2008 at 6:56 PM
Mrs. Garza,
I do not know you nor your beautiful son. I saw the news report which made my heart return to the loss of one of our young family members last year. May God grant you and your family the strength and comfort to go through these days and the days ahead.Your family will be in our prayers and thoughts.

Deborah Turner
TN

Evan Thomas
May 28, 2008 at 6:51 PM
i am so very very sorry for your loss. i am so deeply saddened by the loss of such a great spirit, a beautiful being with such potential. i wish you every blessing during this time of unspeakable tragedy. my heart pours forth the warmest embrace as you search for a way to go on. may you be showered in a thousand hugs, and may flowers spring up in the place nicholas occupied in your life. i send you great waves of love.

Joyce Persing
May 28, 2008 at 6:40 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, and Family,
We have thought and felt for you every day and what you have been through. It is with deepest sadness that this news comes. Please know that we will be there to honor Nick and support you all at the gathering in remembrance of Nick.

With deepest sympathy,

Joyce Persing & friends of Lynne Schulze (Middlebury College freshman who disappeared in 1971 and has never been found)

John W. Hersperger
May 28, 2008 at 6:38 PM
Our prayers are with the Garza family. So terribly sorry to learn of
your loss. Nick and his family will never be far from our thoughts.

John ('86) and Pam Hersperger (UVM '88).

Lynda Inis
May 28, 2008 at 6:32 PM
Natalie,
All my words just seem to get in the way of what I am feeling. I keep thinking about something that happened so long ago. Ethan was 5 yrs old and was hit by a car in front of our house. I remember looking at my beloved father-in-law hopelessly and asking him how we could go through life if we lost our beautiful son. He looked me straight in the eyes and said firmly, “I know how. I would be grateful that I had the opportunity to know such a tremendous boy and I would consider every day I had with him the greatest gift of all.” Those words have stayed with me for 13 years and they brought me comfort in a time of need. I hope they do the same for you.
We will always continue to hold Nick close to our hearts and be grateful that we had the opportunity to know this tremendous young man.

The Innis’
Jim, Lynda, Ethan, and Samantha

Carroll Cummings
May 28, 2008 at 6:23 PM
I am very sorry for your tragedy I was hoping and praying he would come back to you alive and well.

Carroll Cummings '86
Brattleboro, VT

Bonnie Mathieu
May 28, 2008 at 6:26 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, Family & Friends,
We live in Vermont and have followed the search for Nicholas since February with hope that the search results would be positive. We learned of the tragic news this morning and please no our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Nick's many friends during this difficult time.

Bonnie Mathieu & Family

Trish O'Neill
May 28, 2008 at 6:12 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My heart aches for you and I cannot fathom the pain you must be now experiencing at the lost of you darling boy. I have followed your terrible journey since my son, a student at Middlebury, told me that Nick was missing and I have checked daily for updates. Everyone I have told about Nick, here in Moraga, California, have been concerned and have been asking about him since his disappearance.
Nick is in my prayers and a Mass will be offered in his name at St. Monica Church.
I am so sorry...
Trish O'Neill
Moraga, California
Mother of Patrick O'Neill, Class of 2011

Cindy Theil
May 28, 2008 at 6:08 PM
Dear Garza family,
I just want to send my sympathy to you. I feel your pain, I just lost my
son and his girl friend 3 weeks ago. They were college students in Athens,
OH. As with your son, our children were deeply loved and will be sadly
missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Nick's
friends at this difficult time.

Thank You.

Lauren Weeth
May 28, 2008 at 6:06 PM
Dear Natalie and family,
I have been following news regarding Nick's disappearance since February, and my heart broke this morning when I saw the tragic new headlines. Although I am not yet a mother, I know what it is like to be deeply loved and sustained by a great one like you, and I cannot imagine the pain of losing one side of that precious bond. Even though I did not know Nick, we grew up in the same Albuquerque Academy and greater New Mexico communities, and I hope that the energy and love from friends and strangers back home will sustain you through this tremendously difficult time. I am grieving with you and your loved ones in the days to come, and I wish you every possible comfort that you are able to take from each passing day.

With love in sadness,
Lauren Weeth (AA Class of '01)

John Kirkland
May 28, 2008 at 5:55 PM
Sorry for your loss.....

John Kirkland
AA Class of 1965

Mary Ellen
May 28, 2008 at 5:51 PM
My deepest sympathy at this news. My prayers are with you and you family. It is unimaginable. I volunteered one weekend in April combing the banks of the creek. You have been in my prayers as I go to bed each night . My boyfriend, who works the night shift, brought the paper home to me this morning...
Please find condolence in that God must have needed a very special angel to have picked this very special soul.
In thoughts & prayers.
Sincerely,
Mary Ellen

The Laws family
May 28, 2008 at 5:50 PM
I am so very sorry for you loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through right now. Please take comfort in knowing that your Nicholas is now in a much better place and is still being a wonderful big brother as a guardian angel. I pray that God will help to heal your hearts and will bring justice for those responsible if someone is responsible. Please be strong and know that an entire country is praying for you and your family.

The Laws family

Sarah Ford
May 28, 2008 at 5:42 PM
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult
time. I have heard abut Nick from Charlie Eisenhood's family (I am
Charlie's aunt), and know what a special person he was.
With deepest sympathy,

Sarah Ford and family, Sonoma, CA

Adam Barros
May 28, 2008 at 5:28 PM
To Garza and family,
You taught me so much about myself. I can't help but reminisce about every class we had together during the Academy days. I was blessed to have you in a class almost every year and in turn had some of the greatest times of my life. You taught me how to laugh at myself and not be so serious. I will always remember you walking in late to Sid Stockdale's class late and how he would harass you to buy us bagels for being tardy. You also taught me that sometimes, you have to let go and be adventurous. When I heard you were going to Barcelona, I thought of how fun and exciting that sounded and every day of summer wished I could be experiencing the world in that way.
To Nick's family, he was really a wonderful guy who left me with a lasting mark that I will cherish always. My prayers are with you.
RIP Nick Garza
Most importantly, thank you.

Michelle O'Donnell
May 28, 2008 at 5:28 PM
Dear Natalie,
As a fellow Middlebury parent I am so deeply saddened today to know of your loss. While no one can truly understand what you are going through, moms all over are sharing your pain today to the extent that we can. I do hope that you always remember that you had the strength to be there for Nick and do all that you could do for him.May all of your fond memories remain vivid in your heart and mind. WIth deep sadness I offer you our thoughts and prayers as you face this day.
WIth deepest sympathy,

Michelle
Richmond, Va.

Janet Sanchez and Family
May 28, 2008 at 5:15 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, Sierra, and Garza Family,
The news that Nick has been found has paralyzed us. We
continue to uplift prayers for strength and peace to
all of you and Nick's friends as you find your way
through the following minutes, hours, days, months,
and years. We're ready for you to come home with Nick.

Love,
Janet Sanchez and Family

Nathan & Cindy
May 28, 2008 at 5:08 PM
Dear Natalie and family:
I have felt so sad since the day I heard Nick came up missing but I never knew how to write you!! I felt a real presence from Nick's spirit!! I also have children and this is every mothers worse nightmare. I have suffered many horrid experiences with my children but thank god haven't lost one! I am sure Nick is with his loved ones friends and family who have pasted before him. They will with god's help care for him now. Natalie you have been such a dedicated mother and Nick will always be with you in you 'r heart just think about him daily and he will never leave you!! His spirit will always be with you to help you threw this hard time knowing that he loves you and misses you deeply and one day you will be rejoined in heaven where he will be waiting until it's you 'r time to see him again.My deepest sympathy Natalie my heart breaks for you and all Nick's friends and family!!

Another Fallen Angel 5/28/08
Another fallen angel has gone to the arms of god. His family and friends who have pasted before him are waiting with open arms. They will guide and protect him with all the love and guidance of god. Another fallen angel with so much more to live but got has an important purpose for him now but his spirit will live on inside of you until one day you will be together again.

William Carter
May 28, 2008 at 5:07 PM
Dear Family of Nicholas Garza,
I would like to offer my most sincere condolences on the loss of your son/brother Nicholas Garza. I can truly feel for what you are going through. I lost my own brother (Matthew Carter) in the summer of 1990 in Phoenix, Arizona. He was only 22 years old. His case was a homicide. It took six years for the police to find out who did it. In that six years my mental health degraded considerably. I spent so much time enraged at the world for allowing this to happen. I pulled my hair out wondering who could have done such a thing and wondering if my brother's life style or choice of friends was a factor.
In the end it turned out to be a case of mistaken identity. I wasted years stressing over it. My only advice to you is to not repeat the same mistake. Don't let this drive you crazy. It will accomplish nothing.
I wish you all luck finding a way to deal with the pain. I know it is hard.
Sincerely,

William Carter

Christina Bailey and Family
May 28, 2008 at 5:02 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My family weeps for your loss. Please know that your loss is felt by all in Albuquerque and beyond. Our hearts are with you.

Christina Bailey and Family

Michelle Bishop
May 28, 2008 at 5:04 PM
Reading this latest news is heartbreaking and I cannot imagine the grief this young man's family and friends are going through. I can only hope that healing can begin soon as you know he is with God and will be looking out for you from above.

Jose and Gisel
May 28, 2008 at 4:58 PM
To Natalie and family:
This has been sadly felt all the way down to Miami, Florida.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. Your prayers and ours, and those of thousands of people around the nation, were not answered the way we wanted them, but that was God’s decision and we must accept it.
Remember what the Good Lord says in the scriptures (Roman: 8:28) :: “All things work together for good for those who love God”. We may not see it now, but there was a purpose in this tragedy and God will show it in His time, not ours.
God bless you and your loved ones.
Sincerely,

Jose and Gisel, and our kids Corey and Gisel
Pembroke Pines, Florida

Michelle Burdett
May 28, 2008 at 4:56 PM
Dear Natalie,
My heart breaks for you, Damon, and the rest of your family. I have thought about you every day since Nick disappeared. He was such a bright young man. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I am very saddened by the news yesterday, but hope that you can start to have some closure.

Michelle Burdett (Wiegmann)

Debra Abbate
May 28, 2008 at 4:48 PM
Dear Natalie:
I just read the terribly sad news. As the mother of college students, myself, I have been very afraid for your son. Seeing his warm, kind, happy face and knowing that he was missing just broke my heart.
I am just so sorry.

Debra Abbate
Strum, WI

Duane
May 28, 2008 at 4:47 PM
I followed the story of Nicolas's disapperance on Fox News. I can not possibly understand the agony his family must be feeling. I can only express my sympathy for your loss. What a beautiful human being. Only God has answers as to why. Wishing that the pain of your loss pass and the beautiful memories you have of Nicholas live on in your heart.
Sincerely

Duane, Minneapolis MN

Karen Horne
May 28, 2008 at 4:37 PM
Dear Natalie, family and friends,
I was saddened this morning to here the news. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will continue to keep you and yours in my prayers.
Sincerely,

Karen H.
Tuscaloosa, Alabama

Pat Walker
May 28, 2008 at 4:40 PM
May God be with you all at this most hurtful time....I will not presume to say those unfelt words, I know how you feel, because I do not.....I can only imagine.....But as you put Nick to rest at long last, may you know, that he is in good hands, and has been ever since the fateful day, that his life ended....Let the blessings of his beautiful memory sustain you in the hours, days and years to come.....

Pat Walker in Ohio

Maria Theresa Stadtmueller
May 28, 2008 at 4:38 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza and family,
My office colleagues and I at Middlebury College have admired your advocacy
for your son during these months; how deeply sad to be reunited with him in
this way. I wish you peace and will think of you and Nick whenever I cross
the Otter Creek footbridge.

Maria Theresa Stadtmueller

Donna Maes
May 28, 2008 at 4:38 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and The Garza Family,
My eyes dwell with tears and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Donna Maes

Diana Hudnall
May 28, 2008 at 4:32 PM
Natalie and the Garza Family ………… I live in Louisiana and just lost my 27 year old son, Billy, in a tragic motorcycle accident. My heart goes out to you as a parent and especially as a mother. My Billy too was an extraordinary young man and we will miss his infectious smile always. Your Nick appeared to be amazing and I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless you and your family.

Diana Hudnall
Bossier City, LA

Sandra Ray
May 28, 2008 at 4:01 PM
Natalie, I'm from Tennessee and I'm so sorry for your loss. I do know how you feel. I lost my son almost two years ago and that has been the hardest thing that I have ever had to endure. He was 27 years old. I pray for you and your family. I pray that God will give you peace and comfort.

Sandra Ray

Mary Feria
May 28, 2008 at 4:32 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My hearts are with you and your family. NIcholas was a amazing kid. and will truly be missed.
May God Bless you and your son.

Mary lou Feria, Melissa Feria

Mark and Debbie Lyter
May 28, 2008 at 4:31 PM
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you today. As everyone, we had prayed for a miracle that Nick would somehow return safely. He now is in Gods arms and He will keep him close forever. Our hearts break for you as there can be no greater loss than what you are going through right now. You and your family have touched a part of us that will be etched in our hearts and minds forever. Nicks pictures with his beautiful smile will remain with us all.
God bless you and keep you and your family and friends as you take your son home one last time. You will never be forgotten and will remain in our prayers.

Mark and Debbie Lyter..
Bristol, VT

Catherine P MacNeil
May 28, 2008 at 4:29 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to the family of Nick and hope that they can find some peace

A

Randy/Charlena Chesnut
May 28, 2008 at 4:21 PM
I know you do not know me, but I just had to express to you and your family, how saddened I am about the loss of your son, Nicholas. I have been following this story and had prayed that the outcome would be different. Please just trust in the Lord and let him help you through this. Just know that Nicholas is at peace and happy. By the grace of God, you will see him again someday. My prayers are with your family. God Bless and comfort you.

Charlena
Kentucky

Jessica and Zach Rasmussen
May 28, 2008 at 4:23 PM
We are so sorry for your loss; please know our thoughts are with your family during this time.

Jessica and Zach Rasmussen
(formerly of Albuquerque, NM)

Ken and Joanne Ford
May 28, 2008 at 4:20 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
From all accounts Nick has been a joy to his family and friends. We, as Charlie Eisenhood's grandparents, have been emotionally involved since Nick's disappearance in February. Last night's sad recovery of Nick's body again brings tears and the anguish of loss of such a promising young man. I remember meeting him; tall, handsome, dark-haired, warm smiling boy with a firm handshake. His short life has certainly made a profound difference in the lives of his friends at school and college, and beyond. Along with Charlie, we mourn - and have etched on our minds the short, but totally engaged significant life of Nick, your beloved son.

Sincerely,
Ken and Joanne Ford
Philadelphia, PA

Lisa Wallner & family
May 28, 2008 at 4:18 PM
As a mother, I can't even begin to understand what you & your family are going through. I read the news story and my heart goes out to you. God bless you all.

Lisa Wallner & family
Mukwonago, Wisconsin

Paul Etheridge
May 28, 2008 at 4:11 PM
Our deepest condolences go out to your family at this time. We can only imagine the pain that you are experiencing. We are praying for God to comfort you in your hour of need, and that He keeps His loving arms wrapped around you.

Olga Cook
May 28, 2008 at 4:10 PM
Dearest Natalie Garza & Family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your son. I recently lost my son, Eric Thomas Pierce, and, ironically, I received word of my son's fatal car accident the day your son went missing, Feb. 5th, my son, too was 19.
Please know this..."I am weary with my sighing; Every night I make my bed swim, I dissolve my couch with my tears. My eye has wasted away with grief" (Psalm 6:6-7 NASB).
"I must admit, though, "Knowing the Lord and His comfort does not take away the ache; instead, it supports me in the middle of the ache. Until I get home to heaven, there's going to be an ache that won't quit. The grieving process for me is not so much a matter of getting rid of the pain, but not being controlled by the pain."
We read in the Psalms that David grew weary with the process of grief and cried out to the Lord. Then he left the timing in God's hands. I do trust God's Will for me and my family and it was no surprise when Jesus met my son at the pearly gates of Heaven, it was written before he was born!
I pray you find comfort and peace by way of the Lord's Grace during your time of suffering. God Bless you and your family!

Olga Cook

Elizabeth Waller
May 28, 2008 at 4:08 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

Elizabeth Waller
Burlington, VT

Jolene Day
May 28, 2008 at 4:04 PM
Natalie, My son attends Academy and since Nick's disappearance, I have prayed and followed the news of his fate daily. I was so saddened to open the paper this morning and find the news of Nick. I can not even imagine what you must be feeling but know that Nick is safe and happy and even though I and others have never met him, he has touched our lives in so many ways. You are amazing to me and may God comfort you at this time.

Jolene Day
Albuquerque

Julie M Potter
May 28, 2008 at 4:02 PM
Oh Natalie and family,
Our hearts are breaking…it was a long night of so many thoughts and emotions. Tears just don’t stop.
As always, words fail, but we are here waiting for you all.
May the comfort and strength of love surround you at all times. Just always remember what an incredible well-lived life Nick shared with so many. You, Damon, aunts, uncles, grandparents and all the many friends were so profound in that journey. I know Nick will be guiding you all in ways that are not even evident yet, but his spirit will magnify the goodness this life is meant to know!

Love,
Julie and family

Barbara Crisci
May 28, 2008 at 4:02 PM
To Nick’s Family and Friends,
I would like to express my sadness at your loss. I didn’t know Nick, just read about him in the paper, and there is no greater tragedy than losing a child. Know he is not forgotten, and is in God’s hands forever. Peace.

Barbara Crisc
Long Island, New York

Donna Crank
May 28, 2008 at 4:00 PM
In my heart I felt your cries. My sorrow and sympathies are sent to you with love and care. The message of Easter must be recalled - it is all going to be OK. May you continue to be an example to all - your perserverance, dedication and love. May you find peace now. God bless.

Donna Crank - AA parent '05 and '02

Stephanie Joseph
May 28, 2008 at 3:59 PM
May you be blessed with supernatural healing powers to assist you in this terrible time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Stephanie Josph

Rasheed Abdullah
May 28, 2008 at 3:59 PM
To The Family:
I would like to take this time to let you all know that my prayers go out to all of Nick's family and friends during this time of Grief. I pray that many of your unanswered questions about your son's last remaining moments will be answered, allowing for closure to be one step closer. I can not imagine the pain you all must have had to endure since that February night, but I hope your spirit still remains high. Again, my prayers go out to you all and my G-d bless you all!

Sincerely Signed,
Rasheed Abdullah

Tim Morgan & family
May 28, 2008 at 3:56 PM
We are so sorry to hear about this great loss to your family... Our heart and sympathies go to everyone who was loved and touched by this young man..

Tim Morgan & family
Tulsa, Oklahoma

Manny Linares
May 28, 2008 at 3:54 PM
May the lord bless your family with comfort and tranquility in this difficult time. Your son was indeed a special person who will be deeply missed. Speaking as a person who never met your son I could truly tell that he was a special man. From the bottom of my heart my thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family during this irreplaceable lost.
Best wishes,

Manny Linares

Ellan Toothman
May 28, 2008 at 3:51 PM
Natalie,
Your statement about Nick has impacted me beyond words. With a few simple sentences I felt the grace of your son along with the pain you feel.
I am so very sorry. I pray for comfort to come to you.

Ellan

Katharine P. DeLorenzo
May 28, 2008 at 3:48 PM
We share your grief, love and sorrow because we love our own sons. Please
feel this supportive strength when you need it most.

Katharine P. DeLorenzo
Middlebury College Athletics
Head Field Hockey Coach

Scott Elkins
May 28, 2008 at 3:40 PM
I do not know the grief you are feeling but, as a father myself, I imagine it to be unthinkable. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family. May God’s peace be with you.

Scott Elkins

Sandi Curtis
May 28, 2008 at 3:36 PM
I have two grown sons & I could never, ever imagine the grief your family is going thru with the loss of Nick. I use to live in Woodstock, Vermont & drove up near that campus many times. A beautiful part of the country & a place that’s considered desirable & safe…but bad things seem to happen to good people no matter where they are. I have lost a close family member & I get comfort in knowing that I can talk to him any time I wish, maybe that can help you also. I wish I was financially able to help you in some way, but at this time, all I can offer you are my thoughts & prayers for some peace in knowing you raised a wonderful son & you will always be proud of him & have the memories always.
From one Mom to another….

Sandi Curtis
Clearwater, FL

Jan Mobley
May 28, 2008 at 3:35 PM
Dear Garza Family,
I was very saddened to hear the news this morning. I know I am a stranger to your family but I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers. I pray that God will bring you peace knowing Nick is with Him!

Jan Mobley
Jenks, OK

Kelly Harris
May 28, 2008 at 3:30 PM
Dear Natalie,
My heart breaks for you today with the latest news in the search for Nick. I don’t know you or your family personally but I read about Nick earlier this year, shortly after he went missing. There is no measure of the grief, pain and utter disbelief you are experiencing right now. It is something I hope few parents will experience. My little boy is 20 months old, I know you remember Nick when he was that age – the memories you have made with him during his short life are, as you know, priceless. In these extraordinarily difficult times, when the media is gone and you feel so alone with the knowledge that Nick is no longer here, try to remember those memories – I hope that will help you.
Peace & Healing to you and your family,

Kelly H.

Betsy Kleinman
May 28, 2008 at f:24 PM
To The Garza Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. We are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful son and brother. Please accept our deepest condolences.

The Kleinman Family - Amanda Kleinman '09

Kathi Spears
May 28, 2008 at 3:23 PM
Dear Natalie,
I don't know you or your family, but I have been following Nick's story on the internet. I am so deeply sorry for your terrible loss. Just seeing Nick's pictures makes me think he was indeed a rare and truly wonderful person.
I, too, have a nineteen year old son that attends college away from home, so I can understand your concern when you did not hear from him. My heart goes out to you.
Please know that I am praying for your and your family. Nick is in a much better place now. God bless all of you.

Kathi Spears

Teri Roberts
May 28, 2008 at 3:21 PM
My heart felt sympathy is with your family.

Kevin Fowler
May 28, 2008 at 3:14 PM
Dear Natalie,
Words cannot describe the sense of loss and grief we feel this morning. In the classroom and beyond, Nick shared with us his intensity and passion for life that will live in our hearts forever. Please know that you will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Fowler

Paul & Nickel C.
May 28, 2008 at 3:02 PM
Dear Garza Family,
Our family is saddened and broken for your loss. I pray that God's love and mercy would wrap you up, dry your tears, and fill that hole that Nicholas left and no one will ever be able to fill. I cannot imagine the pain that your hearts must be feeling.

May God Bless Your Family,
Paul & Nickel C.

Emily Bohn-Drake
May 28, 2008 at 2:56 PM
We continue to send prayers to your family at this time.

New Jersey family

David Stabler
May 28, 2008 at 2:48 PM
Hello,
I don’t know you and I never knew your son Nick. But…..I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I trust that you will know grace and hope in this dark time. I especially think of Nick’s younger brother Damon at this difficult period and hope for an inner strength for him. I wish I could do or say more to help. But….as a fellow human being I just want to say that I am sorry and that I grieve with you, even if in a small way, for the loss you have experienced.
My deepest regards,

David Stabler
Switzerland

Sally Stuart
May 28, 2008 at 2:41 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. As a mother to two I can fathom a loss of a child. Nicholas' pictures are breathtaking and I can't imagine what happened and why? Why???. Know that strangers are praying for you and that as hard as this is to accept he is definitely God's angel and child and will be watching you from above. Please accept my deepest love and sympathy.

Sincerely, Sally

Terry Wright
May 28, 2008 at 2:37 PM
Natalie,
As the parent of a Middlebury student, I am filled with grief at your loss. You have been a strong and loving mother throughout this unimaginably horrible and tragic time. Please know that every parent feels some measure of your pain and is suffering with you. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers during the coming weeks and months. Although I know you will never fully recover from this horror, I pray that you will eventually find some peace in your life. You and Nick will remain in our hearts forever.

Terry

Liza Myers
May 28, 2008 at 2:34 PM
My heart aches for your loss, and all of our loss of this beautiful, talented boy.
There are no words that can soothe your sorrow. Please know that many are reaching out to you with love.
I am just down the road in Sudbury, Vermont, but Hollie Putnam from the academy and her parents have been my friends for many years.
I wish I had known you were here.
With love

liza myers

Lori Brecheen
May 28, 2008 at 2:33 PM
There are just no words. I am praying for your family to be comforted by God during this time.

Gary Hollan
May 28, 2008 at 2:26 PM
My heart aches for you. I will pray for your family today.

God Bless.

Father Jim Sichko and the Parishioners of St. Mark
May 28, 2008 at 2:26 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza:
The prayers of the people of St. Mark Catholic Church are with you and your family, as you grieve the loss of your son, Nicholas. Please know that as you grieve the loss of your son, your son continues to live with you and countless others.
Sincerely yours,

Father Jim Sichko and the Parishioners of St. Mark
St. Mark Catholic Church

Caroline Bloomquist
May 28, 2008 at 2:19 PM
I am so sorry. I did not know Nick or you, but I am a mom too. You will be in my prayers. God bless you.

Tammy
May 28, 2008 at 2:15 PM
Hello. I read your son's story online. I am so sorry and my prayers go out to your family.

Babo
May 28, 2008 at 2:15 PM
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the tragic loss of your beautiful amd beloved son Nick. May God Bless each of you.

Beth Bright
May 28, 2008 at 2:10 PM
Trickling down my face, splashing
Everything I love, I remember
Another time similar to this, only it was the
Rain that came and washed the
Sunshine from my face, not this.
Always in my prayers…

Beth Bright
Maytown, PA

Lloyd Randel and family
May 28, 2008 at 1:58 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My deepest sympathies to you and yours. I can’t imagine your grief with three children of my own. My God hold you in the palm of his hand during this extreme time of grief and grant you a peace beyond understanding.
God Bless,

Lloyd Randel and family
Richmond, Texas

Ronald Hunter
May 28, 2008 at 1:55 PM
my eyes are filled with tears for you,may God Bless You.I am so sorry for you.

Ron Hunter,Piedmont,MO

Shirley Catron
May 28, 2008 at 1:56 PM
I have followed the story of your Nick's disappearance since first learning of it in February. Now, as a concerned party and as a mother, my heart breaks with learning of your loss. There are no words that can fully express how much I reach out to you with my heart and my prayers for comfort. I am so very sorry. He was a beautiful young man, obviously as much so on the inside as on the outside and clearly cherished by his family and all who knew him.
I offer my condolences and my prayers.

-Shirley

Robin Samiof
May 28, 2008 at 1:52 PM
To the family and friends of Nick ~
Having two sons, a parent’s biggest fear is losing a child. No matter their age, they are always a child to us, and life is supposed to have an order to things. Parents have children and watch them grow up and have families of their own. We become grandparents, grow old and pass away peacefully knowing that our legacy lives on. When life’s order becomes disheveled and confused, so does our heart, and I can only imagine the sorry and grief your family is enduring at this time.
So many people have had hope with you for Nick’s safe return. People who have never had the pleasure or honor of knowing your son or your family, and yet there is a vast community that feels your love and grief and pain and wishes that the outcome had been a successful and happy one.
Know that although I don’t know you, you are in my thoughts, my prayers and my heart. I am so very sorry for your loss and pray that you will heal and that your memories will sustain you during this time.
With deepest sympathies,

Robin Samiof

Forrest Putnam
May 28, 2008 at 1:47 PM
May the GOD who created the universe grant you the GRACE sufficient to cope with your loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts.

The Putnam family from South Carolina

Jan Albers
May 28, 2008 at 1:45 PM
To Natalie Garza,
My deepest sympathies go out to you at this difficult time. I have faculty friends who taught Nick, and they have only wonderful things to say about his responsible work habits, intelligence and wit. They had great respect for him. He made an impact here in his short time at the College. Love from my family to you and the whole Garza family. You are in our thoughts.

Jan

Liz Furkay
May 28, 2008 at 1:43 PM
Dear Natalie,
My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. I hope you can feel the strong spiritual support of universal motherhood as we all mourn with you.

Liz Furkay

Kate Anderson
May 28, 2008 at 1:31 PM
Dear Ms. Natalie,
I am so sorry, ma'am, for the loss of your son Nick. I have 3 adult sons myself and after reading that you found him in the creek, I sat back and tried to imagine losing one of my own, and then losing one of them in that manner. I could not, the pain that rose up was enormous. May God bring you some sort of comfort in this time of great pain.

Respectfully
Kate Anderson

Amy Conant
May 28, 2008 at 1:28 PM
Dear Natalie,
My deepest sympathy, how I prayed and hoped that this would end differently. Now I pray that you can find comfort in knowing that Nick is at peace, watching over his family and friends and is with you always.
Take care, and stay strong.

Warmly,
Amy Conant

The Nanasi family
May 28, 2008 at 1:22 PM
It is with deep sadness and sympathy that we extend our hearts to your family. All of Vermont, indeed the nation, hold you close during this time of sorrow. Please know that Nick is gracing Heaven with his beautiful smile, and is looking down upon his loving family and sending his love to you.

The Nanasi family
Burlington, Vermont

Robin Morrill
May 28, 2008 at 1:12 PM
Dear Ms. Garza:
I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you are experiencing as I lost my son here in VT in 1999 to mysterious circumstances. Please know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you this whole time and you will constantly be in my prayers.

Sincerely,
Robin Morrill

John & Donna Seguin & Family
May 28, 2008 at 12:46 PM
Natalie,
Our heart breaks for you and your family. You are and amazing Women & Mom, I can only imagine how this last almost 4 months have been for you and your family. You are such a strong and wonderful Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this very difficult time.

John & Donna Seguin & Family
New Haven, VT

Carol Ann Wooster
May 28, 2008 at 12:28 PM
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time

Carol Ann Wooster Burlington, VT

Pat Tougas
May 28, 2008 at 12:01 PM
Dear Family of NIck, I watched last night as they found your son, my heart breaks for all of you. Know that many prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God has guided him home and He will care for him now...

Pat Tougas

Sonya
May 28, 2008 at 11:30 AM
Hello to all of Nick's family,
I cried when I heard of Nick being found as if he was my family. I checked your website each and everyday. I just want to drop you a line how truly sorry I am
that this happened to your smart beautiful son. I do know that Nick was with God the second he past and only his body remained in the water. I will never forget
your son. I know you did everything you could Natalie. You knew right away something was wrong and you searched hard. May you find peace in time.
Sincerely,

Sonya

Fabienne Gregoire
May 28, 2008 at 11:24 AM
Words can not describe the pain I feel for you and your family. I was hoping, we all were, that Nick would be found safe and sound. May you find the strength to rebuild your life. With much love and sympath

--
Fabienne Grégoire
London, UK
Mother of a Middlebury Student '11

Laila Tootoonchi
May 28, 2008 at 9:37 AM
Dear Natalie and Family,
I am so dreadfully sorry for the loss of Nick. I became friends with Nick while we were both students at the Academy, and was instantly taken with his brilliance, humor, and undeniable charm. At this moment, I can think of a dozen circumstances in which Nick was a beautiful and refreshing presence in my life. I miss him dearly, and am sending lots of love your way.

Love,
Laila Tootoonchi

Christopher Bresett
May 28, 2008 at 8:55 AM
To the family of Nick Garza,
There are very few times in our lives that are more devastating than the death of a loved one. With behalf of Champlain Valley Search and Rescue K9 Unit we send our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Our warmest prayers to you and your family,

Christopher Bresett
Team Leader
Champlain Valley
Search and Rescue
K9 Unit
http://www.freewebs.com/champlainvalleyk9unit

Larry D. Crumbley
May 28, 2008 at 8:39 AM
Hello,
It is very difficult to say anything that will make you or any sibling feel any better about your lost, but what I want real hard to try, and say is that my, and my
wifes Prayers are going out to God Almighty for you, and your entire family at this time in your families life. If at anytime you want to speak with anyone, and just want to talk to a friendly voice, please do not hesitate to call me at this phone number---(276)-730-9573. I am very serious. It does not matter what time of day it is, or night
I have been told that I have a good ear, and in doing so I would be very stupid not to do what God has told, no commanded us all to do, and that is to bare each others burdens, and that is what I am trying to do, and please never hesitate to call me if you want to speak with a friendly person that knows about grief. May God Almighty
Help, and Minister to you at this time of your families lost. God Bless for now.

Once again God Bless you,
Larry D. Crumbley

Marilyn Bojler
May 28, 2008 at 8:09 AM
Dearest Garza family,
I’ve been following your family’s search and wait, and have hoped and prayed that there would be a much happier ending to this nightmare for you.
I just have to add my words to those of, I’m sure thousands, who feel for your horrible loss of Nicholas. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
I am an American living in Sweden, but have a daughter who attends University in Nacogdoches, Texas. I know myself how hard it is to have your child studying away from home, and the fears that accompany that.
May you find comfort in the knowledge of the wonderful young man who was your son and brother and how much he loved you all and may your blessed memories of him help you through this time.
Sincerely,

Marilyn Bojler

Liz Brooker
May 28, 2008 at 8:05 AM
I am so sorry for your families loss. My prayers are
with you.

Liz Brooker
Beaverton Oregon

Carolyn Bond
May 28, 2008 at 8:04 AM
very informative. I don't know the young man. May I offer my prayers, however? He seemed like someone I wish I had met. You must be very proud of him Ms Garza. I just read the article about him on AOL. I am so sorry for the outcome. My prayers are with you and your family. Such a loss for humankind. May you find some peace and comfort in your faith and through your prayers and with your family and friends. Take care.

agape'
Mrs Carolyn Bond

Iris Di Santo
May 28, 2008 at 7:57 AM
I just read your website, what a beautiful son you have, I am so sad, and Sorry about your loss, and tonight my thoughts are with you.

Iris Di Santo
Santa Barbara, CA

Paula Hatin-St.Amour
May 28, 2008 at 7:27 AM
Very dear Natalie, Damon and Family,
My heart is with you. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all. Please call for any help that I can give you.

Love and Respect,
Paula Hatin-St.Amour

Kameron Dudek
May 28, 2008 at 7:13 AM
Natalie,
My name is Kameron Dudek. I am the coach for the Mesa State Hockey team in Grand Junction, Co. I want you to know that your grief is shared by my family and entire hockey team. Last year we had one of our players killed by a drunk driver. His Name was Jake Brock and was also a freshman. We all understand your grief and mourn your loss. All of us have been following the story since Fox news broke your story several months ago. Even though we never played with or against him. He is one of our teammates. If there is anything that we can do, please let us know.

Deepest sympathy,
Kameron Dudek
Head Coach
Mesa State Hockey

B Amos
May 28, 2008 at 7:10 AM
Dear Garza Family:
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Nick. I cannot begin to understand what you are going through, but I pray that God, Who does understand, will give you strength and grace as you grieve and honor Nick's life.
In Christ,
B Amos

Christina Rodgers
May 28, 2008 at 7:06 AM
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I am thankful that you have the closure that is sometimes necessary in horrid situations as of this nature. May you get through the pain, anger and guilt quickly enough to remember the joy that your angel brought you in his short life. I prayer there is no reason to go forward with an investigation in to your terrible loss.
My heart is with your family in this time of pain
Christina Rodgers
Rockford, IL
Northern IL Huskie University

Johanna Pacifico
May 28, 2008 at 7:01 AM
I have followed this story and prayed for you. I have no concept of the horrific feelings you must have or the sadness. I am crying for your loss and for his beautiful life taken too soon. I will continue to pray for you and may God bless you with some type of peace, answers, something. I am again so sorry for your loss.

Johanna
California

Keith Oritz
May 28, 2008 at 12:43am
Dear Natalie and Family,
We are stunned at the news of this evening. I suppose we were hoping against hope that Nick would be found otherwise.
Tonight, Nick's closest friends from the Albuquerque Academy are gathered together sharing their grief and you are in their thoughts.
There are many people, including Nick's New Mexico friends, whom Nick touched with the light he brought into the world. He will always be remembered for being an amazing person.

With deepest condolences,

Keith, Karen and Kaley Ortiz
Parents and Alumna, Albuquerque Academy Class of 2007

Steven Wolfe
May 28, 2008 at 12:36pm
We are praying for you, Nick is with God

The Wolfe Family

Connie Fleischer
May 28, 2008 at 12:18am
Dear Natalie,
My heart breaks for you and your family. Our prayers were not answered as e had hoped, so now we must hope for the strength to see you through this phase of your loss. This is an amazing community, and I hope that you find yourself continually supported by us in unimaginable ways in the months to
come. I know grief and loss all too well, but I can only imagine the pain you are enduring from the loss of your magnificent son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Connie Fleischer

Mary
May 27, 2008 at 11:59pm
My Dearest Natalie, Damon, and Family.
My thoughts and Prayers are with you in this difficult time of Sympathy. I am Here if you need me, and if there is anything that I can do please do not hesitate to call me.

Mary Dennis & Family
The Robin Family
May 27, 2008 at 11:45pm
Dearest Natalie and Family,
Please know that people far and wide have kept you close in thought and prayer.
My heart aches for you all...bless you.
Nicholas is going home.

The Robin Family
New Jersey

Shannon Chamberlain
May 27, 2008 at 11:41pm
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. I have been following the story of your son since it began, as we have family near Middlebury. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

SMC

Katherine Janush
May 27, 2008 at 11:34pm
Dear Natalie and family,
I have followed this story since February. I live in Vermont, and one of my children attends college in Vermont.
I am relieved for you that things have finally been resolved, but yet disheartened that it came to such a tragic end.
I can’t imagine the emotions or pain that you have suffered during this ordeal. You should commend yourself for being such a dedicated mother to Nick.
I wish there was something better that I could say in your time of sorrow.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I wish you the best that things can be now.

Katherine

Brooke Barron
May 27, 2008 at 11:07pm
Dear Natalie and Family,
I've been thinking of you and Nick every day since I heard the news in February. He was so profoundly lucky to have had you in his life. Please accept this poem in honor of Nick's life.

Tell me not, in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream!
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
and things are not what they seem.
Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou art; to dust returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.
- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

May Nick Rest in Peace
With Love and Compassion,
Brooke Barron

Debra Blouin
May 27, 2008 at 10:37pm
Dear Natalie and Family,
With a heavy heart I heard the sad news tonight. I prayed it was Nick, only for you to have closure to this night mare. I struggled to write this message, unknown words to say. I will pray for you and your family. I hope you can find one moment of comfort in knowing your son is safe and warm in God's hands. Please take care of yourself and Nick's little brother. You will always have families in VT who thought of you daily during these dreadful months. From one broken hearted Mother to another.

Debbie Blouin
St. Albans, VT

Simone Lutz
May 27, 2008 at 10:22pm
To the Garza Family,
Our deepest sympathy is extended to you all, Natalie and Family, on the eve of this sad discovery. We have been hoping and praying for all these months that a miracle would be yours. Please know that strangers are praying for you all, and wishing you comfort, closure, and peace. This is a terrible grief that no one should ever experience. We are so sorry. We live in the Plattsburgh area and have followed Nicholas's story for months. You have been in our hearts.

Sincerely,
Simone

Jackie Botala
May 27, 2008 at 10:20pm
I pray for your family and all the rescue searchers on this night, the emotions I am sure are heavey. I can not begin to express my feelings as a mother of a 21 yr old son. Please know that the community of Middlebury, the whole of Vermont, reaches out to you still. God bless you and your young man.

Jackie B.

Susan Wallace
May 27, 2008 at 11:05pm
I have had been following your search faithfully, and I am continuing to pray for Nick and for all the people that are missing him. I read the latest press about the search today and I will keep you in my heart still and ask that God give you the strength that you need during such a difficult time.

Sincerely,
Susan Wallace
Lancaster SC

Margaret Clark Jackson
May 27, 2008 at 9:58pm
Only tears....

mcj

Sandra A. Hopkins
May 27, 2008 at 9:44pm
Dear Natlie,
I was interviewed by a reporter when your son went missing. My son, Wm. Michael Hogan disappeared from Vermont three years ago. I was so concerned about the delay in your search for Nick that I asked the reporter to suggest to you that you contact some missing person organizations. I also contacted the ones I was working with to make them aware of your situation. I am so very sorry that Nick has not been found. I know the heartbreak you feel every day. My prayers are with Nick, all who love him and all who search for him. May he return safely and soon.

Sandra A. Hopkins
Mother of Missing Mike Hogan
www.helpfindmikehogan.org

Cindy Gustavson
May 27, 2008 at 9:35pm
Dear Garza family,
My heart goes out to you tonight.

Cindy

Patty Burns
May 27, 2008 at 9:27pm
Natalie,
Miracles do happen. I will continue to pray asking that all prayers be answered soon, so you may have closure. I cannot even begin to imagine the heartache you are going through.
I check the web site often praying to hear good news. It takes an amazing strong person to do the interviews you have done. You are doing a wonderful job.
I miss you and hope you come home soon.

Patty Burns

Shinji Ikari
May 27, 2008 at 9:21pm
I miss you Nick =(

Annie Somers
May 25, 2008 at 12:08am
Dear Natalie and Family,
I want you to know that you and Nick are in my heart and thoughts each day and I hope so very much for you all that more is found very soon in the search and investigation. I am so concerned that efforts may become suspended to look for him, and I wish that the best detectives in the US could be brought in to help somehow, if new eyes on Nick's disappearance could help, for there have to be answers somewhere. Don't give up. Whatever tools and expertise it takes, know that you have many who care, rallying and ready to help in anyway possible in the communities of Vermont and beyond, in other states as well. Anytime you need help, many will come. I ache for you all just having gone nearly a full month, with no further news, and wait, along with you in heart, mind and in spirit, for more to begin to open up for you all as soon as possible.
Most Sincerely,

Annie Somers
Midd Class of '79

Shane Zeigler
May 24, 2008 at 3:43pm
Garza Family,
I simply want to say that people have not and will not stop thinking and praying for you all. I was on AA Speech and Debate team and had little interaction with Nick. However, it's really something to hear how many people he's affected in his life. Knowing its not enough, I send my love, along with everyone else's.

Shane Zeigler
AA Class of '05

Michelle Frechette
May 24, 2008 at 7:14pm
Hello Natalie and Garza Family,
I live in Corrales and my hometown is Saranac New York. I have been anxiously watching your efforts to find your son and you are in my prayers. I used to drive through Middlebury on a regular basis going to and from school to home. Donnie Uhler and the Saranac Fire Department are part of my life, Donnie graduated high school with me and my dad was chief of the fire department many years ago and he was leader of the Fire Dept. EMS squad until his death in 2001.

I am travelling home to Saranac this summer, we leave June 20th and arrive in New York about June 24th. If there is anything special you would like me to take to the Saranac Fire Dept. that you haven't sent along already I would be really happy to transport it for you. Please call me at the number below if that is something you would like.

I continue to hope for you to find answers.
God Bless,
Michelle Frechette

Janet Sanchez
May 24, 2008 at 5:50pm
Dear Natalie and Damon,
We continue to think of you and pray for you constantly. Our hearts bleed and ache for you and we miss you wicked bad. I know the pain we're feeling is nothing compared to what you are going through but
please know we are doing our best to share the burden and send you wishes of strength as the search for Nick continues. We remain ever hopeful that more news willreveal itself soon.
With compassion,

Janet Sanchez and Family

Barb MacKay
May 20, 2008 at 11:00am
I know all too well what you are going through. My son, Tommy Booth, was missing after becoming separated from friends at a bar in Ridley Township, PA. We were lucky to find him in two weeks, unfortunately, he was not found alive. I know the agony you go through every day and night; it is indescribable. Others can only imagine the enormity of your pain and worry. I pray for your strength, and the safe return of your son.

(If you would like to email someone who has "been there", please email me at xxx@xx.net. )

Barb MacKay
Wilmington, DE

Julie Potter
May 20, 2008 at 9:52pm
Natalie and family,
We, here in Albuquerque, are still staying the course with our prayers and hopes for Nick’s return---- Although still so painful to so many, it was so good to see the front page article this last Sunday in the Journal. It keeps it all in the forefront and we have to continue with that diligence. It’s difficult to know how to help when so far away, but know we have you all wrapped up in our hearts--- and will remain doing so always. May peace and strength still engulf you throughout this fight!!

Much love…Julie and family

Rande and Suvi Neukam
May 19, 2008 at 10:32am
On behalf of my daughter, a recent Feb graduate, and myself, please accept our profound hopes and prayers for Nick’s safe return to you, and above all else God’s comfort in this distressing time.

Rande and Suvi Neukam
Amherst, NH

Terry Norris
May 19, 2008 at 5:46am
Mrs. Garza,
Just a note to let you know that the parishioners of St. Mary's Church in Middlebury are praying for Nick at every Mass. For his safe return to his family and an end to your worry about his safety. It is a burden no family should have.

Terry,
St. Mary's Church parishioner

Debby Blouin
May 15, 2008 at 10:45am
From one Mother to another, my thought and prayers are with you every day. I pray that closure will come to you soon. My son too is away from home at college and we think they are safe, but we never know for sure. Please accept my most sincere thoughts.

Debra A. Blouin
St. Albans, VT

Amy Conant
May13, 2008 at 5:10pm
Natalie,Your strength and courage and persistence are amazing! Keep on hanging in there! Know there’s lots of people (complete strangers) who think of you, your family and Nick every day and would do anything at all to help… to make it better.
With Warmth, Love and Hope,

Amy

Debby Lopez
May 13, 2008 at 3:43pm
Oh Natalie, the frustration that you are having to deal with, I could never imagine! You are not forgotten, I pray for you and Nick every day!!! I admire your strength! I cry your tears!! I'm sooo sorry!!! Please God, bring him home!!! There are NO words, cause I don't know what it is like. I am praying for you that's all I can offer!

Debby Lopez

Meg Ovitt
May 11, 2008 at 5:17pm
Dearest Natalie:
I too woke up this morning thinking of you on Mother's Day and how your strength to do everything in the search continues for Nicholas with support, love and admiration for all of us mothers. There isn't anything worse than what you have been going through and everyday my heart is with you. We are praying for answers and for Nick's return. You are an amazing MOM today and always! May you feel some peacefulness today as hard as it is. Because you make a sincere difference with each day in your search for dear Nick. Please stay strong!

Love, Meg Ovitt and all my family
Patty Burns
May 11, 2008 at 3:36pm
Dear Natalie,
Today being Mother’s Day I have been thinking of you all week and especially today. You are so fortunate to have your family with you. With your Mom’s support and Damon’s light heartedness that can always make you laugh hopefully will help you make it through the day.
With the snow gone and now able to search the river I hope answers come soon.

Love,
Pat Burns

Margaret Clark Jackson
May 11, 2008 at 8:46am
You are an amazing woman and mother, Natalie. Thank you for the inspiration.

Margaret Clark Jackson
Middlebury Class of '67

Julie Zorach
May 11, 2008 at 8:31am
I woke this morning of Mother ’s Day thinking of you, Natalie, and whispered yet another prayer that Nick be returned to you.
I suspect I am not alone, and many mothers join me, in suppport,

Julie Zorach

Susan Wallace
May 10, 2008 at 9:30pm
On this mothers day weekend I am remebering all the mothers that have missing children. I hope that they will find comfort in memories of happier times. I am still praying for Nick and for all of the people that love him , that need to bring him home. Please stay strong and continue to search , I hope that you are blessed with the answer to this mystery soon.

Amy Fetchor
May 10, 2008 at 10:01am
As the parent of a freshman at Middlebury I share in your saddness and frustration. My hopes and prayers are with you.

Amy Fechtor

Bette Harrison
May 9, 2009 at 6:59pm
My name is Bette Harrison. I grew up in Middlebury, VT but live in Virginia now. All of my family still lives in Middlebury. I want you to know that the people of Middlebury are lifting your family up in prayer and are very concerned and saddened by this long heart wrenching process. God be with you all and with all the people searching.

Bette

Sara Stanko
May 9, 2008 at 2:11pm
I pray for the family and friends of Nick.
I hope that you soon find answers.
God Bless.

Sara Stanko

Cathy Booth
May 8, 2008 at 8:25pm
My family just recently went through the disappearance of a loved one in January and February of this year. His name was Tommy Booth. You can read about his story online. I understand the pain you are going through and would love to help. If you need someone to talk, please email me back. Maybe comparing our stories can help.

Cathy Booth

Patti Bishop
May 8, 2008 at 5:50pm
Dear Family of Nick,
Prayers that Nick will be brought home soon!

As Always,
In Hope, Heart & Faith,

Patti Bishop
www.missingkarenjosmith.com
www.inhopeindianamissing.com

Michelle Padilla
May 6, 2008 at 11:17pm
Natalie,
I wish that I could compose the perfect words to lift your spirit and brighten your day. I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and Nick. Darlene and I visit Nick’s website often and keep each other informed of the latest news and postings. Not a day goes by without someone in the office asking if I’ve heard anything about Nick. I admire your composure, determination and strength during this extremely difficult time. Please know that there are so many people praying for you and Nick here at home. We love and miss you very much. God bless you and your family.

Love Always,
Michelle

Cynde Tagg
May 6, 2008 at 7:16pm
To Natalie, Damon & Family
My thoughts remain with you in light of this most recent news about Nick. I wish for you physical strength, a calm, clear mind and the ability to deal with whatever these latest findings mean. We miss you so much and your UNMH family holds you high in prayer and spirit.

Stay close to your God.

The Moodie Family
May 4, 2008 at 10:43pm
Prayers are all we can give to keep you strong. You continue to have our spiritual hearts at work for Nick, you and your family.

The Moodie family

Maggie A. Ovitt
May 4, 2008 at 7:48pm
Dear Natalie and Family,
I am writing to you on behalf of my family being part of Middlebury College. My sister is about to graduate from Midd and this whole tragedy has affected our last few months and truly saddened our family. We will be traveling up to Middlebury in a few weeks and want very much to help you in any way we can and to meet you. My prayers are always and forever with you, your family, and Nick.
Love, Maggie A. Ovitt (Meg's daughter)
Canisius College- Buffalo, NY

Carol Webster
May 4, 2008 at 6:54pm
My prayers are with you at this time.

Pam Jennings
May 4, 2008 at 3:24pm
First I would like to say to Natalie who I only know from the news my heart has sunk whenever I see u as a mother I cannot imagine what you and your family are going thru. I have and will continue to pray for all of you.. The new news of the river as of yesterday has me anxious but grieving for u. I know I would not want to find him that way but I would not want to go home without him. Keep up your strength and draw from those who care for u all. Love and luck.

Pam Jennings

Sarah Whitcom
May 4, 2008 at 2:48pm
First I would like to say to Natalie who I only know from the news my heart has sunk whenever I see u as a mother I cannot imagine what you and your family are going thru. I have and will continue to pray for all of you.. The new news of the river as of yesterday has me anxious but grieving for u. I know I would not want to find him that way but I would not want to go home without him. Keep up your strength and draw from those who care for u all. Love and luck.

Pam Jennings

Sue, Steve, Jackie & Steven
May 4, 2008 at 2:28am
Natalie & Damon -
As we drove back to my sister-in-law's after helping you search for Nick last Saturday, Jackie fell asleep. I kept looking over at her, smoothing her hair, watching her sleep, and I couldn't stop the tears. It was such a shock to hear the K9 team discuss the "hits" by the river. It made this whole terrible tragedy so real. It made me think about your family and how you get bits of news every day and I wondered at where you get the strength to deal with it all. I thought about the pain you all are going through. The senselessness of this happening to such a bright, shining star like Nick. I thought about his potential - all the things he would have and could have accomplished in his life and I hoped that somehow, some way, he would be found alive. I know logic dictates that that will not be the case but hope springs eternal and I hope with all my heart that you have an answer soon. Natalie, my heart just aches for you and your family. I wish with all my heart that this had not happened...

Sue, Steve, Jackie & Steven

Laura
May 4, 2008 at 1:05am
Natalie, please know that we keep you and your family in our prayers daily. We do hope this gives you continued strength and hope. We were not lucky enough to know Nick, but we have read so much about him and heard about him from other kids we know in town. What a remarkable young man. Bless each of you at this time.
Laura

Susan Wallace
May 4, 2008 at 12:01am
I am still holding all hope that your continued efforts to bring your nick home will be successful. I follow your efforts and am there with you in spirit though we are seperated by so much distance. I do not know any one of you that is suffering through this difficult time but I do pray for all of you including Nick. I hope that you continue to feel the love and concern from all around you.
God bless you,
s. wallace
lancaster sc

Karen Ferrari
May 2, 2008 at 11:16am
I was in Vermont last weekend visiting my duaghter at a nearby college when I saw the Burlington Free Press and read the article on Nick. I wish we were there on Saturday we would have been there to help, but we arrived on Sunday. Our hearts go out to you, what a beautiful person Nick is! We wish the best for you and your family, I will keep reading updates and plan to be there to help next time. My two kids also play hockey and watching the video breaks my heart. I think it is wonderful how you are able to convey what a wonderful human being Nick is. I pray for his safe return.
Karen Ferrari

Steve Coleman
May 2, 2008 at 9:30am
What do you say about a guy who never had a bad hair day? Nick's distinctive mop and immense style made him look like a mod figure from the 60's Carnaby Street in London; the Fab Four had nothing on this guy. Wherever the policy debate team traveled, Nick cut a fashionable swath.

I remember vividly the first day I met Nick. As a new teacher at Albuquerque Academy I had been asked to help with the debate team. The fact my skills and knowledge had seriously eroded since the 80s was showcased by the first practice. After my introduction I was looked at briefly with considerable disinterest. There was controlled bedlam but I was assured this was practice as usual. KHall, as the kids affectionately called Kevin Hall, marshaled the team into something less than chaos and left to work with the LDers. I stood there cluelessly with kids yelling about Foucault and Biopower, time-sucks and Topicality amidst mounds of paper.

Kevin had informed me that Nick was my captain. At the time I didn't realize just how powerful that connection would be. He was more than a leader; over time Nick and the team became my teachers. When Kevin announced to the team, after Christmas, that he was leaving the team I called Nick frantically. I said, "it's you and me Nick" and he calmly assured me, "don't worry, we'll be fine." And we were.

The funniest moment in all my years with kids came in Des Moines at the Mid America Cup. I was in the hall of the Marriott where we were staying when Nick, Ed, Tyler and Svyt burst from their room with t-shirts over their heads looking like masked Hezbollah gunmen. They quickly wrapped on the door of the adjacent room. When the door opened they grabbed a teammate, pushed into the room and pummeled him with pillows. Amidst the mayhem KHall walked in and was promptly knocked to the ground. He screamed that he thought he had broken something and needed to go the emergency room. While I yelled "call 911" their eyes widened in one of those "whoops" looks. Kevin regained his composure and found he wasn't severely injured after all. They quickly retreated back to their room and came out casually a few minutes later. Nick asked, "Hey, did you guys see some terrorists?"

At the Glenbrooks we made an evening trip to downtown Chicago. Nick led us through darkened streets and frigid cold to an obscure shop several blocks off Michigan Avenue so he could buy the coolest tracksuit known to man. The store had closed moments before we arrived and Nick was left looking wistfully through the window. I wondered how he even knew the place existed.

Nick also found time to study; once we sequestered ourselves in a Borders for most of the day while Nick and the others students sank into chairs with their heads buried in schoolbooks. Another time, moments before the wheels touched down after a late night flight back to Albuquerque, Nick was still furiously doing homework.

Nick was a fierce competitor. Despite knowing that local judges would mark them down for the style of debate expected on the national circuit, Nick and his partner Ed never adjusted their style. They continued to spread, run sophisticated arguments and disdain traditional practices. When he and Ed came in second at UNM's prestigious meet Nick was incensed. Later at Highland HS the team that won told me that Nick and Ed were the best they had faced in the state of New Mexico. Despite his immensely wry sense of humor and outward laid-back style he took it all seriously. When he won, he savored the moment and when he lost he would sometimes acknowledged they got smoked and at others he would rail against the injustice of the decision.

Nick didn't travel with us to Harvard, but I called him from a policy round as a major-league spreader shot spittle from his mouth during his speech. I held up the phone and let him listen to the guy frothing incomprehensibly. He said something like that is so sweet. I told him that I missed him.

Toward the end of the year, he and Ed stopped competing but they continued to come to practice. That may be where they shined the most. They patiently lectured novices on the subtle nuances of debate strategy and theory. These uber-smart kids shared all that they had gleaned from attending camps and through the verbal fisticuffs of competition. That selfless sharing with younger teammates is an enduring piece of their Academy legacy.

The team called Kevin Hall, "KHall" and they were always working on an alternative to Mr. Coleman for me. Somewhere along the line Nick bequeathed me the nickname "Steec." There's never been anyone who could express more with their eyes or feigned surprise. When I asked Nick about one of his plans, he raised his arms and said in mock shock, "Oh Steec, I missed the deadline!"

We also looked at the Middlebury website together. He skipped the portion that espoused their selectivity and major league academics and he was like, "Oh my god, check out their hockey program!"

Now, we all know how much Nick loved hockey. Most players would proudly wear their name emblazoned on the back of their uniform; Nick's practice jersey proudly proclaimed Topicality, his favorite debate argument. At the end of the year Nick gave me his jersey and autographed it. It was the greatest gift I have ever received from a student. I hung it in Brown Hall's trophy case amidst the heraldry of beautiful love cups and engraved plaques from national tournaments. I don't pretend I was on Nick's speed dial and when I left the school I eventually erased my contacts from the Academy from my phone. But when I checked I still had a couple and one was Nick's.

If there is something to be gained from all of this it may be that Nick showed us what a passion-filled life looks like. Nick used all of the prep time life afforded. If our existence is judged by authenticity then there has never been anyone more topical and Nick's life clearly established that T is indeed a voter. I have to believe Nick is still out there, with a rich life in front of him.

My life is profoundly different for having known Nick and I am obviously not alone. If someone can be judged solely on the merit of their children then the Garza family is indeed remarkable. Our hope and prayers go out to them, and to Nick.

Meg + Mike Ovitt
May 1, 2008 at 9:15pm
Natalie, Tanya, Damon and family,
How much the Search Video for Nick by Seven Days touches our hearts. Tears as I watched the video for Nicholas and all of you there searching!.How much I wanted to help you! Please include us in your plans for the next search. We will be there to help you. We are forever at your side in friendship, prayers and support. You continue to be an amazing Mom and family and doing just everything possible to find your beautiful son. I'm just so sorry this has happened. As a mother I know how much you need all of us around you. We are with you and with Nicholas. I have so much hope for Nicholas that he will be found and even for a safe return. We continue to pray all of the time. We care so very much

Love, Meg + Mike Ovitt
East Amherst, NY
Middlebury Family

Patty Warrington
May 1, 2008 at 6:02pm
Natalie, Me & Dog duggan were on the search Sat.April 26th with Champlain Valley Search & Resue K9 Unit, as a mother I can only feel what your going threw .....we are coming back and do all that we can to help you find your Nick.........my thoughts and prayers are with your family will be seeing you soon

Patty Warrington & Duggan

Todd Jimmo
April 29, 2008 at 7:14pm
Natalie,
I wanted to tell you that as a Corrections Officer I very rarely get the chance to help out with anything like the search on Saturday due to my schedule. I was proud to at least try to help in what ever way I could, I just wish that we could have found something.
With 3 step son's of my own and 9 grand children I can just imagine what you must be going through. And working where I do I know the worst of what is out there first hand.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I pray for a good out come.

Todd Jimmo CO1

Denise
April 28, 2008 at 2:41am
Natalie,
I always knew you were a STRONG (Mom, worker, friend & woman) ! You prove it everyday. You put your best foot forward on the biggest crusade of your life.
We are going to try to come out June, to help with anything. Always wishing postive engery & a bunch of LOVE & FAITH !!!

The McNally's Colorado

Becky Mejia
April 27, 2008 at 10:17pm
Dear Natalie,
We read about the public's efforts this past weekend and are sorry it didn't lead to the searchers finding any clues leading to Nick's whereabouts.
Hopefully something positive will be found soon.
May God continue to provide you the strength you need to withstand this painful time.
We all care so much about you and your family.

Sincerely,
Becky and family.

Meg and Mike Ovitt
April 25, 2008 at 11:15pm
Dear Natalie, Damon, Tanya,
Todd, Jason, all family
We wish you all the best in your search in the morning and our prayers are with each of you and the volunteers. We're very sorry that we can't be with you and have sent a donation to help in whatever way needed for the search. We are thinking of you constantly!
For dearest Nick we pray that you will be found and for a safe return. Our hearts never leave you and all your family! Natalie, in the future should you have another search we plan on being there!
Your wonderful son Nicholas must be found! The morning will be here before we know it. We are praying with hope and sending you strength for tomorrow's search. We care so much! Please continue to keep strong! Nick needs us all! We are with you!
Love, Meg and Mike Ovitt
Emi, Maggie & Matti
East Amherst, New York
Middlebury Family

Mary Ellen
April 25, 2008 at 8:56pm
Natalie,
I have read some of the e-mails from your far away friends. I feel fortunate to be close enough to be able to help tomorrow in the search. I do not know you and your family but will be there for all of them who cannot. As a mother, I am connected and know that I need to be there for you. I also think about him every day even as a stranger. His pictures say it all. He reminds me so much of my own son and I cannot sleep. I am looking forward to meeting you and hoping for some answers. All my prayers tonight ...and will be there tomorrow at 9 a.m. I took a personal day at work and will work Sunday without punching in so that I can be there.
Still keeping the hope!
Mary Ellen

Mark and Debbie Lyter
April 25, 2008 at 4:03pm
Dear Natalie and family,
I do not even know what words to say to comfort you as I know there are no words that will do so.
You have such a special son. We have followed this since the beginning when Nick was reported missing. We first heard it on our police scanner the night you called Middlebury Police.
We have read everything that we can about Nick and the entire disappearance. I will say what pride it must bring you to know that he has touched the hearts and souls of so many people. So very many of which are strangers to Nick yet he has grasped our hearts just with learning about him through family and friends words. And the fact that he has done this with so many, tells me that he somehow is reaching out to each and everyone one of us and saying "don't give up".
We pray for Nick, you and your family each day. I check all of the sites to see if there is any news. I have sent thoughts and possible strategies to the Middlebury Police on one occasion but they emailed me back assuring me that all had been covered the first few days. I pray that is true.
I can not physically be there during the search this weekend. I wish so desperately that I could but health conditions does not allow for that. So I will be a prayer warrior as so many of us are being. Our hearts will always be with you and Nick and your family no matter what the outcome.
Always remember the poem "Footprints". It is so true, that I promise.
As a mother, I can not imagine what you are having to endure. I almost lost my son to a brain tumor in 1997. But what you go through each and everyday has got to be overwhelming. Yet you stay so strong. Nick is with you, no matter what. Always believe that.

God Bless you all!
Debbie and Mark Lyter
Bristol, VT

Michele Nappi
April 25, 2008 at 12:28pm
My family and I send our thoughts, prayers, Light, Reiki, etc. Blessings for all, Michele Nappi

Susan Wallace
April 24, 2008 at 9:12pm
Dear family,
I have held you in my thoughts and prayers since the first time I learned of your Nicks disappearance. I hope for you that the upcoming search is able to help nick find his way back to you. May God give you the strenght that you need to face each day. Please continue to hope for a good outcome to this mystery. I will continue to pray for peace and comfort to find you during this difficult time

S. Wallace
S.C.

Lyndsy Macri
April 23, 2008 at 11:08pm
Dear Garza family,
My name is Lyndsy, and I'm a student at the University of New Hampshire. I didn't know Nick, but I can't get him off my mind. I've been following the news stories, and thinking about your family. We have posters all over our campus regarding your son and tip line. I pray that God will give you strength in this hard time. I know Nick is out there somewhere, I have such a strong feeling for him, and I've never even met him. May god be with you in this difficult time, and please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Lyndsy

Nancy Ferrel
April 23, 2008 at 1:41pm
Dear Natalie and Family,
You are daily in my thoughts and prayers. I will especially be praying for you this weekend as you search for Nick.
In friendship,

Nancy

Meg and Mike Ovitt and family
April 22, 2008 at 7:12pm
To my dearest Natalie, Damon and all your family:
More than any words that I can express do I want to help you with the search for Nicholas this weekend. We have been unable to have someone to take care of our youngest. The trip alone for me to drive is 6 + hours and I am afraid to do this drive alone. We continue to be with you everystep of the way and follow everything very dear and closely to our hearts. As the chance is that I won't be able to come from WNY this weekend we still want to help. You are asking for resources. We are sending in a check for help in anyway that you can use it for the search help, for food for yourselves, etc. I continue to feel so far from Midd and with such care and concern for you, and family and for this search to find your dearest Nick. Please know that we pray all the time. We send you our continued love and supports, friendship and forever helps. If something changes I will be there. If you plan another search please keep us part of all your search plans. Not a day goes by that you and Nicholas are not part of my personal life.He has touched my heart! I share about Nick with just everyone. I want more than anything to be there and to help you.Please continue to stay strong Natalie and family! We pray for Nick's safe finding, his return and clues that will help. We have hope and you are not alone. We care so very much!
Love, Meg
Meg and Mike Ovitt and family
East Amherst, New York
Middlebury Family

Christina Perry
April 22, 2008 at 6:04pm
Natalie,

This is Ken Perry's wife Christina. I wanted to extend our thoughts and prayers from our family to yours. Oklahoma Baptist University is also praying for you and for Nick. I bring up Nick in every departmental meeting we have. Hearing about something like this happening to Nick is fundamentally close, being a part of Student Development at OBU. I will pray for you!

Christina and Family

Paul and Kate Murphy
April 22, 2008 at 1:31pm
Ms. Garza and Family ,Our son, a freshman at Middlebury, lives in Nick’s dorm and had lunch with Nick the week before his disappearance. Needless to say not a day goes by that we haven’t thought of Nick and his family and friends. We pray often for Nick and for your continued strength.
Sincerely,

Paul and Kate Murphy, Reston, Virginia

Edwin and Sandra Prouty
April 20, 2008 at 10:40pm
Dear Natalie and Family:
We want to let you know that our prayers are with all of you at this time and we think of you each day.
May God Bless you all.

Edwin and Sandra Prouty

Jose and Olga Aljure
April 18, 2008 at 7:15pm
Dear Natalie:

Ever since we received Cliff’s first news and update in February relative to Nick’s uncertain whereabouts you, Lorry, Tanya, Damon and the rest of the family have been occupying a very important place in our hearts and thoughts. We have kept tuned into not only Middlebury’s website but the wonderful website that Tanya’s husband created and has maintained for Nick and his family hoping with all our hearts that every time we open them there is finally good news. Besides, we have been kept informed by Cliff a number of times over the phone and have talked with Lorry a few times.

As you well know, we have known you, Nick and Damon as well as Tanya and Todd through your Mom Lorry and Cliff since we first met both of them here in Corpus almost 5 years ago. Last Thanksgiving, by the Grace of God we had the great opportunity of meeting you and your beautiful sons Nick and Damon when you came to visit Lorry and Cliff. Having met such sweet boys, no words can describe the extreme pain you must have been enduring over the last two months.
We want you and yours to know that Nick, you, Damon, your Mom, Tanya as well as all of your dear ones are in our deepest prayers, hearts and highest thoughts and that we would be ready anytime to help or do anything to happily help end this nightmare. We trust the Almighty God that He will soon provide the means for the safe return of Nick.
Our best thoughts and highest sentiments go to you and yours.
Love,

Jose and Olga Aljure

Steve and Pam Jennings
April 18, 2008 at 6:43pm
To Nicks family and friends:
We think and speak of you and Nick every day and pray for all of you!! We are hoping soon for answers for all of you!! God bless and keep believing!!

Steve and Pam Jennings

Pamela J. Fondino
April 18, 2008 at 4:34pm
Natalie,
As you know I moved from NM to the east coast last fall and only this past weekend learned of the news about Nick. I am so sorry for you and saw you on "The Lineup " this past week. I pray every day for you and Damon and want you to know how much I admire your dignity and courage in the face of this unspeakable situation. Please know that you are in my thoughts daily. Anthony, Michael and I send you our love and prayers.

Pamela J. Fondino

Cynthia Ortiz
April 17, 2008 at 6:32pm
Natalie,
Just want you to know a day doesn't pass that I don't have you and Nick and
your family in my prayers. I check the site everyday hoping to hear you
have found your boy. My family and I watch the news desperately hoping to
see an update. I wish we were closer to be helpful in searching or
support. Just know you have so many people praying for you back home.
God Bless.

Cindy Ortiz

Tasha Castillo
April 17, 2008 at 4:58pm
First I would like to say how deeply sorry I am for the situation you and your entire family are going through. Nick’s story caught my eye one day at work and I haven’t been able to get his face out of my head since. My heart wants him to be found so much that many times I think I see his face on people I pass in the street. It’s a rare story like this that really touches a complete stranger like myself. I can’t even imagine how this has consumed you.

I think it’s really wonderful how your son has such high spirits about his big brother coming home to him. It’s children’s minds that we have to cherish as they are still willing to still see hope and goodness in terrible situations like this.

I believe God will let us find Nick. It would give all of you who love him dearly and us who worry about him the closure we need.

May God’s faith and strength pass on to you and your family in this dreadful time. I will continue to have faith that he will be found.

~ Tasha

Gayle Torrey
April 16, 2008 at 10:53pm
I live near Middlebury,and follow this story about Nick, daily checking for news of him.
I want you to know we haven't forgotten him, daily your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I look for him in every face.
Hold fast to your hope,may his light continue to shine.

Gayle

Molly Holmes
April 16, 2008 at 10:01pm
I never really met Nick, but I often noticed him in the dining hall because he was so tall. I distinctly remember standing next to him at the toaster one day and noticing that he was making 4 or 5 bagels with cream cheese. I made some smarky remark, like, 'wow you really like bagels, huh?' And he looked right at me and said, 'oh...these are for my roommate. He's sick, so I wanted to bring him some food.' I thought that was really nice and I have thought about it every time I see his picture up on campus. I just wanted to say that all of us students are thinking of Nick and his family, and I am praying daily for his safe return.

Molly Holmes, Middlebury sophomore

Nancy-Jean Cusanelli
April 16, 2008 at 2:22am
Dear Mrs. Garza,
Know that you have armies of people out here who are praying for strength for you and your family and for Nick's safe return. I will continue to keep all of you in my thought and prayers.

Nancy-Jean Cusanelli
Claremont, NH.

Debby Lopez
April 15, 2008 at 2:00pm
Natalie,
I just wanted to send another note to say we haven't stopped praying everyday for Nick, you, little Damon and the rest of the family!!!! I needed to tell you that you are the strongest woman and mother that I know I've ever or will ever meet!!! Nicholas and Damon are lucky to have such a strong Mama!! Love and lots of prayers from

Debby, Lukas, Shelby, Tatumn, and Paigey Lopez

James Mount
April 15, 2008 at 8:14am
I read the Seven Days article today and was interested to see all the detail that they wrote. I know that this is a very hard time for you and your extended family, and my family’s thoughts and prayers are with yours. I hope and pray that the investigation and search ends soon, and with positive results. Nick’s story has certainly had a lot of press, and I sincerely hope that it helps by bringing in some new leads so the case can come to a close. As a father of five, I cannot even fathom what you and your family are going through.

James Mount
Colchester, VT

Kristen Ginsburg
April 14, 2008 at 9:08pm
My heart just hurts for your family. I'm afraid that I can understand your
pain because my mother disappeared last year and I too have had to deal with
the pain of losing someone. It was my worst nightmare. It took us several
months but we eventually did find out what happened to her. It was
frustrating dealing with the police and the authorities trying to get them
to continue the search. One of the reasons I decided to write was to tell
you some of the things that helped us in the search for my mother. I'm sure
you have done all of these things already but in the off chance that I can
offer you some other ideas I thought I would write these to you.

Here are just a few thoughts.
1) Keep communication with the media - release new pictures often.
Hopefully they will continue to cover the story with new photos to publish.
Talking to the media or releasing public statements through another
individual can be helpful to keep the story in the papers.

2) Call everyone you know - and ask them to call everyone that they know in
high places to make your search a priority. My father and his lawyer had
connections in the governors office / and the state police which helped us
greatly.

3) Search Dogs - The more that we found out about search and rescue it
seemed that highly trained dogs are key for a search.
My prayers are with you and your family. If I can be of any help in your
search please let me know how I can help. I live in the Middlebury area.

Kristen

Donna Maes
April 14, 2008 at 9:04pm
Dear Natalie,
I wanted to drop you a note you let you know that there's not a day that goes by that you are not on my mind. I pray for your family every night before I go to sleep. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Donna Maes

Michelle O'Donnell
April 14, 2008 at 4:04pm
Dear Natalie,
I have kept you in my thoughts and prayers since the moment I heard of Nick's disappearance. My daughter is a FEb and arrived the night Nick went missing so she has not yet had the pleasure of meeting him. I still have a sincere hope that that day will come soon that she will have the opportunity.My community of friends ask me daily whether I have heard any news about Nick and they too are praying for Nick and your strength. May of us here in RIchmond,Virgina send pir best wishes and will have you in our prayers.

Michelle O'Donnell
The McNally's
April 14, 2008 at 2:23am
Natalie & Family,
Some friends & neighbors called to say they watched your interview on Sat. Thinking of YOU everyday & the long nights. Our prayers are with YOU, Nick & Damon. Love,

The McNally's Colorado

Paula Osuna
April 11, 2008 at 3:15pm
Natalie,
I met Nick for the first time this past summer when you and him came down to Silver for one of your cousin's weddings.
If you remember me, we share the same aunt and cousins from Santa Fe Springs.
I had the priviledge to speak to Nick while you were on the dance floor. (Remember Nick wanted to leave and he couldn't get you of the dance floor)
He was very excited about going to Middlebury and he also mentioned he loved Spain after visiting Tanya. Although this was my brief encounter with Nick, he was a very remarkable young man. During our conversation, I couldn't help but to fall in love with his big brown eyes and his smile.
From my chair, you and him were my entertainment, I watched him approach you on many attempts to get you to leave the dance floor, but he failed each time, I laughed as you made funny faces at him and you would strut up to him as though you were leaving only to head back around on the dance floor. He grabbed your purse at another attempted to get you to leave and walked up to the dance floor yet again. He failed making faces as he returned to a seat next to me with keys and your purse in hand.
He never got to leave back home like he wanted. We all left when the music finally ended. That is my only memory I have of Nick, and my heart is filled with sadness and with prayer. The way you two made eye contact and silly faces at eachother will always be in my memory. I am glad I got to meet Nick and will continue to pray for him and your family. I wish you didn't have to hurt and I wish you had your baby back. You both made me smile that night watching the two of you together. You knew instantly that you both had this mother -son relationship that is one of a kind.

I just wanted to share my memory with you.
God bless you.

Jim and Frances Rucker
April 11, 2008 at 1:03pm
Dear Natalie,
We have been following this story over the last few months. We have a daughter at Middlebury. The disappearance of your son is every mother's worst nightmare, one that we all hope will never, ever, happen to us. We are thinking of you and your family and we hope and pray that this story will have a happy ending.
Jim and Frances Rucker

Beth Bright
April 11, 2008 at 8:30am
Hello. I previously wrote to you expressing my concern on Nick’s disappearance. My daughter is a student at another New England college, and I visit this site daily for updates on Nick. My heart aches for you all every day, and I can only imagine the pain of not knowing. Please know that thousands of people are praying for an answer in this very frustrating time.

Beth Bright
Maytown, PA

Helena
April 10, 2008 at 11:39am
Our prayers and love are with you!
Kenneth graduated with nick 07' Our prayers are with all of you!
Helena

Susan
April 10, 2008 at 5:48pm
To Nick's family and friends,
My heart goes out to you all, especially to Natalie. I can only imagine how terrible this time is for you. Please know my prayers are with you all.
Susan
Middlebury resident
Jolanta Labejsza
April 8, 2008 at 15:01am
Dear Natalie and Family, I wrote before but I since I cannot stop thinking of Nick and you I would like to extend my offer of help. My daughter is a Middlebury student and I also have a much younger son, who is 8. If you ever would like your younger son to spend some time in the company of somebody his own age, to play, I would love to have you and him over to my house for a visit. We keep praying for Nick and you.

Jolanta Labejsza

Nancy E Osborne
April 7, 2008 at 4:39pm
Dear Natalie & family:I have signed before, sending you thoughts & love during this horrendous time. I continue to check this site every day, & find myself increasingly frustrated and even angry [as do my young adult children] at the latest media coverage. Today's headlines about how the search for Nick has dried up the overtime funds/budget of the MPD are CRASS & insensitive. I cannot ever recall reading or hearing the cost of a search being "news headlines". Shame, WCAX.
Also, reading this:

"[Sgt]Christopher said police have run into plenty of walls in the investigation. The search has been bedeviled by uncooperative weather. The investigation's biggest hurdle, police said, has been the lag between Garza's disappearance and the police report.
During those first five days, [Chief] Hanley said, a lot of technology could have been put to more effective use. Garza's cell phone might have been functioning. There may have been a heat trail for a thermal imaging camera to pick up."

makes me want to scream in frustration. I am just an ordinary citizen & mother; I realize, as I think so many of us do, that it could just as easily been our child and our nightmare. which I think is why I am so affected by the story. Also, it comes after having been so aware of all the publicity when Michelle Gardner-Quinn went missing. I cannot understand why there was nothing about Nick's character or personality, that one had to watch the 7Days video to learn about his amazing being. We knew all about how wonderful Michelle was from the start--I just cannot understand why there was not been the same sort of continuous front page local & national coverage about your Nick. Immediately. I cannot understand why Middlebury College security did not start to search for Nick immediately or contact police, after receiving the report from his friends, ESPECIALLY after searching his room & finding his winter coat, laptop & iPod were still there. The details just don't add up or make sense.

Sorry for expressing my frustration, but I don't know where else to do it ....the whole scenario & sequence of events is just too upsetting.

Still giving thoughts & prayers for each of you,
Nancy
Denise
April 7, 2008 at 2:14am
Dear Natalie, Damon & Family,
Our hearts & thoughts are always with you!!!! We will never forget!
We will keep praying !!!
Love The McNally's Colorado
Shaila
April 6, 2008 at 11:05pm
Dear Natalie,
As a mother of a freshmen Middlebury student, our hearts have been
crying out to the universe and all the angels to help find your precious
son! He is absolutely adorable. His face looks that of a young man with
much compassion, a gentle and kind heart, and so much zest for life!
Our prayers are with you in this difficult time. May your heart and soul
find peace, solace, serenity, compassion and forgiveness at this difficult
time in your life. May you live in the sweetness of the memories that
you shared with your son and find a pure bond with his spirit so that
you may give him strength and he you.
Do not hesitate to call at 714.XXX.XXXX should you need to
chat with a fellow concerned mother.

Warm regards,

~Shaila
Hollywood, CA

Julie Potter
April 6, 2008 at 7:08pm
Dear Natalie and entire family,
Oh, gosh I am thinking of you all EVERYDAY and like so many others holding you all so very close.
Words have escaped how much we feel about all this and how we rally behind you.
Prayers are constantly being lifted and I know there will be an answer---keep strong, you are all an incredible source of inspiration with your diligence and advocacy. Know that we are always here to help with whatever we can.
Much love---Julie

Desiree
April 6, 2008 at 2:20pm
Dear Natalie:
I am the mother of a daughter who will be attending college in the fall and I can't imagine being put through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Nicholas. I follow your story daily and hope that you find Nick soon. Please continue to have faith. May God Bless you and your family.

Desiree

Abigal Lyon
April 6, 2008 at 10:40am
Dear Natalie,
I think of your son just about everyday. I am always showing people his website and his videos, his life and smile should continue to be celebrated and seen. He seemed like a truly amazing person to know and I am so sorry that anyone who was ever privileged to know this young man is going through such a terribly unclear and worrisome time. I anticipate Nick's safe return. Always remember to breathe Natalie.

Sending thoughts and love,
Abigail Lyon, 21; a college student in NYC

Lorry
April 5, 2008 at 2:09am
Oh Dear God do you hear my prayers?
I pray and praise each day in every way
Even burn my candles from Catholic days
On bent knees and on flat ground even in my bed with pressed palms
First I prayed let him be alive well and found
Then I prayed let him be alive and found
Now I pray let us bring him home to keep us sound
But Dear God I beg of Thee, please don't ask of me
To pray acceptance if he's never found
I know you're there Lord, I know you care
But Dear God I beg of Thee, please don't ask of me
To pray acceptance if he's never found

Oh Dear God I am thankful too for nineteen years of joy profound
That my life was so touched by him is proof to me of your sweet love
And in my heart those memories stay and give me sustenance every day
I know the gifts you've bestowed on me, the greatest of which are my THREE
If our sweet Nicholi should be gone I know his light will still shine on
In my heart and those of all who knew and loved this child as he grew
But Dear God I beg of Thee, please don't ask of me
To pray acceptance if he's never found
I know your miracles do come and I pray to witness Nicholi as one
But Dear Sweet God I beg of Thee, please please please don't ask of me
To pray acceptance if he's never found

Grandma

Maureen
April 4, 2008 at 10:52am
As the mother of a son attending the University of Vermont I hope and pray that Nick is found soon. You have the thoughts and prays of many, many people who wish you comfort and the swift return of your son to his family.

Maureen
New Jersey

Janet Sanchez
April 3, 2008 at 9:18pm
Dear Natalie, Damon, Nick, and Seirra and Garza Family Members,
Please remain strong no matter what you hear. Your presence is needed everywhere. I'm confident Nick WILL be found. Never give up.
Thinking of you all always and desperately wanting to do more.

Janet Sanchez
Susan Wallace
April 3, 2008 at 8:28pm
I am the mother of a freshman student living on campus in sc ,I hurt for any one that is missing this young man and yearning for his return. Please know that I am waiting to hear that you have found Nicholas and that he is safe. May god bless each of the family and friends with the strength that you need to continue each day.
S Wallace
Lancaster SC

Meg Ovitt
April 2, 2008 at 10:26pm
Dear Natalie: I just read the Newspaper poll. We are always behind you with every inch of the way. Your search for Nick must continue to remain steadfast as he is out there somewhere! I have been so consumed waiting each and everyday for good news of Nick's return back to you and the Middlebury College and community. I sincerely feel so concerned about you with this devastation and for all your family as for Nick! Your wonderful son's missing has truly had an affect on me and please know how deeply we continue to send our prayers and support with love, care, and our friendship! He holds a special place in our hearts! We are very grateful to your wonderful web site for Nick. It really keeps us up to date and very much part of your search for him. Please Keep strong! We are praying! Let us know if we can do anything anytime to help you!

Love, Meg Ovitt

Danni Trotter
April 2, 2008 at 8:40pm
I pray for you family daily.I had a brother that was just a little bit younger that was missing.Sometimes it helps to talk to someone that's been there.I'm more than willing to listen & offer support.I'm also a voluteer for the national ceter for missing & exploited children.I understand how hard this is [we had to do all the searching by ourselves]I might have some ideas you haven't thought of.

Danni Trotter

Jolanta Labejsza and family
April 2, 2008 at 8:28pm
I just wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to you and your family. My daughter is also a Middlebury student and she has helped with the search for Nick. We are all praying for his safe return. I check the website each day, hoping for good news. It is just unimaginable what you must be going through and I wish I could do something to alleviate your pain, something much more than the donation I made.
I also pray for your young son - it must be so hard for him to comprehend the whole situation and I pray that one day he will be able to talk to his big brother again.
May God help give you strength and comfort.
Jolanta Labejsza and family, Rochester, VT

Jennifer Allen
April 2, 2008 at 4:51pm
My daughter, Megan Hutchinson, graduated from Middlebury in 2002 and it is so very hard to think that such a horrible thing could happen to someone at such a wonderful school.
We want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I hope that Nicholas is found soon and that his family and the Midd community will be able to celebrate his safe return.
All my very best,
Jennifer

Sue and Steve
April 2, 2008 at 4:05pm
Natalie -
We saw the newspaper poll and put our two cents in about the fact that you were the only one who took this seriously from the start. I know hindsight is 20/20 but to have BOTH the student's mom and his friends expressing concern and not to even send a patrol car to the cabin to check on whether he was actually there or not just seems so wrong. I know that students are reported missing pretty frequently and many turn up almost immediately. Why wait 4 days? Would it have been so difficult, so terribly time consuming, to check at the cabin? Sorry to sound off. We're just so angry.....

Sue and Steve - Abq

Tim O'Neil
April 2, 2008 at 9:43am
May you find strength and I pray and hope there is a safe return in the near future- if there is anything I can do to help please let me know- peace-

Tim
Caity Maitlan
April 2, 2008 at 2:38am
I am an Academy student on exchange and am praying for Nick to have a safe return. Also I wish you and your family strength and hope in this crucial time of need. Many people are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers always.
Caity M.

Jane Beard
April 1, 2008 at 11:08am
I'm the parent of a prospective Middlebury student and read their website often. Please know that your son is on the heart of many people unknown to you and that they are praying for you and for Nick.

Jane Beard
Abilene, Texas

Hollis Claypool
April 1, 2008 at 10:03am
As the parent of a Middlebury student I check for updates every day. I pray for Nick and the family every night. I have donated money to the fund set up in the Graza family name. I encourage all Middlebury families to do the same. We can't be in Middlebury to help with the search but we can help with donations. May God be with Nick and the family.

Always thinking of you.

Hollis Claypool
Mequon, WI

Robyn Roope
March 31, 2008 at 10:35am
Natalie,
I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time. I pray for your patience and strength.

God bless,
Robyn Roope
Phoenix, AZ

Peter James Hatch
March 31, 2008 at 1:23am
I was very saddened to hear of Nick's disappearance. I never met him. From all I've heard about him it would be great to meet him. He sounds he's an awesome person. He's very likely to have the an abundance of support from his family and friends. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Nick,his family and friends are all in my prayers. I pray that Nick will be found alive and well.
Peter
Massachusetts
Tonia McLinn
March 29, 2008 at 11:15pm
Dear Family of Nick,
I just wanted to send you my deepest wishes for Nick's return. My brother went missing on Easter Sunday of 92. We never found him and the two men who were with his. When ever I hear a story like this with no traces, I PRAY that the loved one is found. And for the family, PEACE..
I know that in cases like this ANYTHING is possible. I live in Alaska close to the biggest population in the state, so I will post your posters in a few hot spots. Even if nothing ever comes of the posters, I will at least feel that I have helped you out in some small way.Do you have a news letter available for subscription? Or do I need to go to to eh web site? If so, no big deal, I will check it out periodically to see if there are any new leads to go on!

God Bless YOU ALL.
My prayers, hope and best wishes are with you
Love, Tonia Marie McLinn & Family

Louise Cavanaugh
March 29, 2008 at 10:24pm
Natalie,
I am the parent of a Middlebury student and want you to know that you and Nick are in my thoughts and my prayers every day. I have told many people about Nick so that they too may join in
prayer for Nick and your family.
Please contact me if there is anything I can do to help.

Louise Cavanaugh

Wendy & Tim Farrell
March 29, 2008 at 5:52pm
From all over Vermont, we're sending out love and positive wishes to you and your loved ones. Our thoughts are with you.

Denise
March 29, 2008 at 5:12pm
Natalie & Family,
We may not write everyweek on the guestbook, but YOU are always in our thoughts. We have forwarded the website to everyone we know & when we see & talk to friends everyone always asks if there is any news. I got calls from friends that saw it on Fox news. Megans newspaper teacher & class keep updated M-F. No one ever thinks this would happen to someone they know. Katelyn has a student in her program from Albqu. & they always look at your website. Our hearts are aching for You. Thinking of you everyday !! We will never forget.

Hugs, Denise, Katelyn, Megan & Paul McNally

Lisa Garza
March 29, 2008 at 12:13pm
From the Garza Family In Wellington, Florida
We pray that your son makes his way back home safe , May God be with your family in your time of need. god bless you all.
The Moodie Family
March 29, 2008 at 12:44am
Nick and you, his family, are ever in our prayers.

The Moodie Family

Pedro Soto-Vélez
March 28, 2008 at 11:42pm
To the Garza Family--
While I do not know which religious tradition you identify with, if any, I wanted to share with you a brief passage from the Bible in these difficult times for your family. If you do not share my Christian faith please accept that I hope not to offend in any way by my religious references.
Psalm 27 notes: "I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on
the Lord."
I simply cannot begin to imagine the difficulty of your situation. Yet in my heart I know that the Lord has not abandoned you, and he has not abandoned Nick. As the psalm says, Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart. May the Lord's love, mercy, and blessings rain down on your family in this moment of need.

I join you in prayer for your beloved Nick,

Pedro Soto
San Juan, PR

Jenn Sands
March 28, 2008 at 1:57pm
Dear Garza family,
You are all in my thoughts, Nick especially. I sincerely hope for his safe return. I wish you all peace during this difficult time.

My best,
Jenn
Sunbury, PA

Darlene Fernandez
March 28, 2008 at 1:50pm
Natalie,
I just want you to know that you and Nick are in my prayers and thoughts each and every day. I have not called you because I know you're focused on the search for Nick right now. Please know that I am here for you if you need anything at all. May God Bless you with Nick's safe return, with comfort and strength.
Love always,

Darlene

Matthew Gillispie
March 28, 2008 at 9:35am
May God bless you and your family during this time. I have hopes that Nick will be found safe. I applaud all of the search efforts and I hope something turns up soon.
God Bless

Matthew Gillispie
Alexandria, Louisiana

Nichole Tennant
March 25, 2008 at 1:54pm
As a graduate of Middlebury College , I am devastated and deeply saddened by Nick's disappearance. Nick and the entire Garza family are in my constant thoughts and prayers. I hope for Nick's safe return.

Nichole Tennant

Nancy Osborne
March 25, 2008 at 12:08pm

Dear Natalie, Damon, & all in Nick's family:
I am doing my daily checking of this website. Since I first read of Nick's mysterious disappearance, you have all been in my, and my children's, thoughts every day. The initial reaction was one of such strong empathy & angst, having had children away at college, with my youngest to go off this fall . It could have happened to any of us, but this time the nightmare happened to you. Only those who have experienced this kind of situation must be able to really know & feel what you are all feeling. Still, my heart aches for you, as I know many others' do also. It is so incredibly sad...

Yet what comes through the most is your fierce mother/family love, and the connectedness you seem to have in your family network, as well as what Nick had with his extraordinary friends. We've looked at the beautiful pictures, watched the clips, but thank you to Eva S from Seven Days for taping the most compelling & wonderful video "Who is Nick?". The true essence & spirit of Nick comes shining through, & the effect his 'Nick-ness' has had on all of you & his friends shines through as well!

I think I feel particularly simpatico because he embodies all the qualities I cherish in life, and have tried to pass on to my children. His being kind & gentle, his being an old soul, his being a musician {there are several of us} , his stability & integrity, his sense of humour, intelligence & passion, his 'penchant for philosophy' & good literature, disdain for bad literature, interest in all things cultural & literary, the list goes on. These qualities & values you hold dear obviously blossomed in Nick & were returned to you & others in countless ways. I know that no matter the outcome, Nick will always be with each of you in your heart of hearts, and Nick & your family will be carried in countless numbers of hearts.

Love & heartfelt wishes,
Nancy Osborne
South Burlington, Vermont

Dianne Tornay
March 23, 2008 at 5:25pm
As the mother of a six-year-old boy, I was overwhelmed by Natalie's appearance on Fox. I cannot even imagine what she must be going through but she is managing, incredibly, to stay and focused and strong for Nick, and that is what she needs to do now. I admire her so much and feel that in some way she is standing right now for all mothers. It is so incredible that this could happen and I feel for Natalie and Nick's whole family so much. I am telling everyone I know about the situation and sending hopes, prayers and positive energy.Let me know if there is anything else I can do. I am in Florida. Highest regards and best wishes for Nick's safe return.

Dianne Tornay

Phyllis & Ron Hunter
Marc 23, 2008 at 5:22pm
You have been in our thoughts since we heard about Nick missing. Nick’s web site allows us to keep in touch with the work that you are doing to help find out what happened to your Nick. We watch all of the news hoping that peace will come to the family soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We send our love and support to all of the family.

Phyllis & Ron Hunter

Meg Ovitt + Family
March 23, 2008 at 5:17pm
Dear Natalie,Damon, Tanya and family For Nick: We are praying for Nick's safety today on Easter as with each and everyday! We just can't imagine the pain and devastation that you continue to feel without dear Nick and we are here for you always. May you know how much we care and may the prayers and strength of those around you, give you more strength with hope as you face each precious day waiting for Nick's safe return. Natalie you are an amazing mother! WE continue to pray, care deeply and to help you from WNY!

Sincerely yours with love, Meg Ovitt + family (Middlebury Family)

Janet and the Sanchez Family
March 23, 2008 at 12:24pm
Dear Natalie, Here it is Easter Sunday and we're sending all our love and hope to Nick and all of his family as the search for clues continue. We continue to think of you constantly no matter where we are or what we're doing. Maybe with the arrival of Spring will come answers. We love you!

Janet and the Sanchez Family
Neal, Nancy, Rorbert, Behrendt
March 21, 2008 at 6:45pm
Natalie, we continue to hold you in our hearts and thoughts every day, and we pray for you and your family to have the strength to keep going, and ultimately for Nick's safe return. Always, your hockey friends,

Neal, Nancy, Robert, Behrendt

Rene Bougor
March 20, 2008 at 9:02am
I can not imagine what everyone is going thru. I check the website daily and can not express enough how much I feel for the family. I pray and hope this ends not only soon but with a happy ending. Again all my prayers and thoughts to everyone! God bless you Nick.

John
March 19, 2008 at 5:28pm
I just saw your tragic story. May God bless and comfort you during this trying time.
I sincerely hope that your son is ok. I am from out of the country so I cannot assist in any way aside from with prayers.

I hope the exposure yields results.
John

Lisa Fayed
March 19, 2008 at 5:17pm
Dear Natalie,
Although we have never met, I want to you to know I am praying for your son's safe return. I can't begin to imagine how you are holding up. May God keep your son safe and give you the strength through this ordeal. I have faith he will come home to you!
God Bless,

Lisa Fayed

Mary Dutko
March 19, 2008 at 10:03am
To the Garza Family, My heartfelt prayers go out to you all and I pray that your son returns safely. Since I saw you on an interview a few nights ago, I have not been able to stop thinking about your son. After viewing the website for Nick, it was quick to see what a beautiful individual he is. Not your average 19 year old. This young guy is going to make something of himself. Do not give up hope and pray to St. Anthony. He never fails. My husband and I have spent the past 20 years in the Middlebury area on weekends and I can’t help but feel a connection like he is one of my friends from Vermont. With peace and love,

Mary

Christine in Michigan
March 18, 2008 at 7:13pm
My heart breaks for you!
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Miracles happen, I'm praying for your son to be returned safely to you and your family.
Nick is obviously an incredibly special, irreplaceable person.

Christine in Michigan
Sharleen Tom
March 18, 2008 at 2:45pm
Hi Mrs. Garza and family,
I just wanted you to know that I work at UNM and I am praying for you and your family. I try to stay on top of the story about Nick. I do visit the site just about everyday to get updates. I just wanted you to know that my family is praying for you and your family.

Sharleen Tom
UNM employee
ABQ NM.

Jon M
March 18, 2008 at 3:18am
I've been following the story since I first heard about it, and it's absolutely horrified me in the aspect of your son literally disappearing without a trace. I think the hardest part to grasp is how he just vanished one night, and there's no explanation as to why, or even how. Anyhow, my heart goes out to him and you as I can only imagine how much pain this is putting your family through. I wish there was something I could do to help, I just sit here day after day and night after night, ever so often peeking out my window in hopes to see Nick walking down the road. Or also if I'm heading to the store, I might take a few back roads to see if he'll be there. I hope and know Nick will turn up. I just hope he won't make us wait much longer! May whatever spirits exist be with you and your son in this time of need, and allow him to come back to us all.
Jon

San Jose CA Prayers
March 17, 2008 at 1:59pm
This is the first that I have heard anything about this very sad situation... Our family is praying that Nicholas is safe and that his wonderful, loving family will hear something TODAY. What a beautiful boy! The youtube video we watched about who Nick is was inspiring and heart wrenching. The interviews with Nick's mom, Aunt, and close friends made us feel like we know him now - what an amazing tribute!! What an amazing boy!!!!! Reminds us all the seize not only the day, but every moment to live with PASSION & PURPOSE.

God be with you all.

Amy and Mike's Mom
March 17, 2008 at 11:59am
My heartfelt prayers are with you at this horribly difficult time. I am a Mother, the pain you feel must be unbearable. I am praying that God will wrap his loving arms around you, for you to gain the strength you need. Of course, I pray for Nick's safe return, as well.
Sincerely,

Amy and Mike's Mom ... and Maddy and Peyton's Nann

Nancy-Jean Cusanelli
March 17, 2008 at 2:16am
Dear Mrs. Garza and family of Nick,
I just wanted you to know that there are many people out here thinking of Nick and his family and praying for his safe return. I watched the piece on TV the other night and decided to check out this site. He is a very handsome young man with the most beautiful eyes I think I have ever seen. I have a daughter in college in VT. and I will forward this site to her so she too will be on the lookout for Nick. Once again...know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy-Jean Cusanelli
Claremont, NH
Robin
March 17, 2008 at 12:06am
HI NATALIE,
IT HAS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I HAVE SEE YOU.. BUT I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING COUSIN NICKS STORY SINCE THE DAY I FOUND OUT. IT HAS BEEN SUCH A SHOCK TO ME, THAT YOU AND UNCLE ARE GOING THROUGH THIS. I CAN'T IMAGINE HOW YOU TWO ARE DOING. I AM VERY HAPPY YOUR SISTER AND DAMON IS NOW WITH YOU. I HAVE BEEN ASKING EVERYBODY I KNOW TO PASS ON NICHOLAS' SITE. I KEEP PRAYING SOMEONE WILL CALL AND SAY THEY SEE HIM. I AM SO VERY SAD ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION. I DID SEE YOU LAST NIGHT ON THE FOX CHANNEL. I AM PRAYING FOR A HAPPY ENDING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. PLEASE KNOW THAT I AM THINKING OF YOU AND UNCLE AND DAMON EVERY SINGLE DAY.

WITH MUCH LOVE,
YOUR NIECE, AND NICK AND DAMON'S COUSIN,
ROBIN
Mark Vladuchick
March 16, 2008 at 6:29pm
Dear Natilie,
well, I was watching the news last night and the sad report came up about your son. I am so sorry. although I have no idea who you are nor your son, I find that there is time. I have prayed for God to help you and the police. I pray that wherever Nick is, that he will find reasurment from the Lord. i was encouraged that the way you handled the interveiw with the news lady. That had guts, let me tell you. I will continue to pray for you and for Nick. God bless and Godspeed.

/Mark

Tracy Martin
March 16, 2008 at 12:59pm
dear natalie and tanya -
i just watched the video by eva (she is a dear dear friend of mine and has been telling me your story almost every day) i am SO moved by knowing about his life and the INCREDIBLE family he came from.
i am the mother of a 16 year old boy and my heart breaks for you at this dark and confusing time. i can not imagine the pain you must be feeling. it is a mother's worst nightmare....
but what i saw in eva's video are 2 incredibly strong, beautiful and spiritual women ~ it is no wonder to me that such an incredible young man as Nick, came from these roots. god bless you - you're in my thoughts each and every day.
to a loving and peaceful reunion some day...

tracy martin
may you live in safety
may you have peace
may you be fully at ease
(a buddhist prayer)
Steven Koules
March 16, 2008 at 7:57am
Dear Natalie,
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy for what you’re going through.
I have a son who will be going away to college soon and I can’t even begin to imagine how you must feel.
I pray and wish with every fiber of my being that your son is found soon and is well.

Steven Koules
Lake Forest, IL.

Judie & Jim
March 16, 2008 at 5:12am
DEAR NAT..
MY HUBBY N I ARE FROM UPSTATE NY, CLOSE TO THE VT LINE. WE COME TO FL.. TO FLEA THE COLD WINTERS. OUR HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS AS WELL AS YOUR FAMILY. WE PRAY YOU KEEP HOPE AND FAITH AND GAIN YOUR STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS SITUATION. NICHOLAS IS ABSOLUTELY HANDSOME AND GOOD LOOKING FELLOW WITH A GREAT SMILE AND BEAUTIFUL EYES. SOMETHING SO WEIRD MUST HAVE HAPPENED HERE. WHAT A WONDERFUL SON YOU HAVE.. AND WE JUST ARE HOLDING TO THE THOUGHT THAT NICHOLAS WILL BE FOUND FOR YOU. GOD BLESS YOU

JUDIE N JIM
PORTER CORNERS, NY

Diane
March 15, 2008 at 10:58pm
Dear Garza family ...
My prayers are with you as you search for your son ...
I saw the story on Fox News - The Lineup With Kimberly Guilfoyle ...
Recently, I watched a show about 'Citizen Jane' and an organization 'Citizens Against Homicide' (they have a web site) that was formed to help people work through the law enforcement system to ensure that it meets their needs and all is being done that can be done.
Although Nick's status is missing, I thought it might be helpful for you to contact that owners of that web site to get information on what actions you should take from a law enforcement perspective to continue to get the action necessary to help you find answers to what happened to your son.
I'm not sure if this information will help you or not, but I thought I would send you an email and mention it ... it certainly is worth a try. I wish you the best in your search and hope that you find your son.
Diane

Yibing Chen
March 15, 2008 at 5:57pm
Dear Garza family,
I am a student from China. I applied to Middbury College this year. I am so sorry to hear Nick's disappearance. I am praying for him all day long since I heard of his disapperance from the Midd website. I am believing that he will definitely come back to you, to Midd soon. And let's pray for his safe return.

I have put my prayers for him and his information on my website. Living far from the states, though, my prayers for his safe return will never be stopped by the ocean.

I don't know wether I can be admitted by Midd, but I am sure that Nick will come back soon.

May God continue to hold you in the palm of his hand during this difficult time. Blessings to you and both of your sons.

Your best,
Yibing Chen

Meg Ovitt
March 14, 2008 at 8:23pm
Dearest Natalie , your sister, Damon and all your family:
And For Nick! You are part of our each and everyday. We check your website with hopes of good news. The Nick Garza is missing. Who is Nick? By Eva Solberger of seven days is just beautiful and it brought tears to my eyes. We are continuing to pray + help from Western New York. I hope you got my little package. Please know that each day is more precious to help find Nick. We send you our sincerest support, care, friendship + Love!
Sincerely,
Meg Ovitt (Middlebury Family)
Mike + Meg, Emi, Maggie + Matti

Laurie, Steve, and Kelley Moodie
March 13, 2008 at 12:17am
Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
Laurie, Steve, and Kelley Moodie

Jill & Chris Stackhouse
March 12, 2008 at 6:06pm
Dear Natalie,
I have been following the news ever since I heard of your sons disappearance. I'm a Mom and I live in Middlebury and I have two young adult boys. My oldest is at college in North Carolina. I know I can't really imagine what you and your family are going through, but with what I can imagine I am just totally sick about it. I go to your web site everyday hoping for some good news. Just today I learned that you and your sister are here working hard to do what you can. I would be doing the same thing. I just want to volunteer my help if there is something that you need done. A task that needs completed. I am happy to come help search when they decide that it makes sense again to do that. I don't know where you are staying or eating. But if you need to get out and would like a home cooked meal my husband and I would be happy to have you as a guest at our home or we could drop off a hot dish.

Please feel free to let us know if there is anything at all that we can do or assist with.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jill & Chris Stackhouse

Meg McCormick
March 12, 2008 at 9:13am
My sister and her husband are employed by Middlebury. My prayers are with you & your family. I have three sons and simply cannot imagine how heartsick you are over this. God bless you all.
Meg McCormick
Darnestown, Maryland

Mary Tucker
March 11, 2008 at 6:24pm
I am a Middlebury College alumna living in London. I log-on to this website every day to follow the updates on the investigation. I wanted you to let you know I'm sending my hope and support from afar for Nick's safe return. My thoughts are constantly with his friends and family.
Mary Tucker '01

Nate
March 9, 2008 at 11:40pm
I wish to send you my sincere wishes for a safe return of your son and i want you to know that i will keep you and Mrs Garza in my thoughts....
sincerly nate
aka (M@yhem^Copper)

Pamela Villa
March 8, 2008 at 2:24pm
I met Nick at debate camp at the University of Michigan two summers ago. From the second I met Nick, I knew he was different and unique. It's difficult to find people I can relate to so easily and it truly kills me to confront this harsh reality. Part of me cannot accept what has happened simply because he was such a smart, happy and special kid and it seems absurd to think he abruptly and inexplicably dissapeared. I remember he used to ask me to speak Spanish since I am Mexican and he struggled with his own Spanish. I also remember all the conversations we had about life and what we wanted to do with our futures. Nick's dissapearance has brought me closer to God, a God I had nearly entirely forsaken years ago. My prayers go out to him and his family, especially his mother and his younger brother. May he be found.
Pamela Villa

Ann and Tom Griggs
March 8, 2008 at 11:54pm
To the Garza Family,
We also have a son at Middlebury. We hope that you may stay strong and hopeful in this troubling time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ann and Tom Griggs

John Egbert
March 7, 2008 at 7:43am
To the Garza family,
I just returned from Panama and learned from my wife that Nick is missing. Needless to say, I am shocked and disturbed about this, and am thinking and praying for Nick and all of you.
I dearly remember our day together at Isleta Pueblo several years ago when Nick was in my seventh grade family and you all drove down to pick corn which we later packed into mud ovens to slowly bake there for senior citizens there. Your family, Nick and his close friends, are etched in memory and hope.
John Egbert

Maria Smith
March 7, 2008 at 12:38am
Dear Garza Family,
My family has been praying daily for Nick, Damon, you and your entire family. Our humble and sincere prayers are lifted up with hope and love to a God that never forsakes and never abandons. I yearn for my prayers to be transformed into strength and courage to lighten your burden and fold you into God's arms.
Maria Smith
Cleveland, OH

Sara Parent
March 6, 2008 at 10:00pm
Dear Natalie and the entire Garza family,
I am a 1999 graduate of Middlebury and my parents live in Santa Fe. My mother called me to tell me of Nick's disappearance when she heard it on the New Mexico news. I was heartbroken to learn that the peaceful nature of the Middlebury campus had vanished and that you have to go through this awful time. Please know that all of us in the extended Middlebury community are thinking of you and Nick and wishing that answers to this mystery are not far away. I think of my Middlebury friends as family, and I know that Nick's friends feel the same. I hope you all can awaken from this nightmare very soon. Please continue to be positive and strong. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts.
With great hope,
Sara Parent

Michael Nelson
March 6, 2008 at 4:15pm
Hi Natalie, just wanted to let you know that Nick, you and the rest of your family are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We cannot imagine what you must be going through but we hope and pray for Nick's safe return.
Sincerely,
Mike and Marron Nelson

Becky
March 6, 2008 at 4:13pm
From Becky
Dear Garza Family,
Please add my name to the list of Middlebury families who are keeping you in their prayers. As the parent of a Middlebury student, we grieve alongside you. Please know you are not alone in your anguish. May God continue to hold you in the palm of his hand during this difficult time. Blessings to you and both of your sons.

Beth Bright
March 6, 2008 at 1:05pm
Hello. I do not know you or Nick, but I am the mother of a college student in the New England area. My heart broke when I heard Nick’s story and I’m praying for him and your family.
Beth Bright
Maytown, PA

Nancy Ferrel
March 6, 2008 at 12:56pm
Dear Natalie,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you, your family and praying for Nick's safe return. Know that if there is anything you need, I'm a phone call away.
Nancy Ferrel

Gale Schaffroth
March 5, 2008 at 12:13pm.
Hi, my name is Gale. I have a 19 year old at college in California. I am Donna S. stepmother, your friend in ToastMasters. I wanted to express my sorrow for you and what you must be going through, for whatever has happened to Nick.
My heart goes out to you.

Debbie James
March 5, 2008 at 12:54am.
Natalie,
I only met you twice at work, the 2nd time just a few days before this all started. My husband and I pray for you every, single day. We know how hard it is to hold on to hope, but you must. We believe that God is watching over Nick and he will be found and there will be an explanation for all of this. If there is anything we can do, you can reach me in Finance.
Debbie James
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Nancy Lynch
March 4, 2008 at 9:18pm
I do not know you or Nick, but I live in Vermont and am reaching out , mother to mother. I cannot know the pain or fear that you are experiencing, but I can imagine how I would feel if my own son , who is 24, went missing. I pray that Nick returns safe and sound, and in the meantime, I will pray for you and for your family to be well supported through this incredibly difficult time.
Nancy Lynch
Williamstown, VT

Kiki Taylor
March 3, 2008 at 5:06pm
Dear Garza Family:
This is so very sad and touched me deeply so I want to send a very special prayer for Nicholas's safe return and I know that God has been watching over him and will bring him back to you soon. Stay strong and think positive and know that so many people are praying every day.
Kiki L. Taylor
Midd 03'

Judee Harrington
March 3, 2008 at 2:10pm
Natalie, Wanted to let you know that you, Nick and the rest of your family are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Know that you're loved and we're hopeful for Nick's safe return.
Judee Harrington

Alexandra Tsantes
March 3, 2008 at 4:40am
I am a student at Cornell University and I think about Nick everyday. I heard about his disappearance through a friend, also not a Middlebury student, but a similarly concerned human being. I pray for his safe return and for his mother's peace of mind. Natalie, please know that people all over the country are sending loving thoughts your way.
Sincerely,
Alexandra Tsantes

Richard, Elaine & Isaiah Ryan
March 2, 2008 at 8:27pm
Nick,
Just want to let you know that we are thinking about you. Our prayers are with you and your family for your safe return.
Natalie,
We can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. We pray for God to give you strength each and every day.
Todd, Vanessa, Dalton & Damon,
You guys mean the world to us. Stay strong.
Richard, Elaine & Isaiah Ryan

Allan and Susie Beckwith
March 2, 2008 at 3:50pm
We are grandparents of Collin Gannon and our daughter, Mary Gannon, informed us of the situation. My wife, Susie, and I, Allan, wanted to tell you that we will keep Nick and your family in our prayers.
Allan and Susie Beckwith

The Moodies
March 1, 2008 at 2:28pm
Missing, not gone. We constantly pray for his welcome return.
The Moodies, Kelley, Laurie and Steve

Rancho Cucamonga PT Cruiser Club
March 1, 2008 at 2:28pm
Hello
Hopefully Nicholas will be found soon and bring joy to the family. I emailed his poster & the web site to all on my mailing list as per a request from one of your family members in California.
Wishing all of the best and our thoughts are with you in finding Nicholas.
Sincerely
Alex M.

Ron Rydeski
February 29, 2008 at 11:17pm
Damon and Natalie,
Our prayers have been with you since the time we first heard. Our family and Morgan want to be a support any way possible. Stay strong and lean on the only one you can Our Lord Jesus Christ. Call anytime.
Ron Rydeski

Sandy Dorsey
February 29, 2008 at 9:26pm
Dear Natalie,
I am Sandy Dorsey. I was Nick's 5th grade teacher at Chamiza Elementary, and I teach there still. I remember Nick as a wonderful person and student. I pray for you and for Nick's safe return daily. I would like to do more. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
Sincerely, Sandy

Eileen, Janet, Debbie, and Julie
February 29, 2008 at 1:18pm
Dear Natalie,
Our world changed February 5th. We think of you, Nick, Damon and your entire family everywhere we go no matter what we're doing. We want you to know that we are with you even though you're in Vermont. In spirit we walk in front of you, behind you, and beside you all the time. We are hopeful and urge you to continue being relentless in
finding your beautiful Nick. We are here for whatever you need.
With love, Your walking buddies: Eileen, Janet, Debbie, and Julie

Sally Swallow
February 29, 2008 at 10:37am
Joining those who send their thoughts and hope,
Sally Swallow

Ludivina Zambrano
February 29, 2008 at 8:23am
Mrs. Garza,
I want you to know that we will be having prayer meetings for the safe return of Nick.
I am Ludivina A. Zambrano from Austin a niece of Roberto Garza. My grandmother was Luz de la Cerda.
I look forward to meeting you and your family upon Nicks Safe return.
I have faith that God will come through.
Blessing, Ludivina Zambrano

Gerard Escamilla
February 28, 2008 at 4:24pm
To Nick's family & friends,
I am from Artesia, NM and we support your effort too. I wish I had money to help support your effort.
My family will continue to ask God for his safe return.
Gerard Escamilla
Artesia, NM

Deanne Reynolds
February 28, 2008 at 1:33pm
To Natalie Garza & family,
I also have a son who is a freshman at Middlebury. I pray that God will work a miracle and return your son to you. My thoughts are with you each day.
Deanne Reynolds
Chelan, Washington

Randy/Paul Aragon
February 27, 2008 at 11:35pm
Natalie,
I think and pray about you and Nick every day. I wish there were words I could write that could make you feel better.
Randy/Paul Aragon

Sue McCaffray
February 27, 2008 at 8:56pm
Friends,
Here's what I believe: where your beautiful boy is, God is there. And Nick knows it.
Hang on to hope,
Sue McCaffray
Wilmington, NC

Kathy
February 27, 2008 at 8:53pm
As an alumna of Middlebury and the mother of sons getting ready to go to college, I will hold Nick and his family in my heart and in my prayers.
Kathy

Michelle Johnson
February 27, 2008 at 5:01pm
Dear Natalie,
I’m not sure if you remember me or not – we worked together at Sun Healthcare in the Accounting Department and occasionally we would see each other at Smith's on Golf Course. Nonetheless, I wanted to sign the guest book and express my greatest hope that Nicholas will return to you. I was moved by the disturbing news of his disappearance. I remember from our varied conversations at work that you spoke of Nick often and you were always so proud of him and the wonderful person that he was becoming. I will pray for you and your family – that you will be blessed with Nick’s homecoming. Please stay strong and keep up your unrelenting efforts!
Best wishes and prayers,
MJ

Gary Margolis
February 27, 2008 at 4:53pm
Dear Natalie,
We have met briefly over the past few weeks. Myself and my staff hold Nick and you in our thoughts and prayers, as we go through these hours and days together. Each student and their families are precious to us. My best, Gary
Gary Margolis Ph.D.

Dede Cummings
February 27, 2008 at 4:36pm
Dear Natalie, and all your dear family and friends, i went to Middlebury a long time ago, in fact 30 years ago, and I want you to know that I am thinking and praying for you all and Nick's safe return.
Dede Cummings, 1979 Middlebury
Dede Cummings

Eva Sollberger
February 27, 2008 at 3:59pm
Dear Ms Garza and family,
I make videos for an alt weekly in Burlington VT called Seven Days. I was moved to make a video (it can also be found on YouTube) about your son because his story has touched me deeply. He sounds like a wonderful young man and I continue to hold out hope that he will be found safe and sound.

I went to a rural East Coast liberal arts college (300 students) called Simon's Rock. In the early 90s we experienced one of the first school shootings. Two people died and 4 were injured. Life changed forever at Simon's Rock.

The father of 18 year old student Galen Gibson, one of the victims, wrote a heart wrenching book about his loss called, Gone Boy: A Walkabout: A Father's Search for the Truth in His Son's Murder. Like Nick, Galen was full of life and love - he would have brought so much to this world if he had remained in it longer. The student who did the shooting is in prison for the rest of his life. He too, is a sad loss. During this dark time at Middlebury College, I am reminded of this experience at Simon's Rock - harsh reality entering into a place of learning. I can only hope that this outcome is brighter.

I wish you all the best in this troubled time. It makes me glad to see all the emails of love and support from friends, family, fellow parents and VTers. Many people are thinking about Nick, worrying about him and sending him their love. He will be found.
All the best,
Eva Sollberger
Videographer, Seven Days

Amy Monier
February 27, 2008 at 4:18pm
Dear Garza Family,
I have a son Nick who is a senior at Middlebury. So everyday I think of your Nick and feel my heart break for all of the Garza family. I hope that you know that out there is a huge community of Middlebury parents who hold you in our hearts and in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Amy monier

Nick
February 27, 2008 at 2:36pm
Natalie and Damon,
Our family's have always been really close and I think of Nick as one of my own brothers. I am so heartbroken that he is missing.
with love,
Nick

Scott Swartzwelder
February 27, 2008 at 2:35pm
I am the parent of a Middlebury student, and am writing simply to express my support for Nick's family. I cannot imagine the fear and anguish that they must be experiencing during every second of this ordeal. I have thought of Nick every day since his disappearance was reported, and will continue to do so.
Scott Swartzwelder

Hello Nat, Nick and Damon,
February 27, 2008 at 2:55pm
Cassie and I have been thinking about all if you everyday wondering how you are doing. We have faith that something will soon be discovered with Nick's disappearance and that the outcome will be a good one. We are sending you and your family lots of love and strength during this difficult time and want you to know that we are honored to know all of you. Cassie and I pray for you everyday. Keep in touch.
Love, Jessica and Cassie!
Albuquerque, NM

Amy Stevens
February 27, 2008 at 12:57pm
To the Garza family,
We join all the friends and family thinking of you daily as you get
through this awful time. Our son, Nick, is a freshman at Middlebury this
year, and we want you to know that we keep your Nick in our hopes and prayers
every day.
Sincerely,
Amy and Scott Stevens

Catherina and Family
February 27, 2008 at 12:41am
Ours Dear friends of the family Escalona Vargas from Albuquerque, let us know about what happen with your dear Nick. They meet your son from school.

From here we join to you in prayers for your son and we send you in the distances our best regards and holds, maybe with this little support you will get the a little more of the necessary strong that you need in this painful moments.

Sometimes is good to know that we are not alone and as mother of 4 I can understand how a family feels happiness, pain, sadness and how a family can be strong and fights .
From Chile in SouthAmerica we are with you.
Catherina and Family.

The Madrids
February 26, 2008 at 10:02pm
Dear Natalie,
How I wish I could hug you. My heart is heavy and full of thoughts and prayers for you and your beautiful sons and family. You are an awesome mom. I too believe in miracles, they do happen everyday. You all are so loved and thought of everyday from more people than you know. God be with you,
Love, Debbie Madrid and Family

Arlene Z. Miller
February 26, 2008 at 6:58pm
Natalie,
I don't know you, but I do "know' you, because we are both mothers. I also have a son who is a freshman at Middlebury. I can't begin to experience what you are going through right now. But, I do want you to know that I think of your son throughout each day, wishing him a speedy return to you and all who love him. You must continue to be very strong, and continue to be optimistic, and the loving mother that he knows. I hope for him and for you and your family that you have him back very soon.
Arlene Z. Miller

John Walsh
February 26, 2008 at 2:25pm
Dear Natalie:
I join the thoughts and prayers of all those who have offered you their strength and hope. I, too, have a son who is a freshman in college this year. I cannot even begin to know how you must be feeling but please know that the Middlebury College community is a family that will hold you and all those who know and love Nick in their arms. I was the Chaplain at Middlebury from 1986-1994. During those years I saw this loving family come together during some very difficult times. I pray that, in the end, all will be well for you and those you love.
John Walsh

Cornelia Cesari
February 26, 2008 at 10:00am
As the mother of teenaged kids living on campus, I am haunted by this story daily. I know that Nick is one of those very special and unique
young people that give me such hope.
I cannot seem to find the words to express my sorrow. My thoughts are with Nick's family and close friends from Albuquerque. I am so sorry for your pain and I hold out hope for Nick's safe return.
Cornelia Cesari
Chelsea, Vermont

Davis
February 26, 2008 at 12:20am
Dear Natalie,
Although the connection is distant, it is times such as these that the community reaches out in whatever ways possible. My son and Nick played football together and shared many classes at the Academy. I am remembering days of our younger kids playing on the side of the bleachers during those games. Then fast-forward to seeing you help set up during Senior week at the Academy. And now, this. A day has not gone by that I have not held you up in love and in the spirit of hope. My son Josh, myself and many others regularly talk and think of Nick. He brought me a ribbon the kids made during a vigil held here at the Academy - I wear it each day.
I also look at a picture of Nick everyday - just holding him in my heart. Whatever this collective love and support can do, may you be held up by it when most needed. I will continue each day to have you in my heart as well as Nick and Damon.
Compassionately,
Andra Davis

Damaris Andrews
February 25, 2008 at 10:56pm
dear nick's family ~ you don't know me..i am a middlebury native, my dad a former midd prof, and i also have a child in first year college 2000 miles away..with a 9 yr old little brother...i heard about nick from a middlebury alumnus i happened into...i was instantly touched and taken by this terrible event for you and have been thinking about you all, hoping for nick's safe return every day, checking here hoping for good news...you see....your community includes many you don't personally know, but who share common ground with you in some way..for us its middlebury and parenthood..i know there are many more out there besides me sending the same energy of hope to you...i hope all the energy of hoping hearts brings him back to you soon and safely..
sincerely, damaris andrews

Vicki Perrigo
February 25, 2008 at 3:27pm
Am unable and unwilling to stop thinking about you throughout my waking hours. May God uphold you during these times of waiting. ALL of the Heckls are praying for the Garzas.

vicki heckl

Elizabeth Mulligan
February 25, 2008 at 9:42am

Hello. My son is a freshman at Middlebury. I wanted to take the opportunity to let you know that my thoughts and hope are with you during this time. My son does not know Nick, but they have some mutual friends. I, too, am a single mother. Reading about Nick and your family really reminded me a lot of my son and my own situation. As I'm sure you can imagine, there's not a parent out there that isn't thinking "that could be us", and in a way, it is us. We too fell in love with Middlebury and Vermont. It was my son's dream for the last 6 months of high school to attend Middlebury, as I'm sure it was for Nick. I so hope that there is a happy resolution to this nightmare.

Denise & Kids
February 25, 2008 at 8:24am
Dear Natalie,
Thinking of you & your family every hour everyday.
Denise & kids CO

Allison Burlock
February 25, 2008 at 12:14am
Having a brother myself that is barely 11 years old, I pray that Nick returns for Damon's sake. I am sure that Damon worships the ground Nick walks on.
Allison

Patty Burns
February 24, 2008 at 10:07pm
Dear Garza Family,
Unbelievable!!
My heart is breaking for all of you. There is not a day that goes by that I struggle with the question we all have, where is Nick? The unknown is so unsettling, as each passing minute seems like eternity. Nick is an amazing young man who has touched the hearts of many. His presence is missed beyond belief. I pray for a safe return and closure. May God give you the strength to continue on this journey.

I just experienced a missing person situation 21 months ago with a close friend from CA who’s sister went missing. So I know it’s an emotional, exhausting, stressful time for all.
Keep the faith; it’s in God’s hands.
Love,
Pat, Paul & Kevin

Terry Wright
February 24, 2008 at 8:33pm
Dear Garza Family,
I am the mother of a Feb who just started at Middlebury two weeks ago. It turns out my son Spencer knew Nick from debate camp at the University of Michigan two summers ago. Like Nick, my son was an policy debater who also played ice hockey in high school, so in a strange way I feel like I know Nick. I have been reading all of the kind words from people describing what an incredible kid Nick is and I want you to know that many, many people here in Vermont are deeply concerned about your family and hoping that your son will be found soon. We are all keeping you and Nick in our thoughts and praying for his safe return.
Terry Wright

Caryn Overbey
February 24, 2008 at 4:58pm
Dear Garza family,
My daughter is a Middlebury freshman in Atwater Commons and knows Nick. I just wanted to let you know that my family's thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with you as you await word about Nick.
Fifteen years ago, my brother failed to return from a trip to the Pacific northwest. Our wait was a very difficult two weeks. I remember the knot in my stomach every time the phone rang, and I feel deeply for you as you wait for news of your beloved son and family member. I pray that Nick is found soon and for your continued strength at this terribly difficult time. Many people at my church are also keeping all of you in their prayers.
Caryn Overbey
Charlotte, NC

Sarah Marshall
February 24, 2008 at 4:10pm
Dear Natalie,
I can't imagine all you're going through. My heart aches for you. I am also a mother of a freshman son at Middlebury, and am so sorry Nick is missing. My prayers are with you and your family. I'm praying for Nick's safe return. May you feel surrounded by and sustained by God's love during these difficult days.
Sincerely,
Sarah Marshall

Justin Howles
February 23, 2008 at 6:48pm
Dear Garza Family,
I hope everyday for Nick's safe return. I know he is an amazing kid, and my thoughts have been with you. I know we have not spoken in some time, but if there is anything I can do for you here in Albuquerque please do not hesitate to call me.
Justin Howles (505)249-2033.

Angela Hudak
February 23, 2008 at 5:21pm
I have only recently learned about Nick but wanted you to know I have thinking of you ever since. My son is a sophomore at Elon University where they are dealing with a missing alum. His name is Kyle Fleischmann from Charlotte, NC and has been missing since November 9th. This morning I read about a missing male student from Northeastern, and then there is a missing male student from Georgia. It is so scary how these 4 promising young men have just disappeared. I wish they were all together somewhere safe. I will continue to pray for your Nick and the other young men as well and hope they all return soon. My very best to all.
Angela Hudak
Boxford, MA

Lauren Nicole McGonagle-Akin
February 24, 2008 at 12:58pm
Natalie, I didn't know how or when or what I could say to you about all this, except that I know your strength, your immeasurable love, your resilience, and that every day I try to fill myself with hope. And know too that every day I send my deepest love to you, to Damon, and to Nick. Nick taught me so much about love, and I felt it so profoundly with him, in him, in your house. You were all such a blessing for me. Thinking about your strength, Natalie, has given me so much strength through all of this, and I know I'm not alone in this regard. And you aren't alone Natalie, and neither is Nick. If I can be of any help, please let me know.
Lauren

Belinda Pennington
February 24, 2008 at 5:29pm
I taught many, many extraordinary students during my long tenure at Albuquerque Academy, but I count "Garza" as one of the most extraordinary. I still remember the first day of my Modern World History class when I asked each student to share their hopes and fears for the coming school year. Nick looked at me and said he hoped the history I taught would be the truth. I was surprised and challenged by his remark. What an insightful thing for a 15 year old to say on the first day of a history class. From that day on I would always provide a caveat when making a statement about the Renaissance, the French Revolution or the rise of Communism: "Sometimes I do tell stories for effect, but this time I'm telling the truth." I'd glance over at Nick and he'd give me knowing smile.

My heart goes out to his Mom and the rest of his family at this time of stress and worry. Best regards and if I can be of any assistance, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Giles Pennington
Albuquerque Academy, 1973-2005

Debra Martin
February 23, 2008 at 2:29pm
Dear Mrs Garza,
My heart breaks for you. Please know that you and Nick are in my prayers.
With hope for Nick's safe return,
Debbie Martin (Middlebury Parent '09.5)

Bob & Margie
February 23, 2008 at 1:56pm
Dear Brother, Natalie & Damon,
Like everyone else, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We truly have walked this walk before and we sincerely feel your pain. Our church family is also praying for all of you. We enjoyed the few times we spent with Nick and have long admired his strength of character. We have always been touched by the relationship between Nick and Damon and pray that Nick will be found safe and sound very soon. Please don't hesitate to let us know if there's anything at all we can help you with.
Love,
Bob & Margie

Cara Marie Behm
February 23, 2008 at 10:53am
I just wanted to say that my thoughts are with you through all of this. i cannot imagine what it would be like to not know the whereabouts of your child, sibling, family member, or friend. i am a
student at uvm and have seen the posters around campus and around burlington. there is not much i can say that would console; but there are many of us who are thinking of you and pray for Nick and the whole family and want to see his quick safe arrival home. my heart goes out to all of you. ~Cara

Todd Sierra
February 23, 2008 at 8:41am
Nick,
As I sit here, attempting to express myself through the heavy heart I possess, I think of you and am reminded that whatever I write, however I express myself, I better do it using correct punctuation, grammar and sentence structure. A lesson I’ve learned so many times thanks to you, hope I don’t let you down.

Shortly after your birth, it became obvious that you were not a typical child. I fondly remember your first tip to a small carnival. Your parents gently placed you in the space rocket ride, which was bound to extract excitement from a toddler. Most children your age were busy either crying due to the recent separation from their parents or cheering as the rocket soared from earth, all five feet above ground. You on the other hand, you were too busy concentrating on the controls, manning the steering wheel as if it was a matter of life and death and you took your job as captain very serious. Things, which excited most children, seemed to only bore you, with the exception of the ninja turtles. You were convinced that the turtles used your grandparent’s backyard as a venue for their daily training regimen and once completed you insisted on talking to each and every one on the phone. I think your grandma impressed us all when she changed her voice, four different times; similar to a chameleon changing their colors. I also remember getting duped into dressing up as Rafael, while you visited from California. Upon seeing me in the ridiculous costume your first comment was “wow, on TV you look like you have muscles, what happened?" (Even now that still puts a smile on my face, thank you Nick) Even as a child you possessed a sophisticated humor, one which is uniquely yours.

As you grew into the man you are today, you never disappointed. Finely honing your charm, demeanor and respect to name just a few. Everyone who knows you Nick, realizes the potential you behold. A potential which would give you just cause to carry yourself with a degree of aloofness, however, this is just not you. You impress me with your humbleness, respect you have for others and the kind words you always choose to express. You truly are one of a kind, unique in every sense of the word.

As I pray each and everyday for your safe return, I also realize that it is for selfish reasons. I, along with countless others, are not ready to let you go. I can’t imagine not seeing those big brown eyes, that smile or hearing your laughter. If you must go, I thank you for being you, just being you Nick. I find comfort knowing your spirit will be successful at each and every endeavor which comes your way and will live on in all the lives you've so generously touched.
I truly love and miss you immensely, Nicholas.
Uncle Todd

Aunt Vanessa
February 23, 2008 at 8:41am
Nick,
I remember the day I met you, you were 9. You gave me a look which said, “great not another one of my uncles girlfriends.” You even had nicknames for all of them, which you shared with me on a trip to the store, I was dubbed the “Mall Chick.” I’m not sure why, but I’ve never forgotten that short trip to the store. I remember thinking to myself, wow what a personality this kid has. As time went on and I became a permanent fixture in the family, I got to know the amazing person you are. As I’ve watched you grow up you’ve surprised me what a truly special person you’ve matured into.

You’ve always been strong, independent, free spirited, kind hearted, loving, extremely mature, responsible and one of the most intelligent persons I know, then and now. I’ve always admired you for possessing those qualities. Qualities most humans don’t accomplish in a lifetime, yet you’ve managed to acquire in just 19 short years. You’ve amazed, astounded and left me speechless over the last 10 years. I sincerely look up to you and the man you’ve become.

Nick, you have the love and respect of everybody that truly knows you inside and out. I know two young boys that look up to you as a role model. One being your brother Damon, another truly amazing soul that you’ve had a huge role in shaping. I love you and miss you Nicholas very much. I’m praying for your safe return every second of every day.
Love Aunt Vanessa.

To you Nickie,

My love, my heart and soul go out to you. You have remained strong through the hardest of times. I know your Nick is going to be extremely proud of you. Proud of the inner strength and the composure you’ve managed to poses. I love you and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Please feel comfort in knowing your Damon is safe and much loved here. We give him all the hugs and kisses possible that a young boy can stand.
I love you
Vanessa

Lynne Barol
February 23, 2008 at 10:00am
Dear Mrs. Garza:
Ever since hearing about Nick’s disappearance, I have been praying for his safe return. My thoughts and prayers are with him and of course you and your family. My son is a freshman @ UMD. We send our children away in hopes of watching them fulfill their dreams. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. God bless all of you.
Lynne Barol

Evan Bobrick
February 23, 2008 at 4:02am
Natalie,
It's sometimes difficult for me to keep hoping, but when I talked to you while I was in New York I felt reassured, renewed. Thanks for being so strong; you're one in a million, as was Nick. No matter what happens, my memories of him will keep me smiling.
Evan

Catherine Blumstein
February 23, 2008 at 4:02am
My daughter Meghan is a freshman who lives in Nick's dorm. She was not on campus that week, but once she heard the news was very upset. I have placed Nick on our prayer list at my school and each school day at 8:15 AM know that 240 K-8th graders in PA are praying for Nick. We are praying hard for your prayers to be answered.
CBlumstein

Kate Wadkins
February 22, 2008 at 7:50pm
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. I'm praying for him, and your hearts.
I'm so, so sorry.
Kate Wadkins
Lexington, KY

Linda Peterson
February 22, 2008 at 6:53pm
Dear Natalie,
Know that we are with you in spirit at this very difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We send you our strength and comfort but most of all we send you our hope for a positive end to your nightmare and a happy reunion with Nick.
Everyone at SunBridge Accounting

Claudia Crow
February 22, 2008 at 6:11pm
Dear Mrs. Garza:
My son is a sophomore at Middlebury and I have been in anguish ever since I learned of your son's disappearance. I am so distraught that this happened. My thoughts are with you constantly; I have been praying for you, your family, and for Nicholas' safe return. May you continue to have faith, inner strength and hope.
Sincerely,
Claudia Crow

Arielle
February 22, 2008 at 5:48pm
Hello Garza Family,
When checking my Middlebury application status, I fell upon the missing person announcement. I just want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. My cousin, Evan Simon, actually passed away in a skiing accident in Vermont on Feb. 5th, 2000, so this story has special significance to me.

I genuinely hope he is safe and well, just as I pray that you and your family do not give up hope. If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.

Keep faith,
Arielle M.

Jill and Leo Kron
February 22, 2008 at 5:42pm
Dear Mrs. Garza,
Our daughter is a Middlebury junior who is in Paris this semester. From there, she has been following the news every day about your son's disappearance and we are thinking about Nick and you and your family every single day. I write in the hope that while you wait for his return, you can derive some solace in knowing how many of us-- other parents and friends, are with you in our thoughts and in our hearts. I hope your precious son will be back in your arms soon.
Jill and Leo Kron
Emily Kron

Jeane Mayell
February 22, 2008 at 1:44pm
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I am a mother of a Middlebury freshman, Tom Mayell, who did not know Nick, but lives in the next dorm. I have been following the story about your son and I want you to know that I think of you every hour of every day since the news emerged of his disappearance. I pray for you and your nine year old boy; and I pray for Nick. If there is some way I could help you, please let me know. In the meantime, please know that there are people out there like myself who are with you in spirit; who care about you and your two boys, and who in our own small way are suffering your anguish along with you. Your pain is all of our pain and we extend our love and support to you and your beautiful boys. Above all, I am sending in prayer all the love and comfort I can to your precious Nick where ever he is.
Sincerely,
Jeanne Mayell

Candace and Dennis O'Neill
February 22, 2008 at 9:20am
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I, too, have a freshman son at Middlebury and can only imagine what you and your family are going through. I just want you to know that I have enlisted as many people as I can to pray for you, Nick, and your family during this trying time. I know it may be hard to see it right now, but He is with you and He won't let you go.
Sincerely,
Candace O'Neill

Margaret Muwonge
February 21, 2008 at 12:51pm
Dear Demetrius, Natalie, Family & Friends:
Not a day goes by without thinking about Nicholas and you all at this very difficult time. We just want to let you know that many of us have you in our thoughts and prayers every single day.
Your fellow parents,
Margaret & Eldad

Diane Gibson
February 21, 2008 at 6:56pm
Mrs. Garza,
We have a new Feb student and were heart broken to learn of Nick's disappearance. Know that our prayers are with you and your family for the safe return of Nick. May God give you strength in the days ahead.
Diane and Don Gibson

John Lennon
February 21, 2008 at 5:32pm
our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. our daughter emma is a friend of nicks, they are both in the same dorm. she was with him shortly before he disappeared and is struggling to understand what happened. she speaks highly of him and they share having a much younger sibling. we all hope he returns safe and sound. i know that there are no words to take the pain away, please take comfort in the fact that we pray for you, your family, and nick each day. hope lives in my heart that we will meet nick one day.
sincerely john and judy lennon and family

Fiona Sloan
February 21, 2008 at 4:07am
Dear Natalie,
I can't imagine how hard these past two weeks have been for you and your family, but I am all the while struck by your eloquent strength and love in this most difficult of times. Nick is a young man of incredible intelligence, creativity, and compassion -- and I know he is endlessly loved. Short years ago, his witty humor as he taught me the ways of policy debate spurned me onward to continue my years with the activity. As the months and years traveled on, his sensitive passion and ease for life taught me so much more about the ways of life itself. Nick, you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly, and every night I light a candle and pray for your safety. We all miss you so incredibly much.

Barbara Dahlke
February 21, 2008 at 4:37pm
Natalie,
All our prayers and positive energy are with you and your family. God bless Nick.
Barbara and Roger Dahlke

Robyn Forbes
February 20, 2008 at 2:41am
Natalie,
Margaret has kept me informed on the search for Nick. You are in my prayers daily. Stay as strong as you have been and please take care of yourself. Sometimes life is not fair and we are all hoping for a happy ending. I am sending a hug your way. If you need ANYTHING just call.
Robyn Forbes

The Moodie Family
February 20, 2008 at 11:149pm
We continue to pour positive energy into our prayers for Nick's safe return.
The Moodie family

Tina and Jack Britton
February 20, 2008 at 8:23pm
My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Please know that I am praying for a safe return of your precious son.
Tina Britton
Jack Britton 2008

Stephanie Lipkowitz
February 21, 2008 at 2:37pm
Dear Natalie,
You, Nick, and Damon are in our thoughts and hearts. The students at Albuquerque Academy are folding one thousand origami paper cranes as a symbol of hope that Nick will return to us safely. Many of the cranes are made from discarded debate flows, and many of the students have written words of hope and concern on the paper before they folded them.
Your friends at the Academy
Stephanie Lipkowitz and the studentsf

Debby Lopez
February 21, 2008 at 2:13pm
Oh Natalie...... I don't even know what words would help right now. I know what a wonderful mother and person you are. Myself, Lukas, Shelby, Tatumn and Paige are praying for Nick everyday! I am so sorry for you, little Damon and the rest of your family, that you are going through this nightmare! Love, thoughts, and prayers, every second of every day!!!
Debby Lopez

Bunny Goldstein
February 21, 2008 at 10:30am
Dear Mrs. Garza,
My name is Bunny Goldstein, and I recently brought my own 19 year old son to Middlebury to begin his studies as a Feb.
Both my husband and I are heartbroken at Nick’s disappearance, and send our most sincere hopes and prayers that he is returned to you safely.
Please know that our thoughts are with you every day. We feel most deeply for you and the rest of Nick’s family during this time of fear and hope.

Stephanie Padilla
February 21, 2008 at 12:04am
My thoughts and Prayers go out to you and your family during this time. Nick was a classmate of mine in third grade, I immediately recognized his name and a resemblance from memories of elementary school. Again my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Stephanie
Gallup, NM

Emily Akin
February 20, 2008 at 11:09pm
Nick and my niece Lauren were friends at the Academy. One weekend
several summers ago Nick joined our family at the Santa Fe Opera. I
was so impressed with his charm and kindness.
Our prayers are with you all.
Emily Akin ( in Houston) and the rest of the Akin family in Dallas,
Albuquerque, Santa Fe, Phoenix, San Francisco, Idaho and Barcelona.

Donna Maes
February 20, 2008 at 9:58pm
Natalie,
Stay strong and know that your friends in Albuquerque are here praying for you and we wish we could be there to support you during stressful days.
You and your boys are in my prayers.
Sending you a tight hug.
Donna Maes

Colleen Sullivan
February 20, 2008 at 9:55pm
To Nick his parents, family and friends
Just thought I would let you know I am praying for Nick and his safe return and for his family and friends. May you all find some comfort in the people pulling together for you and praying for you and Nick.
Sending Love from Worcester State College

Samuel Rowe
February 20, 2008 at 9:34pm
Dear Natalie,
Nick is a human being of surpassing intelligence and compassion as well as an exceptional friend, and his absence troubles me profoundly, as it does many. You and Damon have been in my thoughts constantly, and I hope that you are finding the strength to carry on in this difficult time.
Love,
Sam

Cynthia Spray
February 20, 2008 at 9:22pm
To Nick's family;
Our thoughts are with you, as are our prayers.
We remember playing against Nick, and getting to know Natalie over many years.
We will send an email across the country to our friends, asking they post Nick's flyer.
Please advise if there is anything else we can do to help.
Cindy Spray and the Taos Hockey Association

Lydia Marquez
February 20, 2008 at 7:14pm
Nikki, I am your aunt Gloria Marquez' friend, from Santa Fe Springs. I pray asking the Lord to give you and all your family strength in what can only be a most difficult time. My thoughts are with you, your family in Albuquerque, in Silver City, and in California. God bless you all.
Lydia Marquez

Judy Farrow
February 20, 2008 at 6:55pm
Dear Nicki,
We are Dick and Judy Farrow and are "relatives" of Cliff. He and Lorry have kept us posted and our hearts and our prayers are with you all. You are an amazing woman - so strong! Our prayers are with you. That is all we can do, but it is also a lot!
Love and prayers,
Judy Farrow

Nancy Terr
February 20, 2008 at 3:18pm
Natalie, our family's heart and prayers go out to you. So many people support you, the universe must be listening. We pray for Nick's safe return.
Nancy, Robert, Neal Behrendt, from Hockey!

Dennise Burke
February 20, 2008 at 12:47pm
I am a lifelong resident of Middlebury VT and know many many staff and students at Middlebury College but I am also the mother of a 19 year old girl who attends CSC in New Hampshire.

I cannot imagine the loss, pain and heartache you must feel in this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray for Nicholas's safe return.
Sincerely,
Denise B

Carol Aubrey
February 20, 2008 at 11:55am
To Demetrius and Natalie
My heart goes out to you both during this very trying time. May God comfort you.
I have never met Nicholas, but he is my childrens’ cousin. Robin today sent me the information. Demetrius, I do not know if you remember me, I was married to your brother Bob, and use to live next door to you when you were just a boy. You and family are in my prayers.
Love Carol

Paula Boland
February 20, 2008 at 11:07am
Dear Natalie,
We are sending positive thoughts your way and looking out for Damon
here at school. We care about you and your family and are here to
support you and Damon every step of the way.
Your friends,
Ms Paula & Ms. Marny

D Szmyd
February 20, 2008 at 9:49am
Dear Garza Family,
My son, John, is a friend of Nick at Middlebury. I wanted you to know that I have been praying for Nick's return and for you to have strength in this difficult time. I hope the search for Nick has widened and every possibility investigated. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Diane Szmyd

Cheri Griffiths
February 20, 2008 at 8:51am
In my thoughts.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Cheri
(I have started a forum for Nick on my message boards. You are welcome to make use of it if it will help in any way. http://www.cherigriffiths.com/phpbb3/phpBB3/viewforum.php?f=71 )

Dorothy Payette
February 20, 2008 at 5:11am
You are in my prayers for the Lord to open all the right doors to
bring your son Nicholas safely home.
Dorothy Payette, FL

Sue, Steve, Jackie & Stevie C.
February 19, 2008 at 12:25am
Natalie
I can't find words to tell you how sorry we are that this is happening. I just got off the phone with Margaret and I'm going to spend the entire day tomorrow calling people to try and get more widespread publicity for Nick. We pray that he comes home safely and soon. Jackie said to tell you that you are the strongest person she knows and that she is praying for Nick to come home safely and praying for you to be given answers. Please let us know if you need ANYTHING.
Sue, Steve, Jackie & Stevie C. Albuquerque

Yvette Haney
February 19, 2008 at 5:01pm
This is driving me crazy, I don't understand how you are holding up, but please know that here in California my friends and Nick's uncles are all praying for him to come home safely and for answers to bring you peace. Please continue to stay strong and know I am thinking of you at this awful time.
Love Nick's Aunt Yvette

Liza Pouliot
February 19, 2008 at 4:52pm
I pray for your healthy and safe return for your son. I hope you see him soon. God bless the Garza Family.
Liza Pouliot

Cindy A. Ortiz
February 19, 2008 at 1:07pm
I’m a good friend of Nick’s mom Natalie, and just want to let you know our prayers and positive hopes are with you and yours. Please let us know if we can help in anyway. God
Bless you.
Cindy Ortiz (Abq

Philip McBride
February 19, 2008 at 12:34pm
Natalie
My thoughts and prayers are truly with you and your loved ones during this time. Please do not hesitate to contact me with any further needs or assistance.
Phillip McBride

From the Putnam Family
February 19, 2008 at 11:51pm
We are another Academy family who is thinking and praying for Nick. Our
daughter, Hollie, is friends with Nick from debate. She graduated in
'06. Please know that we are hopeful for Nick's safe return and wish you
comfort in this very trying time.
Lin and Phil Putnam

Demetrius
February 19, 2008 at 11:16pm
Nick I Love You. you are my 1st born and will always be My Baby Natalie stay strong i'll be there on thursday to help you however i can.
love Dad

Rustin Partrow
February 19, 2008 at 11:08pm
Just the two weeks he's been gone have impacted me tremendously. Memories,
secrets, understanding- when a good friend disappears, so do these. There
are certain things that I told Nick before I told anyone else, and I'm
struggling to deal with the void of his absence. A lot of us have gone
missing with him, a little bit. Despite it all, I've really enjoyed
thinking back to the wonderful time we've had growing up together. God only
knows how much Nick has contributed to who I am. What a wonderful guy.

Mike and Meg Ovitt and family
February 19, 2008 at 7:42pm
Dear Natalie and family,
On behalf of a concerned Middlebury family our thoughts and prayers are with you in your search for Nick. We will continue to pray and help in what ever way we can from our home in Western New York.
Sincerely, Mike and Meg Ovitt and family

Janet Sanchez
February 19, 2008 at 7:09pm
Dear Natalie,
Your poise and strength is amazing. When I see and hear you on the news I am in awe of your grace. What you said last night keeps repeating in my head, "I feel Nick's spirit telling me to stay calm and focused so we can figure this out." As you have the vigil tonight at Middlebury, we will be continuing to pray for Nick in Albuquerque. This has got to have a happy ending. I do believe in miracles!
Love,
Janet Sanchez

Anne Schumann
February 19, 2008 at 6:28pm
Hope this reaches you, Natalie, to let you know that you and Nick are constantly in our thoughts here in the ED Office at UNMH. We hang onto every news report and constantly badger Pam, Erin, and Carolyn on a daily basis for any updates! As well, we sincerely miss your daily presence and pretty smile in our office and feel helpless that we can't be there with you physically to offer our support. Don't hesitate to contact us if there's anything we can do on this end. Sincerely, Anne
Anne Schumann

Rev. Linda Roberts-Baca
February 19, 2008 at 6:53pm
Dear Natalie,
We are all praying for you and for your family.
ABQ Academy sends notices to all of us who have children there (or are Alumni).
If I can be of any help to you, please feel free to contact me.
Sincerely,
Rev. Linda Roberts-Baca
Rio Grande Presbyterian Church
ABQ, NM 505-831-1143

Kevin King
February 19, 2008 at 11:59am
The King family would like to let the Garza family know that you and Nick are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Our son Nick is attending Bowling Green State University in Ohio. He calls daily to see if there is any word on Nick. I hope I will soon be able to have good news for him. He is very saddened and confused as we all are. If there is anything we can do for you please don't hesitate to ask. We all feel so helpless.
Kevin, Jan, Nick, Chris, and Cory.

Lisa Twitchell
February 19, 2008 at 11:43am
May you find strength during this difficult time.
People all over the world are praying for you.
Sincerely,
Lisa T.

Wordene Day
February 19, 2008 at 10:55am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bring Nicholas back home safely to you all. Your family and Nicholas will be put in our prayer book at church. God bless you all with strength and hope during this difficult time.
Peace & Faith,
Wordene Day

Preston Rel
February 19, 2008 at 10:53am
Hello,
My regards go out to Nick, I know Nick from hockey and I really thought he was a great person. I played some hockey with Nick in highschool and I really didn’t know him to well but from what I did know I had a lot of respect for the way he cared for his family. I hope Natalie, Damon, and the Garza family are doing well and I pray that they will find or even find some clues as to where the wonderful person may have gone so I pray for you Nick..
God Bless,
Preston Rel

Denise
February 19, 2008 at 11:18am
Dear Natalie,
Going on with our "normal" day is hard, knowing the heartache & suspense you & your family are going through. Know hundred of friends may not be with you in Vermont but with YOU in heart, thought & spirit. Keep going & please take care of yourself. Nick & Damon are strong & determined boys because you instilled that in them. Tons of positive energy & prayers are sent to YOU.
Love
Denise McNally & kids
Littleton CO

Karen Guarnieri
February 19, 2008 at 10:37am
I’m praying that Almighty God will give you that promised strength and special peace that surpasses all understanding. I pray for a double dose of wisdom and discernment for all those mentioned who have shown such awesome support and tireless work. Know that the Holy One is in charge.
Blessings,
Karen from KY - Southland Christian Church

Clyde Sanchez
February 19, 2008 at 09:51am
Clyde and I want to let you know that our prayers are with you and your family as you go through this difficult and uncertain time. Our son, Travis, graduated with Nick last year, and I know he is also deeply concerned about this situation. May the God of all comfort be with you. We will continue to lift you up in prayer.
Jo Sanchez

Jan Goldman-Carter
February 19, 2008 at 09:44am
I was so saddened to hear of Nick's disappearance from my son, a Midd sophomore. I have been thinking of Nick and Natalie all weekend and praying for good news.
Jan Goldman-Carter

The Rel Family
February 19, 2008 at 09:20am
Dear Garza's
I wanted to let you know that we are shocked, and sad about Nick's disappearance. Nick is truly a fine young man, and great big brother to Damon. We are praying for Nick's safe return every day. I had the pleasure to see Damon at our high school, and gave him a big hug. I was able to let him know if he needed anything or need to talk he could give a call. Damon is such a sweet little boy. Natalie we pray for you, and your family. We pray for Nick's safe return.

MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL

THE REL FAMILY

Theresa Keller
February 18, 2008 at 2:26pm
I am a friend of Rustin's mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I just got back from mass and I said some special prayers for Nick.
Theresa in Albuquerque

Carol Taif
February 18, 2008 at 2:11pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Carol Rochester Chorus Sweet Adelines Rochester,NY

Amy Galanter
February 18, 2008 at 1:26pm
I am so very sorry that this is happening, it is so troubling. I went to high school with Nick and he is an amazing guy. This is so sad and surreal, I cannot stop thinking about it. I sincerely hope and pray that he comes home safely.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Amy Galanter

Charlie Eisenhood
February 18, 2008 at 12:24pm
Evan, PJ, Rustin, Luke, and I were all together this weekend to support each other over this terrible and frustrating situation. We are all keeping you in our hearts, Natalie. We remain hopeful. I am praying for his safe return.

Susan Johnson
February 18, 2008 at 11:34am
We are the parents of Tyler Johnson (Albuquerque Academy '06). Nick and Tyler are part of the circle of friends that developed through an association with the debate team and other interests at the Academy. Please know that this circle of young adults along with their parents is united now in prayer and in hope and in love for Nicholas Garza.

Lynn and Susan Johnson

Laurie Laughlin-Hajny
February 18, 2008 at 11:23am
Dear Damon,
I've been thinking about you.
Thank you for always being so kind to Zachary (Jason's littlest brother) when we saw you at the Outkast hockey games. I especially remember you singing the pumpkin song for him that you had learned at school. We are praying for you and for Nick and for your mom.
God is good.
Laurie Laughlin-Hajny

Sharon Perrilliat-Drewes
February 18, 2008 at 11:13am
Hi Natalie,
I am in utter disbelief. I am, however, hopeful and have faith all of our prayers will be answered. We shall be praying for you and the rest of your family during this time of uncertainty. Please take care.

Sharon Perrilliat-Drewes, MSN, BSN, RN

John, Elaine & Angela Baker
February 18, 2008 at 10:06am
We are another Academy family wishing there was something we could do. Our daughter, Angela, is a friend and fellow classmate of Nick's and has a very heavy heart right now. Please know that we are constantly thinking about Nick and your family. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Christine Long
February 18, 2008 at 9:49am
Natalie,
Having a 19 year old daughter in Seattle, away from home, who actually debated Nick at a speech and debate meet, my heart goes out to you Natalie and your family. You, Nick and your family are both in my personal prayers and on our prayer list at church for Nick's safe and quick recovery. Remember to lean on God for strength and that you have many back home who are both praying and supporting you spiritually, and awaiting the news of Nick's safe return. With much love and concern, Chris Long

Chris Long, Inventory Coordinator
Pediatric Pavilion Operating Room

Steve Riddle
February 18, 2008 at 9:20am

Natalie – our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. My heart is broken for you and the pain you are feeling right now. We love you. Brandi and Steve Riddle.

Florence H. Maestas
February 18, 2008 at 9:19am

I lost my two sons in separate accidents and hope and pray you do not have to live this kind of nightmare. It is the worst trauma a mother can face. Keep your faith and May God Bless You and your family and I hope your son returns to you soon.

Florence H. Maestas
Office Supervisor
Patient Registration/Admissions Dept.

Tori Doyle Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 11:41 pm e Natalie, Know that our hearts are with you and we are fiercely praying for a safe return home for Nick.
Tori Doyle and family
(Bunko)

Winnie Waltzer-Hackett Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 10:31 pm e As the mother of an Academy freshman and senior, I am deeply shaken by Nick’s disappearance. Natalie is living every parent’s worst nightmare. The thought of my son going off to college in upstate New York next year is now more more difficult to imagine. I keep your familly in my daily prayers. May the Lord bring Nick back safely.

Adrienne Knighten Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 7:49 pm e The garza family is in our prayers. He is an amazing person.

Caroline Eisenhood Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 6:06 pm e Natalie, you and Nick are in my thoughts and in my heart all the time. Many of Nick’s closest friends have gathered with my son Charlie in New York this weekend to give each other support. We are all hurting so much over this and are wishing and praying for Nick to be found safe soon.

Beth Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 5:56 pm e Ms. Garza and family,
My mom heart is with you. My daughter’s the same age as Nicholas, a freshman at St. Michael’s. I teach high school, and my classes have all been praying for your family and Nicholas. All our prayers are offered to send you strength and love.
Beth

Andy Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 5:27 pm e I knew Nick from high school, and his intelligence, humor, and all around friendliness made him a great person and fun to be around. My family and I are praying for his family and his safe return.

Flor Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 4:55 pm e I am keeping you in my prayers, as many are.

Sonia Sarmiento, Natalia and Martha Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 2:52 pm e Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Know that there are many praying for Nick and your family

Roberta Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 2:42 pm e Natalie,
I know you and I have had several positive talks about our children so in that positive hopes, our family extends our prayers to you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you here, please let me know. Roberta

Lauren Ogle Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 2:28 pm e Dear Garza Family~
I am an Academy alumni 1997 and want you to know that, though I don’t know your family, your son Nicholas is someone I am praying for daily. I pray also for each of you as I am sure this is likely the most challenging event in your lives thus far. Call out on God’s strength and He will give you comfort.
With hope,
Lauren (Hisey) Ogle

Umar Malik Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 2:26 pm e Umar- I graduated with Nick from the Albuquerque Academy last year. From all of your fellow classmates, and your friends, our thoughts and prayers are with you Nick, and your family. May God shed his love on you.

Vicki Heckl, mom of Tyler Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 1:30 pm e Nick has been a great support to me since Tyler’s accident and I love him so much. I have been out of communication for the past week and just got the message that he had gone missing. My prayers will not stop for him and for the family. May God walk alongside you all during this time.
vicki heckl

Jody Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 1:28 pm e Stay strong. We’re thinking and praying for you.

Phil Houser Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 1:19 pm e God bless you and your family. My daughter Jocelyn Houser is a class mate of Nichols Garza. We will continue to pray for you and your family.

Heather & Fam Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 11:27 am e Natalie- I am a friend of Denise & Marg. I am thinking about you and your family. Please know you are in my family’s thoughts. Stay strong!

Rowe Family Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 10:08 am e Natalie and family:
Please know that you and Nick are in our thoughts constantly. Sam is devastated but trying to carry on. We are still hoping and praying.
Beth, Jim, Sam, Abe, and Clara

Karen Chalverus Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 10:00 am e Natalie, word seem inept at this time. My love and prayers go out to you, to Nick and to the people who are helping you find him. Emma and I talk daily with hope, sadness and encouragement in knowing Nick’s spirit and strength.
with love and faith, Karen and Bill Chalverus

Susana Rinderle Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 9:57 am e Natalie, my mouth literally fell open when I heard. I am so sorry for your pain, I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Know that I (and many others here at UNMH) are thinking of you and your family, and supporting you from afar. We can’t always know why things happen, but know that you are not alone. XO

Gabriella Santillanes-Weber Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 9:37 am e We are thinking of you.

Terry Parker Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 9:30 am e Dear Garza family,
Our daughter is a Freshman also at Middlebury; she is a friend of Nick’s. Our hearts go out to you and we wish we could do something to help you find Nick.
Terry Parker and Dave Madson

Janet Sanchez Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 8:26 am e Dear Natalie and the Garza and Sierra Family,
Please know that every second we are thinking and praying for Nick and all of you. We can’t even begin to imagine how you are dealing with this. We pray you stay strong and optimistic. I hope you feel warmth around you as read about how special Nick and all of you are to so many people. We love you!!!!
Janet and Family

Jessica Nordhaus Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 8:07 am e I used to teach at Alb Academy. I live with my family in Burlington, VT now, and have been following the news closely and with great concern. Michael is in Middlebury today working with one of the search and rescue teams, but I wonder if there is anything else we can do to be of help here. Phone calls, rides, beds, a bowl of green chile–please, please call if you need anything: (802) 338-0886. We are thinking of you and hoping for good news.
Jessica Nordhaus and Michael Sheeser

The Griffith Family Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 6:45 am e Nick is a good friend of our daughter’s; they traveled and debated together for four years and have stayed close since. Ever since we heard, our thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with Nick and his family. Stan, Sara, and Melissa.

Cheryl and Jonathan Schwab Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 4:50 am e A thread has been started about Nick’s disappearance on CollegeConfidential.com, which is where I first heard about it.
I don’t know your family and I don’t know Nick but your situation speaks to all of us. I just wanted to let you know that our prayers are with you.

Partow family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:24 pm e Dear Natalie,
We are in shock, and are having a hard time dealing with the absence of this brilliant, polite and kind young man. Our son is devastated and our hearts ache. We can’t imagine what you are going through, but hope that you gain some strength by knowing that not a minute goes by without our prayers for Nick’s safe return to his family and his Albuquerque Academy brothers.
Partow Family

The Freeburnes Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:05 pm e Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at such a difficult time, we can’t even imagine. Love to you all!

Shannon Tilseth Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:17 pm e Dear Natalie & family - Please know that there are so many people that are praying for your family and Nick right this second and all of your Bunko friends have their hearts wrapped around you. We can’t even begin to imagine what your are going through but know that we love you and are hoping for a happy ending.

Laurie, Steve and Kelley Moodie Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:38 pm e Our Kelley graduated with Nick and also attends school on the East coast, far from home. Not a day goes by that we do not pray for her health and safety. We have added Nick to our prayers, that he be well and safe and come home soon.

Michael Norris Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:15 pm e Dear Garza Family,
I just received the emails from Albuquerque Academy. My brothers and I are all graduates from the 70’s. I am sure we will all start praying for Nicholas’ safe return.
Michael Norris
Albuquerque Academy
Class of 1975

C Lloyd McKenzie Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 6:51 pm e Each night before I go to sleep, I say a prayer for your family, and especially for Nicholas; that God will embrace him wherever he may be. My sincere hope is that this will come to a quick resolution. May the Lord God of Abraham, comfort you entire family in these uncertain times. C. Lloyd McKenzie

Hebert Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 6:20 pm e Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Keep the faith.

Cyndy Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 6:15 pm e As a mom of two college students your story has gone right to my heart. I am thinking of you all and sending positive thoughts your way. I hope this turns out ok in the end.

The Williams Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 5:56 pm e Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult and uncertain time.

Teri, Darryl, Nikki (AA`10), and Nina (AA`12)
Lynda Innis Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 5:35 pm e Natalie, we are holding Nick in our hearts and prayers. There isn’t a minute in the day that he is not in our thoughts. Ethan was laughing about how many minutes Nick spent in the penalty box and how he has tried throughout the years to “culturize” all the dummies in the locker room. All of us in hockey appreciate your strength and understand your relationship with Nick. As was said above, “if you need anything, anything at all, help with Damon, whatever, please know that we will be here for you.
Sincerely,
The Innis’
(Jim, Lynda, Ethan, and Samantha)

Scarpetta/Field Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 5:27 pm e We are another Academy family thinking about your family and hoping for the safe return of your son. We hope he is found safe and sound.
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Bill Eisenhood Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 3:27 pm e Nick and Charlie are great friends. Charlie is concerned and worried beyond words. My family and I are watching the situation closely, and our hope and prayers go out to Nick’s family. We, like all of you, are hugely frustrated by our inability to somehow pitch in and help.

The Schneider/Swinney Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 2:55 pm e I am a graduate of Albuquerque Academy, class of 2005. My family and I have been praying for the Garza family ever since we heard about Nick’s disappearance. Our prayers will continue to be with you for as long as they need to be. Leslee (Swinney) Schneider

Meg Chapman Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 2:34 pm e Dear Garza family,
I work at UNMH and have two sons at AA. My son Eric Sumrall was on Nick’s frisbee team last year. I pray for you several times a day and am so sorry for your pain at this time.
Hopefully he will be found safe soon.
Meg

Santiago Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 2:21 pm e My thoughts go out to all the friends and family of Nick. I hope he will be found soon.

Nancy White Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 2:06 pm e I have not met Nicholas, but words cannot express the profound compassion I feel for his family and friends who are going through such a painful time. Being an Academy parent, every student in our community is very special to me. May Nicholas be found safe and well and come home to you soon.

Rice Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:51 pm e May our greatest fears be only fears, may this great kid use the debating skills of mind and word that so often shone at the Academy to work his way out of whatever has happened. Go Nick, Go!
John, Debby, and Sarah

Lynne Hunt Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:41 pm e Natalie, My hopes and prayers are with you and your family that Nick is found safe. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

Meg Howell Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:40 pm e I was one of the speech and debate coaches who had the esteemed privilege to work with Nick while he was at Albuquerque Academy. My thoughts and prayers are with Nick, his family and friends. Nick, you are a special young man; God be with you and watch over you.

Kevin Fowler Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:25 pm e Nick is a former student of mine. We will keep Nick and family in our thoughts and prayers until his safe return. Thanks for letting us keep in touch this way!

Debbie James Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:08 pm e Natalie, we just met 2 weeks ago at an O.R. meeting. You weren’t sure about the project we were working on but you jumped in with both feet and took over for the managers. Now you have jumped in with both feet looking for Nick. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and especially with Nick. Anything you need, you know where to find me. Debbie James

Charlesdean McNally Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 1:00 pm e There are no words anyone can say that will comfort you or your family at this time.
Please just know we are offering fervent prayers on your entire family’s behalf, that you will be comforted by some good news soon about Nick.

Gretchen Allison Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 12:55 pm e Dear Natalie and the Garza Family,
I only wanted you to know how much I have been thinking of you, praying for you, and sending much positive energy to you, your family, and especially
your Nicholas. Your whole UNMH “family” is doing the same.
Gretchen Allison
Mother-Baby Unit
University of New Mexico Hospital

Felicia & Dylan and family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 12:33 pm e Dear Garza Family,
Nick sat next to my son Dylan at Graduation and my heart goes out to you and your family. Dylan is in Cedar Rapids, Iowa and at the same exact time, I could not find Dylan either. I was terribly worried calling all of the officials at his campus because I knew something was wrong and there is no one out there to let me know if anything happened to him. I did panic.
Little did I know you were going through the same thing at the same exact time.
My prayers go out to you, I knew something was wrong last week and the week before, something terrible and I pray that Nick comes home safe.
Dylan did call me finally after two weeks and I am praying with all of my heart that Nick calls you too. Big tears are running down my face because I just knew something was not right a couple of weeks ago.
Our kids are so important to us, please God, bring Nick home to his family.
With all my best wishes and prayers,
Felicia J. Lucero

Lynnette Santa Cruz Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 12:07 pm e Please know that the entire Garza family is in my prayers and thoughts every day. Natalie, keep the faith and God will bring you through even the darkest of hours.
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Nicole & Toby Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 12:00 pm e Dear Garza family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this imaginably difficult time. The positive scenario can still happen: don’t lose hope yet, and if you do, we’ll keep hoping for you. We met Nick a number of years ago in France while he was visiting his aunt and our dear friends, Tanya and Jason, and have been keeping track of his successes ever since… a remarkable boy then and now.
Biggest of hugs from San Francisco,
Nicole & Toby

Donna Crank, Emily '02 and Maggie '07 Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:55 am e I really don’t know what to say except that as members of the Albuquerque Academy family we send our love, prayers and support to all of you. As a good friend of Grandma Lorraine at McKinley we are following your journey and providing strength and support, love and care. God’s blessings

Cynde Tagg Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:53 am e Dear Natalie and family, We are thinking of you every minute of the day and wishing there was something we could do to help you find your boy. Know there are a constant trail of prayers from your friends at University Hospital and we are all hoping for the best. Blessed be.

Sharon Danford Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:52 am e Dear Natalie,
My prayers are with you and your son. I share your pain and wish I could help in someway. Please know that we care so much about you.
Sharon Danford
Mother Baby Unit, UNMH

Michelle Wafer Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:48 am e Natalie,
I have had all my friends and family add you and your family to thier prayer lists. I will continue to send positive thoughts your way. Lean on God, he will be there for you.
Michelle

Jolene Day Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:46 am e Dear Natalie and Family, As a parent of a child at Academy, I awake in the morning and fall asleep at night with prayers for Nick’s safe return. I also pray that you may find comfort in all the people who care about you and your family. Take care.
Jolene Day

The Scanlon Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:41 am e We just want to let you know that our family is praying fervently for a good outcome, that God would sustain Nick with strength until he can be found, for wisdom and guidance for all those who are searching, and for a quick and successful rescue. We have two daughters at the Academy and feel that he is part of a very special family. Keep praying and keep hoping!
The Scanlon Family

Jolene Day Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:40 am e Dear Natalie and family, as a parent of a child at Academy, I think of you as I awake and as I sleep. I continue to pray for Nick’s safe return and comfort for you and your family.
Jolene

Tanya Komogorova,Svyt Komogorov and Peter Vorobiev Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:16 am e Natalie and family,
We can’t believe this is happening. I can’t imagine how you feel, our hearts ache and our thoughts are with you every minutes of the day. We hope for Nick safe return. My son Svyt is good friend of Nick. He played hockey with Nick and was on the same debate team for 3 years. They just celebrated New Year together, at Nick’s house in Albuquerque. Svyt was so happy to see Nick. Let us know if we can be of any help for you and your family (857-9164).

Betty Mitchell Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:02 am e I’ve added all of you to our prayer list at church. God be with all of you.

Marco, Roberta, Acacia, Jaeda and Tuesday Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:51 am e We are all praying daily for you. I have known you guys for well over a decacde and have coached Nick on several occasions he is an awesome person. Acacia is really upset and Tuesday can’t stop thinking of Nick, she is really close to Damon. God bless you. The Chavez’s

The Williams Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:45 am e Dearest Garza Family,
Our son, Scott, graduated with Nick from Academy. You all are in our constant prayers. We pray for Nick’s safe and joyful return and for God to give you grace and peace in these days of waiting. May the thoughts and prayers of thousands give you strength and comfort.
The Williams Family

.Christa Angelios Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:40 am e Wow. I first heard about this on the news and I couldn’t believe it. I purchased a hockey shoelace ribbon from the bookstore to help fund things to continue the search. Our prayers are with everyone affected by this in any way.

Shannon Armstrong Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:37 am e I am so sorry to hear about Nick, and I know that I and the rest of my classmates are wishing our best. I am keeping Nick in my thoughts and prayers and am wishing for his safe return.
Shannon Armstrong
Class of 2011

Catherine Connolly Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:36 am e My heart goes out to the Garza family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I have nieces who attend college in Vermont, and I worry about their safety daily.

Laura Nellums Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:20 am e Nick and all of you, his loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Joan & Noel Deis Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:14 am e I work at UH and my daughter is a senior at AA. We are deeply concerned about Nick and are praying for him and all hsi family and friends.

Barbara Frantz Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:57 am e Natalie, Damon & Garza Family,
Clyde, Will & I are just heartsick about Nick’s disappearance, as though a member of our own family is missing, & feeling helpless to do more to find him. Please know that you have all our love, thoughts & prayers for Nick’s safe return soon.
Barbara, Clyde & Will Frantz
Albuquerque, New Mexico

Lynda Suttles Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:52 am e My Prayers will be with the Garza family and that he will be found soon.

Kuning Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:49 am e Our daughter Laura graduated with Nick, so this feels very close to our world. We are all fervently hoping for a positive outcome, and our prayers and thoughts are with you.
-Patty and Bob

Dan and Marie Rosales Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:42 am e Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

the Sheafe family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:41 am e To the Garza family, don’t ever give up hope. My prayer is that God will return Nick safe and wound. from an AA alum ‘96 . Kimberley

The Fleischer family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:40 am e Natalie,
You and Nick are in our thoughts during this terribly difficult time. We hope that the strength and support of the community helps you through this.
The Fleischers

The Midkiff Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:35 am e Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this emotional and fearful time. God bless and comfort you with the strength you need!

Morrow Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:33 am e Natalie and family,
Nick was on the debate team with my daughter and did his senior project with my husband. He has a special place in our hearts and our love. Our prayers and concern go out to you. JoAnn, Baker and Susie

the rieder family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:32 am e to the garza family, we pray for your son’s return soon. from an albuquerque academy 9th grader- jefferson -2011, colleen and geoffrey rieder

Tom Solomon Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:25 am e I understand that a letter that Nick wrote shortly before his disappearance was recently received by an Academy student. Do we know whether this information was provided to the Middlebury authorities?

Carol Sheriff Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:23 am e My heart is heavy with both grief and the desire for good news. Memories of Nick flood my mind and heart, and all are warm, positive memories of a fine young man. Nick and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Karla & Hunter Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:13 am e We are an Academy family thinking about your family and hoping for the safe return of your son.

Debra Volk Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:10 am e I can not imagine how you must feel. I pray for your son’s safe return. May all efforts and prayers soon bring your reunion. God bless you, your son, and family.

Jessica Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 9:09 am e A thousand cranes, a thousand wishes for a safe return.

Carrie Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:51 am e My thoughts and prayers are with Nicholas’ family.
Carrie B.
Pride of Baltimore Chorus
SAI

Jackie Schmidt Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:04 am e Just glancing through SING I caught the word Middlebury in your message. I grew up in Middlebury and spend summers there. I immediately sent the messages to my brother who owns the Ben Franklin Store in town and other friends there. If they can help, I’m sure they will. Prayers to you all. Jackie Schmidt, Spirit of the Gulf Chorus, fort Myers, FL

Sarah Moore Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:01 am e My prayers are with Nick’s parents and family. I’m from Albuquerque and met Nick quite a few times through friends. He is truely a nice guy and I hope he is found soon. Keep up your hopes, he will be found.

Jimmy Arellanes & Family Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 7:57 am e Jimmy #20 NMICE - C Team: All our hopes & prayers for your family during these difficult times.

Gary Joffe, Claudia Apodaca Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 7:57 am e Please know that we are praying for Nick’s safe return! God bless you and your family.

Sam Bergamo Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 7:30 am e My prayers with you and your family. I haven’t met Nick, but Damon and my son Spencer played mite hockey the year that Damon broke his leg. In that short time Damon impressed me with his spirit, his outspoken support of Spencer (which was Spencer’s first year of hockey) and his strong will to recover from his injury. This is a testament to the type of family you have, and I pray for the best outcome.

Don Smith Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 6:44 am e All of us here at the Academy are sending good thoughts to Nick and his family. Thank you for starting a website where we can all stay in touch.

Barb Moore Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 9:58 pm e I’m a Sweet Adeline from Oklahoma so saw your ordeal on our World Wide group line. I’m also a PA native, with a sister in PA and a cousin in CN to whom I’ve send the report about Nick’s disappearance so they could add you all to their prayer lists. I can’t imagine how one copes with such a devisating event. Please keep the faith and hopefully the weather will straighten up so the search can continue. We’ll be waiting to hear the GOOD NEWS!!!! God Bless you, Barb Moore, Tulsa OK.

Barb & Art Kahn Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 8:58 pm e Our prayers are with you and your family as we pray for the safe return of Nicholas. This is such a difficult time for you; please know that G-d will help you get through this terrible ordeal. We will continue to follow the updates & look for a positive posting very soon.

Coach Adam, Seth and Karen Martinez Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 8:47 pm e Once an Ice Breaker always an Ice Breaker! Natalie and family Nick and all of you are in our prayers. Nick is a special kid and we are all thinking of you and praying for a positive outcome.

NM ICE SQUIRTS Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 8:29 pm e Natalie, Damon and family,
Everyone in the NM ICE Hockey organization is praying and hoping for a positive outcome in this terrifying situation. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
The Jarvis family and NM ICE SQUIRTS

Lynda Mason Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 5:17 pm e I speak for my quartet, Mystique, in praying for your family and the safe return of Nicholas.

Gannon Family Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 4:37 pm e This message below has been sent to the NM Ice Hockey Community. My husband coached Nick for 2 yrs on the Outkast High School Hockey Team and my son attended school and played hockey with Nick. We are all deeply saddened. Natalie, we are praying for Nick’s safe return and for God to give you his strength and grace in this terrifying time. - Mary G.
Many members of the hockey community, including Outkast players, have heavy hearts hoping for the safe return of Nick Garza to his family. He went missing from his college dorm in Middlebury, VT last Tuesday Feb 5. We are putting a message of support in the Tournament Program and will be printing #57 helmet stickers for the players to wear at the tournament.
Nick is quite the character and brings wit and wisdom to all situations. His friends and team mates are worried and have been sharing lots of “Nick Stories.” If you have one, please email me so we can share them with others.
Support ribbons have been made out of hockey laces and are being sold at Outpost Ice Arena Pro Shop and Albuq Academy Bookstore to raise funds for the Garza Family Fund. There will be some for sale at the HS Tournament next weekend in Taos.
Please feel free to pass along this information and ask people to pray for Nick’s safe return as well as for strength and grace for his family.

sask Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 3:53 pm e My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I hope the answers come soon. XXX

Tyler, Brian & Karen Garvin Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 3:34 pm e Natalie–
We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Please know that we are all watching the news and praying they find Nick. If there is anything we can do here in Albuquerque please don’t hesitate to call 505-294-9549 or email khgarvin@aol.com.

Bryan Bobrick Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 2:20 pm e Natalie, Garza family and Friends of Nick - Lori, Evan, Jordan and I extend our love and prayers as the search for Nick continues. We hold onto hope that he will be found. We wish we could be there but know you are surrounded by those who love you. Take care of yourselves.
Bryan, Lori, Evan and Jordan Bobrick
Albuquerque, New Mexico

Sharon Taylor Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 9:49 am e I think of Nick and Natalie every second of every minute of every day.

Rohde Family Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 8:39 am e Natalie and family,
Our hearts ache, our every thought is with you, Damon, and all your family. We love Nick as one of ours, and always will cherish him. Damon, know that although no one can ever replace your brother, Luke and the other guys will be there for you because Nick was their brother, too. We love you and pray for your peace.

Barbara Hennessy Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 4:49 pm e sent this on to many of my Christian friends…..they’ll be praying for him also, that he will be found quickly, and safe.

Karen White and Family Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 3:32 pm e Colleen,
I don’t have any family/friends in the Vermont area, however, our prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Sending you hugs!
Karen White and Family