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Thank you for your prayers and support.
Tricia Lindau
July 10, 2008 at 3:30 AM
To the family of Nick Gara -
I have been following this story via the intranet since Nick went missing and hoping you would have a different ending. I was moved by his mothers efforts and commitment to finding her son. Her story touched me and I so wish the conclusion was not what is was found to be. I wish her and Nick's younger brother peace and comfort in finding Nick and knowing he is now in a safe place.
Deepest Condolences in CT.
Louise Cavanaugh
July 2, 2008 at 2:14 AM
Natalie,
I want you to know that we think of Nick and your family often. We met
you in April when we came up to help with the search for Nick and our
prayers and thoughts will always be with you. Nick will never be forgotten.
Louise Cavanaugh
Parent of '08 Middlebury grad
Janet Sanchez
June 30, 2008 at 12:13 AM
Dear Garza and Sierra Families,
Nick's memorial service was beautiful and meaningful. Every word that was spoken, sung, and written, every note that was played, every picture we saw, every quote we read, every candle that was lit was purposeful and perfect . . . just like your precious Nick.
It was an honor to be with you as we continue to mourn and learn how to live in this world filled with Nick's spirit.
Love,
Janet, Andrew, Victor, and Carlena Sanchez
Meg Ovitt
June 29, 2008 at 6:56 AM
Dear Natalie:
We have continued to think of you with prayers every single day. Especially all of today with the memorial service for your beautiful Nicholas. Our prayers and love are sent to you and all your family. Grandmother Lorry's note for Nicholi touched our hearts. We send you our greatest sympathy at this time of devastating sorrow. You are the most wonderful mother who did everything for all of the many many months up at Middlebury. May you know how much we care and may you feel a sense of peace from all who love you and surround you with care.
We are thinking of you and your family always. We are so saddened and so very sorry. We send our sincerest sympathy.
Love, Meg Ovitt.
Queen Bee
June 25, 2008 at 6:55 PM
As I sit here and write this, I have tears streaming down my eyes. Grandmother Lorry you have been able to put into words the very thoughts and feelings I have had since losing my Grandmother 3 years ago. Like your Nicholi, I loved chatting with my Grandmother and crawling into bed with her every chance I had. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't sit and talk to her and bring her to life in my heart and mind. I agree with you that memory truly is the best gift that God has given each of us.
Though I did not have the pleasure of meeting Nicholas, I have been drawn to the story since I first read about it in the last issue of the Middlebury Magazine. My mother and I were there for my reunion the same week Nicholas's body was found. We both found ourselves further drawn in to your family. We visited the site and made a rock offering and lit a candle and just prayed for him and your entire family. I asked my Grandmother to come to his side and be there. So it really hit me to read your words and to discover that he had a very similar relationship with you as I did with her. I know that there are no words that I can say that will take the pain away but know that there are so many people that are grateful (my mother and I included) that Nicholas found a way into our hearts.
It doesn't take much to realize how very special he was..he was a MiddKid after all :) Not to mention the amazing outpour of letters from family and friends alike that all share their great Nick stories. Though I didn't meet him personally, I also don't feel he's a stranger. These little slices of life that each of you has shared has allowed me to put together a sense of who this unique soul was.
The one thing I have come to realize when we lose someone is what we truly miss. It's plain and simple. We miss the person we were when they walked in the room, the way they made us feel alive and carefree and most of all secure and loved. From the sounds of it, Nicholas had the ability to make each of you feel like you were the center of his universe. I am so sorry that someone that special was taken so soon from your family and those who had yet to meet him. However, I know that his spirit will live through his brother and he will continue to come to life each time you speak of him. I do hope that you will keep the stories coming.
For one reason or another, I don't feel we have heard the last of this case. Until then God Bless you all. Sending you smiles and hugs across the miles...
Nancy Terr
June 25, 2008 at 3:55 PM
Natalie, I don't know how to reach you at the moment, before I see you Saturday. If someone else reads this, please let Natalie know that AMMACHI, an amazing Indian saint ( called "divine mother") is in Albuquerque this week at the Mariott Pyramid. She will have a public program Thursday evening 6/46. I mention this because she gives hugs which transmit "dharshan," or spiritual energy. Some people have found incredible relief being consoled by her...she truly is a huge spirit. I thought you might want to come by. If you do, tell them you are "special needs" and go right up. Tell Amma about your family tragedy, and she may help you. Call me if you need more info,Natalie....Nancy Terr
God Bless you....our hearts and prayers are with you.
Misty Yeats
June 24, 2008 at 10:44 AM
I just wanted to send some love your way... I hope you all have found a little peace. Know that my heart, as well as the hearts of many you may never meet are always with you...
Misty Yeats
Amber Mathewson
June 13, 2008 at 6:06 AM
I first heard the news and I was a little confused. I graduated from Academy in 04, so I thought someone had mistakenly told me the info. But after recently hearing the news I've become speechless. While I only knew you by face and my little brother who is currently attending Academy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Academy builds relationships among those who walk its bricks - past, present, and future. Your walk will forever be cherished and remembered.
Amber Mathewson, c/ 04'
Jeanne Mayell
June 13, 2008 at 4:20 AM
To Grandma Lorry
I read your words to your precious Nicholi, Damon’s precious Nicholi, their Dad’s perfect son, Natalie’s most precious son. I am so moved by your strength and faith, but most of all by the great spirit of this boy that flows through you. You all say you were lucky to know him, and I know this must be true. But he too was lucky to have you, his steadfast Aunt T, his devoted little brother, his loving, broken-hearted father, and most of all, his great mother, Natalie. His passing has broken all our hearts. Not a day goes by since Feb that I don’t think of him, and I never met him. So many of the Middlebury parents, faculty, and townspeople I have met feel the same way. Know that the love of the thousands of people who have followed your struggle and unspeakable pain surrounds you and holds you all, and your dear Nicholi.
-- Jeanne Mayell
Cousin Robin
June 12, 2008 at 3:07 AM
We carry your heart with us.
We carry your heart with us(we carry it in
our heart)we are never without it(anywhere
we go you go, my dear;and whatever is done
by us is your doing, my darling)
We fear
no fate(for you are our fate, my sweet)We want
no world(for beautiful you are our world, my true)
and it's you whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
Here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
We carry your heart(we carry it in our heart)
inspired by ee cummings
The first time I heard this poem, I was watching a movie, I instantly thought of Nick. This is how he touched the world. I changed some of the words around to say what we all are feeling.
I am so very sorry for you loss. You are going though what no parent should ever have to.
Please know the world mourns with you.
Michelle Gonzales
June 12, 2008 at 1:45 AM
This hits close to home because I have a son in Albuquerque Academy and I lost my 21-yr old nephew to a drowning in Abiquiu Lake. I wish there was something other than my praying for you and your family that I could do to rewind all of this and change the outcome for you. My heart goes out to you, you are so strong, as it appears to all of us watching you go through this. We could never imagine what it would feel like. I hope you continue to draw strength and perseverance from Our Lord. I don't know you but I'm praying, still that you're comforted.
God Bless YOu..
M.Gonzales
Jana Lee Aspin
June 12, 2008 at 12:48 AM
My sincerest condolences to all of you. As a mom to a young man who will be a junior at the ABQ Academy I can only guess what you’re going through. I attended the gathering for Nick at the school a few months back….seeing many of Nick’s friends and hearing testimony to their hopes and prayers. I know you were all richer for having him in your lives. May the words and prayers of many help you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Jana Lee Aspin
The Partows
June 11, 2008 at 11:33 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and Family,
We are speechless. Nick is in our hearts and minds. Please know that you have our prayers and love.
The Partows
Lara Hughes
June 9, 2008 at 9:22 PM
Dear Garza Family,
All the way from Los Angeles I somehow stumbled upon this and I cannot even begin to fathom what you must be going through. Nicholas seems as if he was was a very remarkable person filled with great potential and it saddens me to see it put on hold. Your son is in my thoughts and prayers, and can only hope he makes a safe return.
With love,
Lara.
Grandma Lorry
June 8, 2008 at 10:24pm
My Dearest Nicholi,
I think of you and miss you each and every day, when I think I can't shed another tear, I find my body can produce an endless supply. I believe God has appointed the hour of our death long before we are born, but never even in nightmares did I think your life would end before mine. I can't understand why you're gone, how the loss of such a life could fit into God's scheme but I trust that he knows how much you are loved and how your death would so profoundly affect those who know you. I know that our lives are not now and never will be better because of your passing, but I also know each life you touched is richer because of your having lived. Each day I choose a few memories of you to think about. I take each memory and examine every detail, turning it like a jewel held in my hands. I close my eyes and remember how you looked, smelled and sounded when that memory was made. I polish every facet assuring that none of the luster will fade with time but will remain sharp, distinct and precious to help strengthen me for the rest of the days God has appointed me. It is only now that I realize one of the most beautiful gifts God gives us is memory, not to wallow in our loss, but to brighten all our days that follow. When I close my eyes, I can feel your arms hug me and know you will sneak your hand up to tussle my hair because you do it every time and when I act like I am surprised and exclaim "oh Nicholi", I hear you laugh and feel you hug me tighter, this memory brings you to life for me this moment this day. Since you've gone Damon tussles my hair when he hugs me, for he too holds that memory of you, and every time he does, it somehow brings you closer to us both. What teenager today sits next to his grandmother and lays his head on her shoulder? How many are willing to share their busy days with grandma? You were, and I know how blessed I was to be part of your life.
During these last four pain filled months countless times Damon in tears would ask "tell me a Nick story" and I would recount how when you were very young, you loved the teenage mutant ninja turtles and believed they lived in my backyard. I tell Dames how you would call me on the phone with the pretense of just wanting to talk to grandma, yet after only a few cursory words that I had to pull out of you like teeth, you would say "grandma, are the turtles around, can I talk to them?" As I changed the sound of my voice and said "hey dude" you became so animated spewing forth words telling me in the guise of Leo or Mikey all about the wonders of your day. Before long both Dames and I are laughing and he says, "tell me another one". Oh Nicholi, how lucky am I to have so many "Nick Stories" to share with him. There always comes a point when Damon will tell me one of his "Nick Stories" one of his favorites is how he would say to you "Nick, did you know my favorite animal is a Liger and I saw one in Massachusetts and it hurted me" he knew nothing would set you off easier than an improper sentence involving an animal you considered a ridiculous cross, the mispronunciation of Massachusetts and the non-word hurted. He is so proud of the fact that he could get a rise out of you each and every time he said that same silly sentence. Now it is one of many treasured memories he has of you and by just thinking about it he can invoke you like magic. We will tell our "Nick Stories" forever, to keep you near, to tell the world how blessed we were to have you and keep a little of the magic of your life in our days.
Your death has taken so much from the lives of our family and your friends. Anticipation is what keeps our eyes looking to the future and fills our days with hope but now our anticipated moments with you no longer dwell in this time and space. I anticipated working with you again this summer, having you and Damon arrive every workday morning filing my day with so much joy and fun, but while I was in Middlebury watching the students pack their belongings to return home, the realization that you will never be coming home to us was so overwhelming. You will not be arriving to work with me this summer or any other summer. I anticipated your graduation from Middlebury, your wedding day, your first child. I anticipated all the possibilities of your life, there were so many. Now of course those events will never be and the reality is too painful to express. I believe I will one day be reunited with you but the anticipation of that also brings me pain knowing that it will mean separation from those I love who are still here. I am thankful that I praised God everyday for allowing you to be part of my life, I am thankful that I remembered to thank him for each day of your nineteen years. I am thankful that he has allowed me to remember you and to be secure in the knowledge that you too love me as I love you. Even my grief at losing you is easier to bear because of those who share in that grief. I now anticipate thanking God each night for the spirit that was my Nicholi. I will anticipate with great joy, the life events of Damon, and Dalton. I know that not everyone who loses someone they love have others to love, others who help to hold your life together. I am blessed that I do have others, and I will too love them as I have always loved you, with all my heart for all my days unto eternity.
My most fervent prayer is that your spirit is able to stay close to your Mom to help her remain strong and cope with all the mornings she wakes without your light. She has Damon and knows his great worth, but no one will ever replace you. Since the day you were born, you have been the sun that lights her days and the moon that protects her nights and you will always be so so missed. Oh Nicholi I know this is true, no child ever born was loved more than you.
Grandma Lorry
Catie Shawley
June 7, 2008 at 12:14 AM
To the family of Nicholas-
I'm so very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how hard this is for you. All of you and Nicholas have been in my thoughts and prayers often and I'm sorry you had to experience such a tragedy. I never knew Nicholas well but from my brief time with him at the same debate camp I know he made many people laugh and touched many lives. When my partner and I debated him and the Glenbrooks tournament I was amazed with his understanding of philosophy and appreciated his passion for the activity. You raised a wonderful son and he will never be forgotten.
The Rodriguez Family
June 6, 2008 at 11:20 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family ever since we first heard of your tragedy. As a mom of a 17 year old son at Eldorado High School, my heart ached for you. As a mother, I hoped and prayed that your beautiful son Nick would be found safe somewhere. We kept on hoping until today. Now I pray that you can get through this. Please know that all of the community here at Eldorado High School is thinking of you and if we could be there to hold your hand, we most certainly would. Your son Nick looked like a wonderful young man and I’m sure that God has welcomed him with open arms. Please know that even though we are strangers and have never met, I feel so much sadness for you and your family but also hope that you are blessed by all who are with you to help you get through this. Nick does not walk alone. He is with God. All our best wishes to you, Natalie and may God bless you too. Stay Strong.
Sincerely,
The Rodriguez Family
Laurie Moodie
June 6, 2008 at 9:17 AM
You know where he is now. Heaven is so far away yet still so near to your hearts. He watches, guards, smiles, encourages, assures, revels as you make your way back to a life this side of him. Keep yourself well.
Laurie Moodie
Rose and Gene Sweet
June 6, 2008 at 5:00 PM
Dear Garza family:
I read your e-mail to my daughter & her husband, Jan & Steve Jenkins. I am in deep sorrow and pain for your loss. There are no words that can help anyone else feel the pain you feel when something this horrible happens to your child. Christopher was our dear dear grandson. We were very close to 'Chris and in fact he spent the weekend here with his entire LaCrosse team four days before he went missing. I never thought anything could hurt so much. We adored that boy and he was worthy of our love. Always came out or called to see how grammie and grandpa were. Brought his girlfriends and other friends out for a visit or dinner. It is so long later and I still feel the initial shock and pain. The only thing that has held me together is my faith. I trust in the Lord that my Chris is with him in heaven and that one day we will see him again. His perpetrators have to live an ugly life here on earth as they continue to rot in their evilness. I pity them when they meet their Lord.It will not be pretty. The same of course is so true of your son's perpetrators.
Stay strong and follow Steve's suggestions. I truly do not know how Jan & Steve remained so strong for so long when the law enforcement agencies all tried to cover everything up and continued to shut the door in their face everytime they brought something important to their attention. I called them the bravest lions in Oz. Our deepest love and prayers come to all of you.
Rose and Gene Sweet ( Christophers grandparents)
Robert Perry
June 5, 2008 at 9:39 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and Garza Family:
We are so sorry for your loss and pain. So many people we know knew Nick and have said such great things about him. We have been praying for your family since we learned of his disappearance and our son Alex is very worried about his hockey buddy Damon. Your efforts to find Nick were admired. We know it is painful and we continue to hope and pray for all of you. I know all the children and parents on NMICE-Quirt hockey team love Damon, Nick, and you and hope they can help in some small way. Rest with Peace Nick.
Rob,Kerry, Tatiana, Alex Perry
Albuquerque
Mark Broome
June 5, 2008 at 7:31 PM
Nothing OF this life CAN prepare us for such a loss. But, the Lord Jesus Christ, author an giver of life, has provided a way in this life time for us to be reunited with our love ones that has gone on (Malachi 4:5-6). May God be your guide and comforter in this time and always.
Esther
New York
Sue, Steve, Jackie and Steven Casaceli
June 3, 2008 at 10:10 PM
We would give anything to have had this turn out differently - to have found Nick safe somewhere and to have him back home with all of you. We don't know what to say, what to do, to help. Please know that we are praying for you. You are all on our minds and in our hearts. It's incomprehensible that this has happened to such a bright, loving kid. The world keeps turning, life goes on, yet we will never be the same....
Sue, Steve, Jackie and Steven Casaceli
Jenna Pickett and Family
June 3, 2008 at 7:13 PM
As a member of the current Academy community I cannot help but remember Nick. I never talked to him personally but I remember his smile, and his bush of black hair. Distinctly I remember him singing in the chorus at academy at the beginning of the year each year and at the various assemblies throughout. Nick was no doubt an amazing person and he will continue to live in our hearts.
Deepest sympathies
And god bless you Nick
Jenna Pickett
Albuquerque Academy class of '09
The Owen Family
June 3, 2008 at 3:44 AM
To Nick's dear family,
Our daughter is a sophomore at Middlebury and she called distraught the minute she heard Nick was missing. We prayed for him daily all spring. To hear that he was found is comforting but still devasting. My husband and I spent four years at Middlebury in the 70s and it is hard to think of that campus and little town as a place where bad things can happen. We lost a son as a baby but cannot imagine after 19 years. We are so very sorry for your loss.
We went to dinner with another Middlebury family last week when the girls came home. I was interested that the other mom had been tracking the news of Nick as closely as I had been. We all love our kids and can't imagine life without them.
We believe Nick is in heaven and is greatly rejoiced over by the angels. If you haven't read it this spring, go get The Shack...gave my copy away..can't remember the author. Maybe William Young? It is a story of a man who is angry at God for the untimely death of his young daughter. Hope you find it a comfort.
May God Bless you and keep you all in the comfort of his everlasting arms as you walk through these dark days.
The Owen Family
Karen Wood
June 3, 2008 at 3:15 AM
You finally have your child, and the bitter relief of knowing where he is. So, so saddened to learn that he is no longer living to be with you. It's wrenching. You did all you could, and you were so wise that you allowed him to be himself so he trusted innately to live his life fully and he didn't waste a moment. Bless you for that, KW
Let evening come....
Jennifer Sicard
June 2, 2008 at 9:27 PM
Dear Garza Family,
My son and I have followed Nick's story from the time of his disappearance. We were disheartened to have it come to such a sad ending. We are terribly sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer and Alex Sicard
Swanton, VT
Barbara D Cuoco
June 2, 2008 at 5:00 PM
Dearest Natalie,
Our most heart felt sympathy is with you and your family at this very difficult time. I remember Nick as a little boy when we all lived on Rancho Grande. He was as bright as he was adorable. He obviously grew up to be a wonderful, intelligent young man. You should be proud. As the mother of a 19 year daughter that also went out of state to college this year, I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Each time I think of you my heart aches and I shed another tear. Please know that our family continues to pray for you and your family.
Barbara, Gregg, Laura & Megan Cuoco
Herman Manzanares III
June 2, 2008 at 1:09 AM
To the Garza family,
I played against Nic in High School hockey and he was a great hockey player that will truly be missed. My love and support go out to all of you
LAHS Ice Hockey 01-05
UNM Lobo Hockey 07- Present
Jeanne Mayell
Jun 1, 2008 at 11:35 PM
Why should a dog, a horse, a rat, have life, And thou no breath at all? --King Lear
Dear dear Natalie, Tanya, and Damon,
I know your hearts are broken beyond understanding and I wish I could send a thousand angels to hold you. I know though that there is one angel holding you every moment. He has a shock of thick black hair and huge startlingly beautiful brown eyes. –
Jeanne Mayell
Asma Naser
June 1, 2008 at 11:02 PM
Hi, My name is Asma Naser. I am a rising junior in Middlebury College. I also work in the Middlebury College Library.
I don’t know Nick personally, but one day he came to circulation desk to check out some books. I swiped his access card and told him, Ohhh your card is not working. I was just joking, he got confused and asked “Ohh what am I going to do now?” I said you have to pay $50. He was like, “ooh I don’t have it with me now. Can I bring it tomorrow?”. I told him then that I was just joking, he smiled and unlike some other kids, didn’t get angry at my joke. He looked so innocent and cute, that this image of him will always be in my mind whenever I will think of him. Rest In Peace Nick.
We are going to terribly miss you.
AN
Kevin King
Jun 1, 2008 at 9:01 PM
Dear Natalie and the Garza Family,
Words can not express how deeply saddened I was to hear about Nick. I have prayed everyday that he would be found safe. I can't imagine how you must feel. I would like to share something with you that helped me deal with the loss of my Dad. He passed away suddenly and unexpectantly this passed October.
A soldier by the name of Steven Cummins wrote a letter to his parents which was to be delivered to them in the event of his death. Enclosed in the letter was this poem.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.
Nick will always be with you as is my Dad. God bless the Garza Family. Please know that Nick was loved and will be deeply missed by many.
With much love,
The King Family
Jan, Kevin, Nick, Chris, Cory
Charlotte and Jeff Casey
June 1, 2008 at 9:46 AM
We can only echo all the sentiments of sorrow posted here for your family.
Although far away, we had been following the progress of the search for your handsome Nick and were always so amazed by the strength of a mother’s love that radiated and drove each article.
May God’s grace and the love of all those who care so deeply raise you up and guide you through this heartbreak.
Charlotte and Jeff Casey (AA Alum ’95)
Kauai, Hawaii
Kelley Moodie
June 1, 2008 at 5:12 AM
The incredibly profound impact Nick had on everyone who knew him is truly unique and will last forever. The legacy he was able to leave after just 19 years is incredible. Nick was truly an extraordinary person and will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace, Nick, and thank you for coming into my life.
Kelley
The Wilmarth-Aigner Family
June 1, 2008 at 12:21 AM
Dear Garza family,
We cannot imagine your pain and share in your sadness. I want you to know that the towns-people of Addison County cared about your child and his well-being. We appreciate the young man you sent to us to educate and regret that you experienced this loss. We hope you can find peace someday.
With much love,
The Wilmarth-Aigner Family
Middlebury Educators
Sandra Schuman
May 31, 2008 at 4:04 PM
I am So Sorry For your Loss I know the felling I Loosed me Sister the some way
and I Know that Feeling that you are going throw...
Sandra Schuman
Chet & Laurie St.Cyr and Family
May 31, 2008 at 8:52 AM
Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. May your broken hearts heal, as your beloved angel Nicholas watches over you. Take comfort that he will be with you, always.
Our love & sympathy to all the Garza family & friends.
Chet & Laurie St.Cyr and Family
Vergennes, VT
Rachel Sussillo
May 31, 2008 at 6:06 AM
Nick's untimely departure is an incomprehensible injustice.
Rachel Sussillo
Linda Grynkewich
May 31, 2008 at 5:44 AM
Dear Natalie,
There is so much that I wish I could say to comfort you as you reflect upon the loss of your beautiful Nicholas...yet I know in my heart that there is nothing on earth that could bring you any relief right now. There have been times in my life when I felt the grief was insurmountable, that no words could suffice.
Such grief is in the scriptures alluding to the heartache that Mary experienced over her beautiful son. As a mother, I cannot even imagine the tugs on your heartstrings tonight, Natalie.
I can only hope to say to you that we are trying to understand...
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone
By W. H. Auden
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
My prayer is that God hold you, Damon and your family very, very close, Natalie...and that you somehow experience peace once again.
With All Our Love,
Linda Grynkewich and Children (Middlebury 07, 8.5, and 11.5)
Macon, Georgia
Ross Laffan
May 31, 2008 at 4:37 AM
Natalie Garza and family:
I am so very sorry for the nightmare you have had to endure. Sending
healing thoughts your way.
Ross Laffan
Rochester, Vermont
Rosanne Everson
May 31, 2008 at 4:18 AM
From the very beginning of this horrific ordeal, I have watched you Natalie, a Mother who never gave up, who fought the fight with strength, dignity and class. I am a mother of a Middlebury student and I honor you. Go home now and treasure the memories of your sweet boy. Know that you did everything in your power to find him. God bless you.
Rosanne Everson
Sandee and Alex
May 31, 2008 at 3:41 AM
Natalie, Damon and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you begin your healing journey following your loss of Nicholas.
I would like to share a story with you that I think you will enjoy.
I took my son Alex to Virginia on the train back in October, 2007.
We took the train from Essex, VT to VA and back. The trip to VA went by rather quickly however,
the trip home was a bit longer and Alex grew bored with his music, movies and book. He started taking frequent walks to the food car, far more than I liked. Thanks for frequent stops Alex would come to his seat and wait until the train started to move again.
In New York a young man got on the train and took a seat in front of us.
The first 30 minutes this young man slept after that he woke up and began chatting with my son and another guy on the train. They spoke about computers then this young man asked my son if he played any sports. This started a conversation I will never forget. My son said "Hockey, I like hockey but I'm not playing this year."
The young mans reply..." I play hockey too but, not this year. He said "I plan on watching a lot of college hockey this season and maybe next year I will try out for the team."
He told us that he was from New Mexico and he was attending Middlebury College this year as a freshman.
This amazing young man was your son Nicholas. Nicholas was my savior that sunny day in October.
Nicholas entertained Alex with fun and witty conversation the rest of the ride home.
Alex moved to the seat across from Nicholas and they chatted.
Nicholas spoke of many things he mentioned his family with a bright smile and pride.
He was with us only a short amount of time but he made an imprint on our hearts and we will NEVER forget him.
I hope this helps you to see how many lives your wonderful son Nicholas has touched.
Nicholas will be forever in our hearts.
love and prayers
Sandee and Alex
Essex, Vermont
Mary Gannon
May 31, 2008 at 2:54 AM
Natalie:
Please know that there is a batallion of mothers back here in New Mexico who are ready and willing to assist with anything you and your family needs. Many of us have been touched by your family's strength and grace and we are here to help.
Nick became a fine young gentleman because of you and the family that surrounded him. There is no doubt he did much good in the world while he could, and that somehow he will continue to do so. You have our contact information, so please just let us know and we'll come running.
Mary Gannon
Tim Otoole
May 31, 2008 at 2:29 AM
Dear Natalie, i want to thank you for sharing the story about nick and the purple golf bag last night when we talked. Although i never met nick i know he was a truly amazing young man. Natalie your courage over the last few months is remarkable, you and nick will always be in my thoughts and prayers. sincerly yours
Tim Otoole
Emily Murphy
May 31, 2008 at 12:38 AM
To the friends and family of Nick,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine what these last few months have been like for you all; I can only hope that you find some comfort knowing that you and Nick are in the thoughts and prayers of many of us.
Emily Murphy
Middlebury '07.5
Debby Lopez
May 30, 2008 at 11:18 PM
Natalie, I am soo sorry for the outcome of this unbelievable tragedy!! I am grateful to have been able to know Nick! I have come across videos of Nicholas from hockey and they make me smile through tears at what a great boy he was(IS)! Kinda funny this one video of David trying to interview him when he was about Damon's age and he was very politely blowing David off, cause he was more mature than David at that age!!! I always knew how great you were and was jealous of you as a mother. Nick is the product of you, even though our children are who they are in life, you played a GREAT roll in who Nick was as a man!!! I remember a time in your kitchen when Natalie was just being Natalie and Nick just told it to you how it was!!! Not in a cocky way, but in a I love you so much Mom way! I went home that night and thought wow, what a great kid and I hope my Lukas loves and respects me that way! It shows in how much strength you have shown through out this whole thing!!!! Natalie is colorful Natalie! You take care of everything in life to the fullest in your colorful Natalie way! Your strength and commitment, when most of us would crumble is unbelievable! I have always wanted to be more like you. I have soo many memories of Nicholas and the Garza family. I just wanted to say Thank you. I am so sad and sorry for you! Give Damon a hug and kiss. He is lucky to have you and Nick(he will always be a part of him)!!! Stupid how people say things that should be said when bad things happen! You already knew all the great things about Nick! Ok I'm babbling! There are NO words!
Love and Prayers,
Debby Lopez
Rosie Nelson
May 30, 2008 at 10:36 PM
Natalie- I am thinking about you and wanting to let you know that you are strong. You strength for the past couple months have been amazing. I have never expereinced a very closed loved ones death but I know that the feeling has to be hard. Please know that lots and lots of people are thinking of you with lots of love.
RN~~
Tanya Sierra
May 30, 2008 at 9:46 PM
i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)
-- ee cummings
My sweet Nick, you have marked me. And I am forever a better person for the 19 years that you shared your life with me...
Your ever-loving
always-admiring,
--aunt t.
Karen Rohde
May 30, 2008 at 7:39 PM
Natalie, Damon, and all your family,
Our hearts are filled with sorrow. In your unimaginable grief, know that we love and support you with all within us.
Karen Rohde
Ethan Innis
May 30, 2008 at 6:11 PM
Damon,
I have some things to tell you that I think Nick would want for you to hear. I know you love your brother. I do too. He was my team mate and my friend.
I spent many years on the ice in the net with Nick fiercely defending me against those whose job it was to wipe out the goalie. He spent a lot of time in the penalty box, and a good part of it was probably on my behalf.
We were Champions. Yeah, we won a lot of games, in fact, beat everyone in the state. Our banner is still hanging. The funny thing is that a lot of people couldn ’t figure out why we were Champions. We had too many nice guys on the team. But what they didn’t understand was that we won because we were a family. We loved, and most importantly, respected each other.
Everyone knew us as The Outkast, but we were proud of it. I made some choices last year, and the only choice I regret was not playing for my family. I can ’t bring those times back, but what I can do is remember what I learned from them. When you have love and respect for your team mates, even losing a game is winning in the end.
Take care of yourself – and keep playing the best sport ever,
Ethan Innis
Goalie – The Outkast
Gloria Oñate
May 30, 2008 at 4:24 PM
I'm so so sorry to hear about the loss of Nicholas.
My deepest sympathies to all of you.
Sincerely,
Gloria Oñate
Madrid, Spain
Gwen
May 30, 2008 at 4:23 PM
Five years ago I lost my 27 year old son in an automobile accident. The pain of losing a child is a unique pain and my heart aches for you and your family.
Gwen in Kansas
Maggie
May 30, 2008 at 2:42 PM
Dearest Natalie,
I live across the lake in NY. I have watched and prayed everyday hoping that you and Nick could go home together to New Mexico. The outcome was not what anyone wanted, but please know that you and Nick will one day be reunited. I am sure Nick will never be far and he will now watch over you as you have watched over him. Your dedication and strength for Nick was a sign of the incredible bond that you two share. I will continue to pray for you and your beautiful family. Natalie you have been an inspiration for many. I hope your journey does not end here. You have shown the world that you are capable of great things. Please continue with your strength and leadership. I am positive Nick would have been as proud of you as you are of him.
May God Bless the Garza Family-
Maggie
Jennifer Blanchard
May 30, 2008 at 12:42 PM
To the Garza Family
I'm very sorry for your loss. I am a Vermonter living in Virginia and watch
the news online daily. I have been following your son's story since the
beginning and hoping against hope that somehow he would be found alive. I'm
sorry that that isn't the case. You do have a beautiful son and although his
body is no longer alive it does seem that his spirit will live on. He has
touched many people's hearts even though we might not have personally known
him. Please take care.
Jennifer Blanchard
Devyn Young
May 30, 2008 at 6:37 AM
Dear Ms. Garza,
I have been following the search for your son since the beginning. I am a recent alum of Middlebury, and was greatly struck by the disappearance and recent recovery of your son. I have no doubt from all of the others who have known him and spoken of him that Nick was an amazing young man. I can't even begin to understand what you must be feeling at this time. Please know that you are in my thoughts and my heart as you try to get through this difficult time.
Devyn Young
Class of '07
Bob & Margie Garza
May 30, 2008 at 6:36 AM
We are truly sorry for the pain and loss you are going through now. There
are no words that we can say to comfort you and we wish we could give you a
hug and cry with you. Just want you to know that the whole family across the
country have been and still are praying for you all. Please let us know if
there is anything we can do.
Love You All,
Bob & Margie Garza
Catherine Blumstein
May 30, 2008 at 5:03 AM
Dear Natalie and Family, I wrote early on in March and have followed every day through your website. My daughter was Nick's friend and lived in his dorm. My elementary school (I am the principal of a k-8 catholic school) has prayed each day for Nick at 8:15 during morning prayers. 240 students strong. We- as you hoped for- a different outcome and prayed that Nick would come home. He has come home in a way we had hoped not to be. Please understand that Nick and your family are in our hearts and minds always. His friends, including my daughter, will miss him, but will never forget him. He will always live in our hearts. We pray for your heart to heal. Thank you for the gift of Nicholas.
C
Victor, Natalie and Aidan Martinez
May 30, 2008 at 3:47 AM
Dear Garza Family,
Our hearts are deeply saddened to lose a member of the Albuquerque hockey family. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Victor, Natalie and Aidan Martinez
Melissa, Chris and Sean Jarvis
May 30, 2008 at 3:10 AM
Natalie, Damon and Garza family,
It was with great sadness and a sense of relief however, that we read the story that Nick had been found. Every time I think of your pain, it makes me cry. I can't imagine what you and Damon and his father are going through, but want you to know that everyone is grieving with you and I hope that in time, the pain will lessen and you will be able to move on and have a wonderful life with Nick's "mini me", Damon. No one can fathom the pain of losing a child, and having to explain it to your 10 year old, especially with the unknown of what happened that you are still dealing with. Everyone in the hockey community here in Albuquerque is thinking of you and sending our condolences. Please let us know if we can do anything when you return home.
Best wishes,
Melissa, Chris and Sean Jarvis
Chuck LaClair
May 30, 2008 at 2:20 AM
Dear Garza family,
The outpouring of love and support coming in from all corners of the world on your online guestbook goes to show the Impact that Nick has had on ALL of us.
Please know that there are so many people out there who care about you and have you in our thoughts.
Nick will always be in our hearts.
Sincerely,
Chuck LaClair
Ocala, Florida
Barbara Lopez and family
May 30, 2008 at 2:15 AM
Dear Natalie & Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been following the situation on the website hoping for a positive resolution since the Albuquerque Academy first sent out a note to the community. Natalie, your strength the past months has been an inspiration to all. You are a wonderful person and mother. May you continue to have strength as you move forward. My deepest sympathies for the loss of your beautiful son. Love from Albuquerque,
Barbara Lopez and family
Erin Suknot
May 30, 2008 at 2:10 AM
I can't even begin to imagine how you feel, but hopefully having some closure will bring you at least the slightest bit of comfort. I just want you to know that Nick will always be remembered, because his personality is impossible to forget. My prayers are with you and your family and everyone who is grieving from the loss of Garza.
Erin Suknot, AA 2007
Roxanne and Billy
May 30, 2008 at 2:07 AM
Dear Natalie and the Garza family,
We have been following the story about Nick since the beginning, we were hoping and praying for you days and nights in the safe return or at least finding him so you and your family would have closure. You are such a strong and amazing mother who never gave up on him. We are so sorry for your loss. I have 3 children of my own and I can't begin to imagine what you are feeling, just know and I am probably speaking for many here in Vermont that you are in our thought and prayers and may god be with you in your time of sorrow.
Roxanne and Billy
Bristol, VT
May 30, 2008 at 1:21 AM
To the family of Nick Garza, i dont know you personally but i do know a family member, he has been keeping me up to date with the statice since your sons disapearance, I am so sadden at the out come. My heart goes out to you and your family, May the Lord bring you peace and may Nick forever be in your hearts.
Robyn Hanae Yamakawa
May 30, 2008 at 1:15 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I'm so unbelievably sorry for your loss. Please know that you will always have the support of the Middlebury community....even those of us who are abroad. Our prayers are with you.
Mary Yazzie
May 30, 2008 at 1:09 AM
Dear Natalie, You have been in my thoughts and prayers since February. I also have two sons who are fine young men, and I know it is difficult to see them grow up and move away, but I cannot find words to know what you are going through right now. You are an extraordinary mother, as I’m sure Nicholas was extraordinary also. Because he chose to live a full life and move far from home, his life has now continued in another place far more beautiful than ours. Continue to be a strong person, I’m sure Nicholas would have wanted you to.
Peace be with you,
Mary Yazzie
Albuquerque, NM
Cynthia Ranks
May 29, 2008 at 11:28 PM
To Nicks family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I unfortunately am one of those mothers who know what it is like to losea child. Don't let people tell you how long ,or how to grieve. JUst know that you sweet son is now with God and at peace.Here is a poem that helped me a little when MY son passed. It by Edgar Guest ..A letter to all parents from god.
"I'LL Lend you for a little time a child of mine,"He said.
"for you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,
"It may be six or seven years or twenty-two or three,
"But will you ,till I call him back,take care of him for me?
"He'll bring his charms to gladden you ,but should his stay be brief
"You'll have his lovely memories ,as solace for your grief
"I cannot promise he will stay,since all from earth return,
"But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn
"I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true.,
"And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have selected you.
"Now will you give him all your love,Nor think the labor vain,
"Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?
I fancied that I hear them say :"Dear Lord ,Thy will be done!
"For all the joy Thy child shall bring,the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness; we'll love him while we may,
And for happiness we've known for ever grateful stay.
"But should the angels call for him much sooner than we planned,
"We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."
Dana B
May 29, 2008 at 11:20 PM
I am so sorry to hear about Nicholas but like many, relieved that he was found. As a mom I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dana B
Albuquerque, NM
Rod Michael
May 29, 2008 at 10:51 PM
Natalie, I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family during this difficult time.
Sincerely, Rod Michael
Amanda Burroughs
May 29, 2008 at 10:42 PM
Nick you are always a charger and will remain in our hearts and our thoughts. All though i never met you your loss is so powerful in the community that it is impossible not to feel. I'm so sorry for your loss Mrs. Garza. the entire school will never forget your son.
Amanda Burroughs
Class of 2010
Melissa Balder
May 29, 2008 at 10:32 PM
Dear Natalie,
I don't know if you remember me or not...we worked together at Sunwest Bank in Rio Rancho many years ago. I just wanted to let you know that I am very sorry for your loss and the horrible ordeal you and your family have been through. I remember meeting Nicholas when he was just a little boy and I just couldn't get over how terribly cute he was and how much of a little "adult" he seemed to be at such a young age (he was probably only 4 or 5 when we worked together). In the news stories that I have read about him since his disappearance it doesn't surprise me to see what a wonderful young man he grew up to be. You must be so proud of him. Keep those happy memories.
You have all of my sympathy. If you need anything at all, please do not hesitate to call me. My phone number is xxx-xxxxx.
Take Care and May God Bless,
Melissa Balder
Phyllis Hunter
May 29, 2008 at 9:49 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and family,
We send our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your entire family. We were not with you physically, as you searched for Nick, but we were with you in spirit. We have been saying prayers and staying involved with the search from the very beginning. Our hearts ache for everyone who loves Nick. We all may have to always wonder why or how this could have happened. Hopefully soon your family can celebrate Nick’s life. If ever you need anything we are here for you and your family.
Ron & Phyllis Hunter
Allison Coyne Carroll
May 29, 2008 at 9:34 PM
Dear Natalie,
Although I work at Middlebury, I did not have the honor of meeting your extraordinary son. As a mother, I cannot even imagine the terrible grief you must feel at this time. I have been thinking of you and your family, and reminded of lyrics from a song by Vermont's own Weston Priory:
"All I ask of you is forever to remember me as loving you.
Deep the joy of being together in one heart
and for me that's just where it is.
All I ask of you is forever to remember me as loving you."
Nick will always be remembered for the generous love he shared with you and others.
Peace to you. Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Allison Coyne Carroll
Middlebury College
Michael Landers
May 29, 2008 at 9:32 PM
Our hearts go out to you, and we pray for comfort for your family.
Mike, Julie, Hope and Hannah Landers
Richardson, TX
Lee and Tom Juvan
May 29, 2008 at 8:41 PM
To the family of Nick Garza,
Like many other Vermonters, we have been thinking of Nick and praying for his safe return for many weeks now. We are so terribly sorry for the loss of your beautiful son and brother.
Sincerely,
Lee and Tom Juvan
Burlington, Vermont
Rebecca Perez
May 29, 2008 at 8:32 PM
I wanted you to know that I received the missing person flyer in Houston, Texas via the Laura Recovery Center. My heart truly goes out to you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Rebecca
Pamela Howard
May 29, 2008 at 8:23 PM
Dear Natalie,
I live here in Middlebury and I wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about nick's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am glad that the searchers found him. My love goes out to your family. Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you.
Regina Gonzales
May 29, 2008 at 7:34 PM
Condolences to Garza Family
Andrea Peakovic
May 29, 2008 at 7:27 PM
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of Nick. I too have been through the disappearance and subsequent death of a close family member. My heart goes out to you through this very difficult time. My you find peace and resolution.
Andrea Peakovic
Carla Thomas
May 29, 2008 at 6:15 PM
My heart has tears for your FAMILY. May you have the strength to make it through this saddest time in your life. My prayers go out to you.
Carla Thomas
Forney, TX
Marina Coneeny
May 29, 2008 at 5:57 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon and family and friends of Nicholas,
Our family has been praying and hoping with you for a different outcome, and we are so saddened to learn of your loss. I heard from our daughter, '10 that Nicholas was friendly and liked by all, and enjoyed Middlebury very much. Though he was not there long, he will be remembered by all who met him fondly.
We know that everyone in the close knit Middlebury family and all parents and siblings share your grief and your loss. I am committed as the mother of 2 teenagers to follow this story and participate in any remedial action if we could help in the future prevent such a tragedy from happening again.
Your determination, grace and strength in the past months is an inspiration to all. May peace and healing start for you in finding Nicholas, and may wonderful memories of him keep him close in your heart.
You have our deepest sympathy and respect.
Marina C.
Tom Scanlon
May 29, 2008 at 5:57 PM
I extend my heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the Garza Family. I have been relatively close to the events surrounding the disappearance of Nick and the subsequent search(s) and recovery in that I was assisting the Middlebury Police Department in a very limited capacity. Having formerly been involved in law enforcement for over three decades, I have, more often than I would have liked, had to deal in various ways with families who have lost a loved one. As both a parent and grandparent I can not fathom the hurt and grief families must go through, and what Nick’s family is going through at this time. I pray that the hurt will subside and all can look back at the wonderful times that were had with a son, grandson, brother, and friend named Nick. May we all say a special prayer for him and his family……………….Tom Scanlon, Middlebury Vermont……………
Kendra Wilson
May 29, 2008 at 5:47 PM
In this dark and confusing time, May the love of the heaven, and earth comfort you and I pray that you find peace with the lost of the beloved Nick. May his soul rest in eternal peace. Just know, justice will prevail and Nick will NEVER be forgotten!
Kendra Wilson
Connie Walker
May 29, 2008 at 5:43 PM
Dear Natalie,
I have no words to express our families condolences
for the loss of Nick. We have a daughter who will be
attending Middlebury this fall and can't help
thinking it could easily be our family. Please know
there is a family in California who will continue to
pray for you at length. As you are grieving, we pray
that you will soon find peace.
May God bless & keep you,
Alejandra Jackson
May 29, 2008 at 4:59 PM
In Memorium
You've been found,
Your life's been taken.
You shall be remembered.
It feels like yesterday
I saw you graduate.
You shall be remembered.
The last time I saw you,
You were ever so happy.
You shall be remembered.
I now wear this ribbon
In memorium of your life,
Your spirit shall never die.
Edel
May 29, 2008 at 4:59 PM
Hi ,
im so sorry for your loss .
Edel from Ireland
Jenn
May 29, 2008 at 4:54 PM
So sorry. How many mothers in Middlebury thought about you, for so many
days, so many times of day.... And now we think of you and your family
with this strange mixture of relief and grief. So so so sorry.--Jenn in
Middlebury
Melissa Williams
May 29, 2008 at 4:26 PM
To the Garza Family,
May God comfort you in your hour of need. As a mother of three, I cannot
begin to imagine the pain that you all must be going through. My sincerest
sympathies to all of you on the loss of your beautiful son.
Missy - Sudbury, VT
Steven Jenkins
May 29, 2008 at 4:19 PM
Natalie, unfortunately after 5.5 years of fighting for the truth, the Chris Jenkins family do comprehend the horrific position you and your family have been through. I can only say that you are an amazingly strong person to relocate to Vermont, to get out of bed everyday and fight as you have for Nick. Don’t give up now; keep the media as your new best friends. Push law enforcement for complete and fair investigations. Challenge everything the Medical Examiner tells you. Get second opinions if necessary.
Over the last 10 years, so many of families have been robbed of their son’s presence; dozens of boys were robbed of life, or even dignity surrounding their death.
Nick would want you to create a life worth living after getting through this. You will never forget the love you have for Nick and he knows that, too!
Our deep felt thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve and Jan Jenkins
Darcy S. DuVal
May 29, 2008 at 3:52 PM
As an Albuquerque Academy Alum I will always feel a deep connection to all Academy students and families. I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Your family is in my heart and in my thoughts.
Darcy S. DuVal , '87
Scott Joyce
May 29, 2008 at 3:56 PM
I have been following this heartbreaking event since the beginning.
~I offer my deepest condolences to Nick’s family, and all who knew him.
Sincerely,
Scott Joyce
Boston, MA
Lynda Innis
May 29, 2008 at 3:53 PM
Natalie,
All my words just seem to get in the way of what I am feeling. I keep thinking about something that happened so long ago. Ethan was 5 yrs old and was hit by a car in front of our house. I remember looking at my beloved father-in-law hopelessly and asking him how we could go through life if we lost our beautiful son. He looked me straight in the eyes and said firmly, “I know how. I would be grateful that I had the opportunity to know such a tremendous boy and I would consider every day I had with him the greatest gift of all.” Those words have stayed with me for 13 years and they brought me comfort in a time of need. I hope they do the same for you.
We will always continue to hold Nick close to our hearts and be grateful that we had the opportunity to know this tremendous young man.
The Innis’
Jim, Lynda, Ethan, and Samantha
Mary Tucker
May 29, 2008 at 3:47 PM
Love from London
Dearest Natalie and family,
I wrote to you once before but feel compelled to write again and
extend my deepest sympathies for your heart-wrenching loss. I am a
Middlebury college student from the class of 2001 living in London.
From the first news of Nick's disappearance, I have followed his case
very closely, checking in daily and reading everything I could get my
hands on. I'm not exactly sure why -- but I have felt an immense pull
towards Middlebury and Nick's story during this time. I think it
stands as a testament to who Nick was that his strength of character
and magnetic personality could make such a strong impression on so
many people around the world, even those who didn't have the pleasure
of knowing him personally. Middlebury is a large global family, and we
have lost an important family member under the most tragic of
circumstances.
Your strength as a mother and your fierce determination to fight for
Nick have left me so inspired and humbled. That Nick could lose his
life in a idyllic town and a loving community like Middlebury is
unacceptable to me, and I know you will continue the fight to find
real answers for which we are all waiting, no matter how long it
takes. We are all standing with you.
With love,
Mary Tucker
Teresa Bradley
May 29, 2008 at 3:35 PM
Natalie and Family
It is hard to find the words to express how one feels at a time like this.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at the tragic time.
The Bradley Family
Jamison N. Cerra
May 29, 2008 at 3:34 PM
Dear Natalie,
My husband and I have followed Nick's story and were sad but relieved for you when we heard the news that you had finally found him. My father wrote this poem many years ago when my brother passed away and I wanted to share it with you and I hope in some small way, this may help you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Cerra Family (Brownsville, VT)
My Son, My Son
Please hear my prayer
For it is with you I wish to share
I pray that I could hold you near
To whisper I love you in your ear
I miss your touch and smile of cheer
For you were one so young and dear
My heart is broke, but it will mend
For I will see you in the end
I pray so much to understand
Why God called you to the Promise Land
I know in my heart, you'll serve him well
For you are so smart, even though so frail
I pray each night as I lay to sleep
For the Lord my Soul to keep
I know one day that he will call
That's when, I'll see you after all
Remember Son, I love you dear
And one day soon, we will be near
Constantino García Palacios
May 29, 2008 at 3:32 PM
My sincerest condolences to Natalie Garza, the entire Garza family and Nick's friends. Along with Nick, you are all in my heart and prayers.
Lynn Warner ' 78
Gijón, Spain
Erin Campos & Family
May 29, 2008 at 3:24 PM
My heart goes out to your whole family and loved ones. I have 2 children around Nick's age, one of them in college and I can't even fathom your immense loss. Please take care and find strength in those who love you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Erin Campos & Family
Susan Brown & family
May 29, 2008 at 3:21 PM
My family and I extend our heart-felt sympathies to Natalie, Nick’s family and friends. As a mother, I can’t begin to imagine your grief and loss. You all have our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.
Susan Brown & family
Middlebury residents
Paul Murphy
May 29, 2008 at 2:53 PM
Mrs. Garza, Damon & family:
Please accept our deep condolences for Nick’s passing.
The Quaker poet and New Englander, John Greenleaf Whittier, wrote:
“But beauty seen is never lost,
God’s colors all are fast;
The glory of this sunset heaven
Into my soul has passed . . .”
Once beauty is recognized it can’t be undone. Nick’s spirit, and yours, lift us all.
Sincerely,
The Murphy Family, Reston VA
Paul, Kate (1979 & 1987), Daniel (2011), Kevin and Aidan
Cat Young
May 29, 2008 at 12:41 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I pray that you and your family come together and find strength in one another as you go through these difficult times.
Thinking of you,
Cat Young - The French School '02
Carrie Ryan
Vicky Gilbert
Shelley Christian
Janet Lizotte
May 29, 2008 at 11:35 AM
We are all so saddened at hearing the news of your son Nick. We work at the college, and have followed the news of his disapearance, worrying and thinking and praying about him. Deep down we were all hoping things would turn out okay. We are praying and thinking of you and your family.
Carrie Ryan
Vicky Gilbert
Shelley Christian
Janet Lizotte
Adam Morgan
May 29, 2008 at 9:11 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I was not fortunate enough to know Nick. I do know many people who did know and have much respect for him though, and I know that this is a terrible, terrible loss for them and all of Middlebury, your family included. My and all other students' thoughts are with you, and I am so sorry.
Sincerely,
Adam Morgan, Middlebury class of 2008.5
Cassie Davidson
May 29, 2008 at 8:19 AM
I am deeply sad for your lose. With the lose of nick your now becomes one rememberance. He will always be a liitle boy. His Christmas when he know there was no Santa and yet pretended to believe. He was a sight to be scene at that high school dance, There was joy and always will be. You are better for having him and being there.
Nick is loved and missed
Patty Bertolino and Family
May 29, 2008 at 7:23 AM
Dear Natalie and Family,
Our thoughts are with you.
Love,
Patty Bertolino and Family
Mason, Ohio
Stacy Lewis
May 29, 2008 at 7:19 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza & Damon -
Please know you have my deepest sympathy for your loss. I have been following your son's disappearance since day one and although I have been too far away to join in a daily physical search for Nick ... you & he have been a large part of my mental search & thoughts ... both day & night. It is completely unthinkable to lose someone you love and with that thought in mind ... I mentally reached out to each of you with my thoughts and prayers. Please know I still hold very tightly a place for you in my heart. I am however thankful that your pain of not knowing has finally come to an end.
God bless your family and know that there is so many out there still praying for you daily. Reach out to those that offer to be there for you ... and for those of you that can only give a smile, hug, or maybe even just share a tear with no words ... please do. Sometimes you just don't know the power in the most simplistic action!
Stacy Lewis
Claremont, NH
Melissa Feria
May 29, 2008 at 6:52 AM
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Garza,
I'm not sure if you remember me but my name is Melissa Feria (daughter of Dennis & Mary Lou)
and I used to hang out with Nick when I was younger and even had the opportunity to go with
Dimitrius, Nick, and Damon to the Elephant Butte a few years back. Nick was a wonderful guy who
was nice, funny, smart, talented and I wish i would've gotten see you guys more. I remember Nick
loved Sublime and he was the first to show me them! I'll never forget that. There's not enough i can
say to make any of this better but I'm deeply sorry and I wish you guys happiness. If there is any
more info on the services for Nick I'd love to go and say one last good bye to him.
Thank You,
Melissa
Sara Lowes
May 29, 2008 at 6:43 AM
I wish there was something I could say other than that I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Nick. I am thinking of you and your family.
Sara Lowes
Middlebury College
Pierre Williams
May 29, 2008 at 6:38 AM
Dear Garza family,
My prayers go out to God for you during this time. I pray He surrounds you with the peace and comfort that only He can provide. Just as Jesus wept over Lazarus I know He is weeping over Nicholas. May His loving arms embrace you and may your lives forever be filled with loving, happy memories of Nicholas.
Pierre Williams
Susan Ciconte
May 29, 2008 at 6:36 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I moved to New Mexico from Minnesota in January, and have kept abreast of Nick's disappearance since my arrival. I'm heartbroken for you as to what we all now know. I keep you in my prayers that you will be all right in the coming days and months. I know that God is weeping along with all of us during this difficult time, especially for your family.
Susan Ciconte
Albuquerque
Melissa Steffan
May 29, 2008 at 6:33 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Nick touched all of us involved in Debate in New Mexico and our community is mourning with you. May God be with you during this most difficult of times.
Melissa Steffan
Eldorado Speech & Debate
New Mexico Speech & Debate Association
Leona
May 29, 2008 at 6:23 AM
I just had to write and tell you that you are not alone in your grief. I, too recently, lost my father and there are no words to describe the loss or the way you feel. The world just keeps going around you, life goes on, and you must keep going too but you can't help but feel that a mountain somewhere must have moved or something must be differernt somehwere because your whole world has changed...your whole world is different....and nothing will be the same again. God bless you, Nick and your entire family.
Leona
Rio Rancho, NM
Tom & Kerry Fachan
May 29, 2008 at 6:23 AM
Hi Natalie,
Kerry and I have been following the happenings in Vermont since this past winter when news was in the Albuquerque media about Nick. Kerry, Jennifer, and I have moved from Albuquerque and are now living in Kaneohe Hawaii.
We are deeply saddened about Nick and the immense pain that this has to have inflicted upon your family. My memories of Nick and playing the piano will remain with me forever. He was not only a wonderful student but a joyful soul, so full of life, care, and love. It is at times like these that I realize how incompetent words can seem… I prefer to remember the sounds of the piano playing out a tribute of theme and rhythm – played by Nick. He did so well himself!
Bless you & Nick…
Tom & Kerry Fachan
Sharon Calhoun
May 29, 2008 at 6:11 AM
As a fellow New Mexican I have been following your sad story. My heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Sharon Calhoun
Los Alamos, NM
Natalie Gutierrez
May 29, 2008 at 5:55 AM
Natalie,
Our condolences go out to you and your family. As a mother I can't imagine the pain and emotions you endured. Our prayers have been with you and your family. We are friends with Todd and Vanessa. I have let Todd know if there is anything we can do to help you and your family back in Alb. please let us know. We are here for you and the family.
With Love, Prayers, and Condolences,
Paul, Natalie, Breana & Nickolas Gutierrez
Shela Boback
May 29, 2008 at 5:54 AM
Dearest Natalie and Family,
I am so sorry to have read about Nick, I hate to hear of anyone that loses a child; I cannot imagine your pain and sorrow.
I can only tell you that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and may God ease your pain and bless you with his sweet love during this time. Know he is safe and in the arms of our Lord.
Deepest Sympathies
Shela
Tennessee
Karen
May 29, 2008 at 5:35 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't tell you what I feel, I am a parent also and feel so deeply your loss. I have been following this story since April, when visiting my daughter in college in VT. and I feel like I know Nick. I felt like I knew something happened, I just wanted you to find him. So that is a good thing, that you did find him. I know something bad happened, I do believe that this needs to be looked into. These boys are not just walking off. Whatever I can do, please let me know. I am in tears, I wish I could have really knew Nick, I know he was special!My Love and Prayers always.
Karen
Deb Bouton
May 29, 2008 at 5:33 AM
Natalie, Damon and family,
I know your grief is immeasurable. I have felt so much pain just following this story since february; I cannot fathom the strength it has taken to endure the months of uncertainty, and now the reality of Nick's death. How hard it is to want to help lessen your pain and sorrow, but know there is no way to do so. I write from Burlington, where I have followed this painful saga from the beginning. I hope you know how many hearts have bled for you these past 4 months, and now bleed further still. Please know that you are in the hearts and prayers of so many here in Vermont.
In peace, Deb Bouton
Christa A.
May 29, 2008 at 5:20 AM
I’m very, very sorry about the news. I’m a sophomore this
year at Academy and although I did not know Nick, I know that my classmates and
I are very sorry about everything that happened. We are all praying for you and
you’re family and Nick’s friends and acquaintances and anyone who is affected
by this. We have the deepest condolences and our hearts go out to everyone.
Everyone will remember him and I know we will all keep him in our memories, minds,
and hearts.
Christa A.
Kelley Benway
May 29, 2008 at 4:35 AM
Dear Mrs. Garza,
I was very saddened to hear the news today. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in knowing that Nick is with God now. You have been a strong, courageous mother throughout the past few months. Your son was blessed to have such a loving, committed mom. I pray that in time you will feel less pain and more joy in remembering the time you had with Nick.
Peace be with you.
Kelley Benway
Derby, Vt
James Wright
May 29, 2008 at 4:33 AM
Another family shares your sorrow deeply. We are with you at this heartbreaking time.
JW
Michelle Lopez
May 29, 2008 at 4:08 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
M. Lopez
Las Vegas, NV
Colleen Greene
May 29, 2008 at 3:41 AM
Oh Natalie, I am so sorry for the loss of your exceptional son. My husband is a Middlebury College Grad class of 63. We have been following the updates hoping for good news. However, at least Nick has been found and there can be some rest. Nick would be proud of you and your determination to find him. May you all take care and love and nurture little Damon. Know you are in my thoughts.
Colleen
Duane S. Wilcox
May 29, 2008 at 3:08 AM
Please know that Nick and you all have been in the thoughts and prayers of the extended Middlebury family. Though these prayers have not brought the result we had hoped for, please take comfort in the knowledge that God is doing more for Nick than any of us can desire or pray for.
You continue in my thoughts and prayers.
Duane S. Wilcox
Middlebury ‘77
Mami Trussell
May 29, 2008 at 2:32 AM
Dear Ms. Garza and son:
I read the story of your son Nick and I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am to hear of his tragic passing. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time of great grief and loss. There is no greater pain than that of a mother losing her precious child. Your beautiful son sounds like he was an amazing individual and truly possessed many gifts in his young life. I pray that you and your young son find solace in the memories of your beloved Nick.
Please know that even strangers care and are saddened by your loss. May God bless you, comfort you and give you strength.
In deepest sympathy,
Mami T.
California
Judy Galloway
May 29, 2008 at 2:25 AM
Dear Natalie, I am so sorry. I am so sorry that your beautiful boy has died. I am so sorry that the world will never truly know the gifts that he possessed and would have contributed to the world. I want you to know how fiercely proud I am of you. I feel so fortunate to have witnessed what a caring and tenacious person you are. Nick was found because of you. You never gave up, you stood by him and protected his right to be found. I am proud to call myself a mother when I see a Mother like you. Bless you for your love and courage. My deepest sympathies,
Judy Galloway
Carol Drake
May 29, 2008 at 2:22 AM
It is with My families deepest sympathies and heart felt prayers that I write to you. I was watching the News and as a mother myself, I could not bare the bad news of Nick being found. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers. May God comfort you in your times to come.
C. Drake
Moriarty, NM
Susan Randall
May 29, 2008 at 2:03 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am writing this as I weep for your loss. While it is unbearable right
now, eventually time will help ease some of your suffering.
I send prayers of healing for your family.
Susan Randall
A friend of Lynne Schulze and her family
Liz Le Blanc
May 29, 2008 at 2:00 AM
Hello, I live in Vermont and have been hoping that Nick would be found safe. I am a mother and can not imagine how hard this has been on you and your family. I hope you all can somehow come through this awful tragedy. I am so sad for you. I hope Nick is now able to watch over you all and you will all be ok.
Love, Liz
Charles Robinson
May 29, 2008 at 1:46 AM
We are in the process of moving to Middlebury and are graduates of the college. Have been following the situation also because we lost a daughter to a car accident in October, 07. It is very difficult and we can't imagine how much more difficult it must be for your family. Our hearts go out to you.
We walked across the foot bridge several times last weekend and thought of all this. We recalled something in the Addie Indi about possibilities for a park in the immediate area where your son was found. It seems a fitting memorial. If we can help, put out the word.
Charlie and Heather
Greta Wells
May 29, 2008 at 1:42 AM
To the Garza Family,
You found him ... What a fine young man ... I wish it had been different for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
A Middlebury Mom 96
Greta Wells
Julie Boyd
May 29, 2008 at 1:31 AM
Dear Natalie and family,
We have never met, but Robert Garza was my great uncle. My mother, Eva Bernard, attended his funeral in March in San Antonio, and met your husband. I have been checking the website regularly on your search for Nick, and remembered you all in my prayers. I am so sad, and so sorry for your loss, however, I'm glad he had been found.
God bless you all,
Julie Boyd and family
Teresa Leifeste
May 29, 2008 at 1:11 AM
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Nicholas. I can only imagine the pain. I am thankful he was found, but extremely sorry about his death.
Prayers of peace are with your family.
Teresa Leifeste
Brady, Texas
Kathy Donahue
May 29, 2008 at 1:09 AM
Dear Natalie,
As a mother I can barely imagine your pain tonight and although I wanted your beautiful Nick to come home to you so that somehow you could find some peace, I prayed like so many that perhaps he would be found safe. From his smiling pictures and that of his young brother, it is so clear that he was a happy loving young man and you a wonderful mother. It is not enough to say he is in god's hands because even tho we must believe that I know that it must be impossible for you to make sense of this tragedy. My son graduated from Middlebury in 2002 and it is a wonderful community. May the knowledge that that community and that of people far and wide are thinking of you and praying for you bring you some strength in the days to come.
Kathy Donahue
Rutland, VT.
Ed Nobach
May 29, 2008 at 1:02 AM
To Nick's Family,
Reading about your boy just makes my heart ache for you! Please, know that my sympathy is with you and your family. I have two son's that mean the world to me and can only imagine your grief. I will be praying that the truth about his disappearance come's to light. There is just "too much" of this happening in our world today. My prayers are with you so much!
Sincerely,
Caroline Nobach
Mary Jane Martin
May 29, 2008 at 1:01 AM
Dear Natalie and Family:
My Grandson, Dylan, graduated from the Albuquerque Academy last year and Nick sat next to him on graduation day. I saw a great resemblance in these two boys. And even though, I don't know you, my heart went out to you ever since the first day that the news broke out about Nick's disappearance. I want you to know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since.
There is so much that you can be proud of in the things that Nick did, said and accomplished during his life time. May all the blessed and precious memories of the things he did help you bear the cross and give you strengthened courage to make the very darkest day a brighter one.
We will keep you in our prayers and may God's love comfort you and continue to give you and your family strength, and lighten your grief of loss during these difficult times. I want to praise you for being so amazing through suffering and painful times, and for the loving parent that you are.
With Love and Compassion
Dylan's Grandmother
Dale Piper
May 29, 2008 at 1:00 AM
Natalie,
I was at the press conference that you gave earlier in the spring and since that day I have wished that there was something concrete that I could have done for you. As a mother myself, my heart just breaks when I think of what you have been through and have yet to go through. Thank God you have Damon -- from your description, another amazing boy. Give him extra hugs for me. And a big one for you, Natalie.
You struck me as a strong woman -- you'll need all of that and more now. But you know that.
Bless you and Damon,
Dale Piper
Sarah Whitcomb
May 29, 2008 at 12:43 AM
Dear Garza Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. When I heard, I was stunned and extremely saddened. I can't imagine what you're going through; you and Nick are in my prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Sarah Whitcomb
Richmond, VT
Glen Foss
May 29, 2008 at 12:19 AM
We also know of loss. Our 20 year old son died while on a semester abroad. We have walked the path that is before you and are available to speak with you of it. Surely you are overwhelmed right now with all that comes with this nightmare. When things subside, you may wish to contact us. Those who know of loss are standing by and can assist you and your family through the dark night of the soul. Hang on...
Glen Foss
Maine
Chris Wolfe & Family
May 28, 2008 at 11:57 PM
“What the heart has once known, it shall never forget.” – Author Unknown
My heart is heavy for your loss and my family and I will continue to keep yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Our Deepest Condolences,
Chris Wolfe & Family
Eau Claire, WI
Tristan
May 28, 2008 at 11:54 PM
As a mom, I just wanted to tell you that your family and Nick will be in my prayers. It must be a great consolation to know that Nick was loved and knew he was loved. What more can any mother do? Peace,
Tristan
Mary-Lou Humphries
May 28, 2008 at 11:45 PM
Mrs. Garza and your whole family:
I want to send my prayers to you all. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have kept Nick in my prayers since Feb.
I am just a Mother and Grandmother and Widow from Middlebury, who knows your pain. I know that things will get better, even tho right now you can't understand how this could be. I now will keep your family in my prayers. Yhere is nothing else one can say at a time like this.....just know people, even stangers are thinking about you and praying.
Mary-Lou Humphries
Katy Rinehart
May 28, 2008 at 11:25 PM
To the Garza family:
My profoundest sympathies are with you. I have followed the story of Nick’s disappearance since February, praying daily for his safe return. My heart breaks for you—his beautiful face and smile on your website reflect all the love you poured into raising him. How I wish the news were different.
Sincerely,
Katy Rinehart
Moorestown, NJ
(mother of Kelsey Rinehart, Middlebury ’06)
Lydia Whitney
May 28, 2008 at 11:22 PM
i just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. sometimes god takes angels from us before we are ready to let them go. my love to you all.
Jeniffer M. Vale
May 28, 2008 at 11:19 PM
To the Garza family:
My deepest condolences on the passing of your son. I was and still am praying for you all.
Regards,
Jeniffer M. Vale
Laura Kotz
May 28, 2008 at 11:09 PM
My condolences. I followed this story and prayed he would be found save. My heart breaks for you. May his memory comfort you.
LCK
Greensboro NC
Kelley Blair
May 28, 2008 at 10:50 PM
I can only express my deepest sympathy to you all at this terrible loss.
May you know that Nick is now with GOD. He is now safe in HIS arms. That
should comfort you all to know that he is now SAFE.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all (especially Damon). Damon...you
now have an Angel watching over you!
Kelley Blair
Nashville, TN
Kelly Jai Carpenter
May 28, 2008 at 10:57 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, and family,
As the mother of two boys who are 20 and 16, the sadness I feel for your family comes from my truest depth of heart. We don't know why these terrible things happen- we wish they didn't. I was touched to read your telling words that gave such insight into the beautiful soul who was so briefly Nicholas. You spoke of living your life in a way so as to honor Nicholas...Dear One, you have certainly done that. Your loving heart emanates in your words. Know that one more person is thinking of you and Damon, and sending you love and the most strongest, positive energy possible.
heart to heart,
Kelly Jai Carpenter
Oregon
Lori Bubigkeit
May 28, 2008 at 10:44 PM
Dear Family,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. Words cannot express the heartache that I know you feel. Unfortunately, we too have lost our 19 year old college sophomore son in December. Parents should not have to endure the pain of losing a child. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Lori Bubigkeit, mother of Ryan
Jane Buitron
May 28, 2008 at 10:38 PM
I To Nick’s parents and family, I just read this story on ABCnews.com. Your son was quite handsome. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Jane
Jeanette Olivas
May 28, 2008 at 10:35 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My heartfelt sympathy extends especially to you and your family for the loss of your son. I admire you for the strength the good LORD has given you throughout this ordeal. I don’t know what would be harder in your situation as being a “MOTHER” first of all to not know where, or what happened to your son, the distance between you and your son, and unfortunately the timeframe entailed to continue the search for his body, and to finally witness yourself his body being found. These have been such an extensive timeframe for you, and I pray for peace and closure not only now but in the future.
I recently experienced with my son living in another State, the fear of his family experiencing a tornado in his area, our only contact was by phone, I was so scared and yet helpless because I was in a completely different State (not that I could have helped or changed anything) but just the fear. I thought of you and since I have followed the story of your son since the beginning, my heart hurt and felt pain for your loss.
God Bless you, and give you the strength and peace you require to continue life and go forward, for he has a plan for all of us, and we never know what we have in store for us tomorrow or the next days to follow.
Jeanette
New Mexico
Shelley Olguin
May 28, 2008 at 10:20 PM
Hello,
Been following the story on Nick, sorry for your loss of your beloved son. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Olguin Family from Northern New Mexicov
Suzanne Slesar
May 28, 2008 at 10:19 PM
Dear Natalie,
You and your family have been in my thoughts every day. Yesterday afternoon I even got online to see if there had been any updates...then last night I heard the news...for some reason I always know things...(I'm the woman who told you about our friend that owns the power dam). Sometimes it's not so great to always know things...but I do know that my thoughts are with you and your family...give Damon lots of hugs and loving. He will bring joy into your lives, as will the memories of Nick. We will never forget all we've learned about what an amazing young man he was....you have the strength of ten thousand women to stay in Vermont and see it through.
Peace,
Suzanne
Michael Edson
May 28, 2008 at 10:10 PM
It's all too sad. I am relieved that Nick has been found and will continue to pray for the Garza Family. We were all hoping and praying for a different outcome. Just know that he is with God now and that your angel is safe. My heartfelt condolences go out to Nick's family and friends. Trust me when I say all of Vermont is saddened by this event.
Michael Edson,
Rutland Vermont.
Martha McSherry
May 28, 2008 at 10:10 PM
As a Middlebury College graduate who lives in Vermont and is the mother of another Middlebury graduate who lives in Albuquerque, I cannot begin to tell you have frequently I have thought of you. I'm so sorry that things turned out the way they did and hope that you can begin to find some peace.
Martha McSherry
Kim Frazier
May 28, 2008 at 10:00 PM
God be with you and your family. There is little else to say – I lost a child of my own nearly 10 years ago, and only know that sometimes there are never enough words. But I learned that God’s grace is without end, and will no doubt carry you through each day until Heaven reunites one and all. May peace be upon you today…and the days to come.
Kimberly
Elizabeth Armstrong
May 28, 2008 at 9:57 PM
Dear Mrs. Garza, Damon and family,
I am so sorry to learn that your beautiful boy, Nick, is gone from this world. Your statement about your loss was so eloquent. You have a great deal to proud of in all of Nick’s accomplishments and in the way that you conducted this search for him. Most notably, you were able to introduce this amazing person, Nicholas Garza, to everyone on your website. Each and every one of us who have been following your courageous search have been so impressed with your first born son. I watched the videos on your website and was amazed at how much Nick loved his younger brother, Damon. My heart goes out to your younger son.
I wish you continued strength as you continue on your journey.
Liz Armstrong
Susan Garcia
May 28, 2008 at 9:58 PM
All of our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Susan Garcia
Co-worker & Friend
Juli Hibbard
May 28, 2008 at 9:46 PM
Dear Natalie and family,
I do not know you, or Nick, but I have been following this story closely since he first disappeared. I kept holding out hope they would find your son unharmed. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that words will not help much now, but I just wanted to let you know you have so many thoughts and prayers out there, even from complete strangers.
With deepest sympathy,
Juli Hibbard
Vickie Terry
May 28, 2008 at 9:41 PM
How very sad I feel as I read about your son. May the spirit of our Lord God lift up you and your family in your hours of sorrow.
Nancy Cohen
May 28, 2008 at 9:39 PM
As the mother of a fellow Middlebury freshman, I have been following your tragic search closely, and, although there are no words to express my profound sympathy for your loss, I offer them anyway from the bottom of my heart. May you and the rest of your family take comfort in knowing.
Nancy Cohen
Kate Fitzpatrick
May 28, 2008 at 9:25 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God guide you always.
With deepest condolences,
Kate and Paul Fitzpatrick
NY, NY
Tim Rollenhagen
May 28, 2008 at 9:24 PM
Our prayers and best wishes go out to you and your family during this terrible time. I am sorry...
The Rollenhagen family
Steve, Lorna, Preston and his teammate Braxton Rel
May 28, 2008 at 8:36 PM
Dear Garza Family
We are all very sad for your loss. Nick will be missed in person, but please remember he is with our LORD, and is still with you in spirit. I truly believe that our loved ones that have pasted are never far away. Nick will be with you at times like this to help you with your grief. Please give Damon a hug for me, and let him know we have not forgotten him. I have gifts from the NHL for him when he is ready, I also have his hockey trophy.
Our Deepest Sympathy
Steve, Lorna, Preston and his teammate Braxton Rel
Michele Mersinger
May 28, 2008 at 8:31 PM
I also have a 19 year old son named Nicholas.
He is serving in the Air Force and will be deployed in Sept to Iraq.
My biggest fear is losing my Nick!
I can not fathom your pain and grief.
Keep me in your prayers and I will have you in mine!
God Bless.
Michele M.
Elena
May 28, 2008 at 8:14 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with the Garza family during this very difficult time. Although I did not know Nick, I have been praying for you. Know that he is in Heaven with the Lord and I pray to God to carry you through this.
My deepest sympathies,
Elena
May 28, 2008 at 8:05 PM
Our prayers are for the family of Nicholas Garza. May God heal your hearts and dry your tears.
Flo Sizemore
May 28, 2008 at 8:04 PM
Dear Garza Family,
I cannot express the grief that I feel for you, your family and friends. I kept hoping and praying for someone to find Nick and be reunited with him unharmed. I cannot understand who or why someone would want to deliberately hurt such a fine young man.
My youngest son is his age with many similarities of blessings in music, philosophy and has an easy smile. My heart goes out to all of you.
May God bless you all and bring you peace at this time.
Strength be with all of you-
Flo B. Sizemor
Lori Hammell
May 28, 2008 at 7:58 PM
I had been following this story from CT, and was so sorry to hear of your loss today. May God bless and comfort you all and give you strength during this very difficult time. He is with our Lord now in peace.
Lori Hammell
The Benson family
May 28, 2008 at 7:54 PM
Our prayers are with you.
The Benson family
Sharon
May 28, 2008 at 7:59 PM
I wish to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I cry everyday I read about another loss of a life. I pray for you and all of your family and friends that God gives you all strength to continue on with your lives. I pray you continue to have faith and find understanding as to how such a terrible tragedy could happen to such a fine young man and your family.
God Bless!
Sharon from Houston, Tx.
Stephanie Gabaldon
May 28, 2008 at 7:51 PM
Natalie,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. There is no bond strong than that of a mother and child, stay strong and know that Nick is always with you.
Stephanie Gabaldon
Gia Biden
May 28, 2008 at 7:48 PM
My heart is with you, Natalie, and Damon, in Middlebury today. I can only think that Nick was too good for this world. I can tell by the photos and footage of him that he is special and magical and wonderful.
Gia Biden
Williamstown, VT
Michelle R. Johnson
May 28, 2008 at 7:46 PM
Natalie and Garza Family,
I am extremely saddened by the news. My heart goes out to you. I trust that you will find peace in your heart knowing that Nick is in good hands now. Take comfort in your loving memories of him. We should live every day to the fullest inspired by stories of Nick and his life. Although, I never had the opportunity to meet him, I’m sure he was a great person: you did a wonderful job of nurturing him. You are in my prayers!
God bless you,
Michelle R. Johnson
Albuquerque New Mexico
Carol Barker
May 28, 2008 at 7:41 PM
My heart is broken for your family even tho I do not know you. I can not imagine what you must be feeling. I have prayed for the Lord to comfort all of you at this time.
love, Carol Barker
Jose and Olga Aljure
May 28, 2008 at 7:41 PM
Dear Natalie,
We received with great sorrow the sad news about Nick. No words can describe what you, Damon, Lorry, Tanya, Todd and the rest of the family must be going through. You all are in our prayers so that God will grant you all the strength you need to endure your great loss.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you alleviate your sorrow.
May God bless you all and keep Nick in the Highest of His Glory.
Love,
Jose and Olga Aljure
Joan L Taylor
May 28, 2008 at 7:37 PM
Natalie:
We heard in the news last night about Nicholas and we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers have been with your family. Our family knows how difficult it has been for you and your family. We are still searching for loved ones, Michael and Kyle who were lost at Wolf Creek, Colorado in January.
Our love goes out to you.
Joan Taylor
Michael’s Aunt
Christine Robinson
May 28, 2008 at 7:36 PM
so very, very sorry.
Another Academy Parent
Noah Valdez
May 28, 2008 at 7:32 PM
Dear Damon and family,
We heard the sad news about Nick last night through Dalton. We will continue to pray for you and your family during these hard times. Noah can't wait to play with you again. Stay strong.
Sincerely,
Noah Valdez and family
Lissa Lucht & family
May 28, 2008 at 7:27 PM
Dearest Natalie-
Our heartfelt condolences are being sent to you via this email message. We are truly sorry for your loss, for the pain you've gone through, what a horrible journey it has been for you and your family. You are a "MOTHER OF GREAT COURAGE" with so much fortitude to find her son. We admire you for your enduring courage through all of this. May you find peace (somehow) through this tragedy.
God Bless you,
Lissa Lucht & family
Ben Wilson
May 28, 2008 at 7:02 PM
My heart goes out to Nick's family and friends during the whole of this tramatic event. I cannot imagine what all of you must be going through, but I hope now Nick has been found, you can begin to find some form of peace.
The obvious love so many people had for Nick is very humbling, it reminds me everyday to cherish those near to me, as this sad event should remind all of us, we don't what's around the next corner.
Once again my deepest sympathies.
Ben Wilson, Nottingham, England.
Kris Picard
May 28, 2008 at 6:59 PM
My heart aches for you, as a mom, for the loss of her child. May you find peace in the company of loved ones during this most difficult time.
Kris Picard
Brandon, VT
Deborah Turner
May 28, 2008 at 6:56 PM
Mrs. Garza,
I do not know you nor your beautiful son. I saw the news report which made my heart return to the loss of one of our young family members last year. May God grant you and your family the strength and comfort to go through these days and the days ahead.Your family will be in our prayers and thoughts.
Deborah Turner
TN
Evan Thomas
May 28, 2008 at 6:51 PM
i am so very very sorry for your loss. i am so deeply saddened by the loss of such a great spirit, a beautiful being with such potential. i wish you every blessing during this time of unspeakable tragedy. my heart pours forth the warmest embrace as you search for a way to go on. may you be showered in a thousand hugs, and may flowers spring up in the place nicholas occupied in your life. i send you great waves of love.
Joyce Persing
May 28, 2008 at 6:40 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, and Family,
We have thought and felt for you every day and what you have been through. It is with deepest sadness that this news comes. Please know that we will be there to honor Nick and support you all at the gathering in remembrance of Nick.
With deepest sympathy,
Joyce Persing & friends of Lynne Schulze (Middlebury College freshman who disappeared in 1971 and has never been found)
John W. Hersperger
May 28, 2008 at 6:38 PM
Our prayers are with the Garza family. So terribly sorry to learn of
your loss. Nick and his family will never be far from our thoughts.
John ('86) and Pam Hersperger (UVM '88).
Lynda Inis
May 28, 2008 at 6:32 PM
Natalie,
All my words just seem to get in the way of what I am feeling. I keep thinking about something that happened so long ago. Ethan was 5 yrs old and was hit by a car in front of our house. I remember looking at my beloved father-in-law hopelessly and asking him how we could go through life if we lost our beautiful son. He looked me straight in the eyes and said firmly, “I know how. I would be grateful that I had the opportunity to know such a tremendous boy and I would consider every day I had with him the greatest gift of all.” Those words have stayed with me for 13 years and they brought me comfort in a time of need. I hope they do the same for you.
We will always continue to hold Nick close to our hearts and be grateful that we had the opportunity to know this tremendous young man.
The Innis’
Jim, Lynda, Ethan, and Samantha
Carroll Cummings
May 28, 2008 at 6:23 PM
I am very sorry for your tragedy I was hoping and praying he would come back to you alive and well.
Carroll Cummings '86
Brattleboro, VT
Bonnie Mathieu
May 28, 2008 at 6:26 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, Family & Friends,
We live in Vermont and have followed the search for Nicholas since February with hope that the search results would be positive. We learned of the tragic news this morning and please no our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Nick's many friends during this difficult time.
Bonnie Mathieu & Family
Trish O'Neill
May 28, 2008 at 6:12 PM
Dear Natalie and Family,
My heart aches for you and I cannot fathom the pain you must be now experiencing at the lost of you darling boy. I have followed your terrible journey since my son, a student at Middlebury, told me that Nick was missing and I have checked daily for updates. Everyone I have told about Nick, here in Moraga, California, have been concerned and have been asking about him since his disappearance.
Nick is in my prayers and a Mass will be offered in his name at St. Monica Church.
I am so sorry...
Trish O'Neill
Moraga, California
Mother of Patrick O'Neill, Class of 2011
Cindy Theil
May 28, 2008 at 6:08 PM
Dear Garza family,
I just want to send my sympathy to you. I feel your pain, I just lost my
son and his girl friend 3 weeks ago. They were college students in Athens,
OH. As with your son, our children were deeply loved and will be sadly
missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Nick's
friends at this difficult time.
Thank You.
Lauren Weeth
May 28, 2008 at 6:06 PM
Dear Natalie and family,
I have been following news regarding Nick's disappearance since February, and my heart broke this morning when I saw the tragic new headlines. Although I am not yet a mother, I know what it is like to be deeply loved and sustained by a great one like you, and I cannot imagine the pain of losing one side of that precious bond. Even though I did not know Nick, we grew up in the same Albuquerque Academy and greater New Mexico communities, and I hope that the energy and love from friends and strangers back home will sustain you through this tremendously difficult time. I am grieving with you and your loved ones in the days to come, and I wish you every possible comfort that you are able to take from each passing day.
With love in sadness,
Lauren Weeth (AA Class of '01)
John Kirkland
May 28, 2008 at 5:55 PM
Sorry for your loss.....
John Kirkland
AA Class of 1965
Mary Ellen
May 28, 2008 at 5:51 PM
My deepest sympathy at this news. My prayers are with you and you family. It is unimaginable. I volunteered one weekend in April combing the banks of the creek. You have been in my prayers as I go to bed each night . My boyfriend, who works the night shift, brought the paper home to me this morning...
Please find condolence in that God must have needed a very special angel to have picked this very special soul.
In thoughts & prayers.
Sincerely,
Mary Ellen
The Laws family
May 28, 2008 at 5:50 PM
I am so very sorry for you loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through right now. Please take comfort in knowing that your Nicholas is now in a much better place and is still being a wonderful big brother as a guardian angel. I pray that God will help to heal your hearts and will bring justice for those responsible if someone is responsible. Please be strong and know that an entire country is praying for you and your family.
The Laws family
Sarah Ford
May 28, 2008 at 5:42 PM
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult
time. I have heard abut Nick from Charlie Eisenhood's family (I am
Charlie's aunt), and know what a special person he was.
With deepest sympathy,
Sarah Ford and family, Sonoma, CA
Adam Barros
May 28, 2008 at 5:28 PM
To Garza and family,
You taught me so much about myself. I can't help but reminisce about every class we had together during the Academy days. I was blessed to have you in a class almost every year and in turn had some of the greatest times of my life. You taught me how to laugh at myself and not be so serious. I will always remember you walking in late to Sid Stockdale's class late and how he would harass you to buy us bagels for being tardy. You also taught me that sometimes, you have to let go and be adventurous. When I heard you were going to Barcelona, I thought of how fun and exciting that sounded and every day of summer wished I could be experiencing the world in that way.
To Nick's family, he was really a wonderful guy who left me with a lasting mark that I will cherish always. My prayers are with you.
RIP Nick Garza
Most importantly, thank you.
Michelle O'Donnell
May 28, 2008 at 5:28 PM
Dear Natalie,
As a fellow Middlebury parent I am so deeply saddened today to know of your loss. While no one can truly understand what you are going through, moms all over are sharing your pain today to the extent that we can. I do hope that you always remember that you had the strength to be there for Nick and do all that you could do for him.May all of your fond memories remain vivid in your heart and mind. WIth deep sadness I offer you our thoughts and prayers as you face this day.
WIth deepest sympathy,
Michelle
Richmond, Va.
Janet Sanchez and Family
May 28, 2008 at 5:15 PM
Dear Natalie, Damon, Sierra, and Garza Family,
The news that Nick has been found has paralyzed us. We
continue to uplift prayers for strength and peace to
all of you and Nick's friends as you find your way
through the following minutes, hours, days, months,
and years. We're ready for you to come home with Nick.
Love,
Janet Sanchez and Family
Nathan & Cindy
May 28, 2008 at 5:08 PM
Dear Natalie and family:
I have felt so sad since the day I heard Nick came up missing but I never knew how to write you!! I felt a real presence from Nick's spirit!! I also have children and this is every mothers worse nightmare. I have suffered many horrid experiences with my children but thank god haven't lost one! I am sure Nick is with his loved ones friends and family who have pasted before him. They will with god's help care for him now. Natalie you have been such a dedicated mother and Nick will always be with you in you 'r heart just think about him daily and he will never leave you!! His spirit will always be with you to help you threw this hard time knowing that he loves you and misses you deeply and one day you will be rejoined in heaven where he will be waiting until it's you 'r time to see him again.My deepest sympathy Natalie my heart breaks for you and all Nick's friends and family!!
Another Fallen Angel 5/28/08
Another fallen angel has gone to the arms of god. His family and friends who have pasted before him are waiting with open arms. They will guide and protect him with all the love and guidance of god. Another fallen angel with so much more to live but got has an important purpose for him now but his spirit will live on inside of you until one day you will be together again.
William Carter
May 28, 2008 at 5:07 PM
Dear Family of Nicholas Garza,
I would like to offer my most sincere condolences on the l |